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When you hate, is it permanent? It takes some serious shit for me to start hating somebody, usually it involves hurting my friends. However, once I've started it doesn't end, doesn't burn itself out. Now, I don't want answers from the "hate only consumes you" people or whatever spiritual blabla you got, I want to hear from the people that DO hate... is it permanent? It is for me | |
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Most ppl I can forgive and forget (cos I am a big softie), and I hate to say I *hate* people, I would rather say I dislike them.. but in my walks of life I have come across some people who I do hate, and will always..
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I don't hate. Well I hate W. Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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CynthiasSocks said: I don't hate. Well I hate W.
W? do you hate X Y and Z also? | |
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There are two women in my life I hate. They've never been close and the hatred on both sides was felt on day one I met them. One was the boss of the shop I worked in for a month when I was 19, the other one was the owner of the house (or the room) I rented when I was 18. Both were very hateful. They were nasty, incredible nasty. I won't tell the stories because they make me mad.
If they would die, I would only be glad that there is no more chance I'd have to meet them once again. Bitches. Next to that, there are people I dislike, of course, but that's no hate, at all. | |
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2 persons...because they damaged me when i was a child...
nowadays...no one...it's not worth my energy | |
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REDFEATHERS said: CynthiasSocks said: I don't hate. Well I hate W.
W? do you hate X Y and Z also? Bush! Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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CynthiasSocks said: REDFEATHERS said: W? do you hate X Y and Z also? Bush! | |
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fantasyislander said: CynthiasSocks said: Bush! George Bush! Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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its really not worth 'hating' someone because for the most part the other person really doesnt care if you hate them One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift an artist with no fans is really just a man with a hobby.... | |
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Sorta. I don't ever give those people the privelege of talking with me again. | |
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sometimes the person that is being hated can become a victim of overt hostility.
there is no excuse if a person hurts another person, that can cause a serious rift and feelings of being insulted. however, once again in regard to the hatee, how long must the incident be relived in the minds of the haters? to have to work with haters is a living hell.....it can cause, stress which in turn can cause physical and psychological illness for the hatee. i say, no you don't have to like that person or put them into ur cicle of friends but to continue to display overt intolerance to the hatee is to develope a characteristic in the psyche that will one day come back to visit you. (you may inturn become a victim of "what goes around, comes around") continued displays of hatred is like a disease that can be passed on to your children and your chidren's chidren and so on and so on and so on. Plus in most cases women are the ones who keep the thread of hate going on by passing on their feelings regarding the hatee to others, and tainting the profile of said hatee. This really gives (us) women and bad rap in the eyes of our place as members of our communities. plus continued hatred causes one to develop harsh lines in the face at an early age [Edited 1/15/06 9:27am] [Edited 1/15/06 9:27am] i love you for who you are, not the one u feel u need to be.
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CynthiasSocks said: fantasyislander said: George Bush! i knew who you were talking about, that's what made it so hilarious!! | |
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Moderator | no. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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CynthiasSocks said: fantasyislander said: George Bush! now look what you did....you made Georgie sad. looking for you in the woods tonight Switch FC SW-2874-2863-4789 (Rum&Coke) | |
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IF ...i were to choose to hate ... NO, it would not be permanent
takes to much energy to stay in a place such as hate | |
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It takes a lot of energy 2 hate. U have 2 keep it going 4 a long time and all the work is done on your part. I say if U hate somebody that much, deal with it and get past it or U'll never move on with your life. Not 2 say that U have 2 forgive or even associate with the person who wronged U ever again, but don't let yourself bcome consumed by it. Listen to me on The House of Pop Culture podcast on itunes http://itunes.apple.com/u...d438631917 | |
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No. Hating someone is very draining physically and emotionally. I just people out of my mind. | |
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Y'all are some wishy washy pushovers | |
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CinisterCee said: Y'all are some wishy washy pushovers
Hell yeah. I specifically asked for the "hating takes too much energy" people to stay the fuck away. I'm NOT interested! | |
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REDFEATHERS said: but in my walks of life I have come across some people who I do hate, and will always..
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Teacher said: CinisterCee said: Y'all are some wishy washy pushovers
Hell yeah. I specifically asked for the "hating takes too much energy" people to stay the fuck away. I'm NOT interested! | |
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Nope, and when it becomes apathy, it's a wonderful thing | |
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Teacher said: CinisterCee said: Y'all are some wishy washy pushovers
Hell yeah. I specifically asked for the "hating takes too much energy" people to stay the fuck away. I'm NOT interested! | |
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Everybody's entitled to my love.....
Kill 'em with kindness, yes them to death.....that's my credo! ( where the FUCK is Spats????) | |
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Teacher said: CinisterCee said: Y'all are some wishy washy pushovers
Hell yeah. I specifically asked for the "hating takes too much energy" people to stay the fuck away. I'm NOT interested! don't hate the non-haters! | |
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I'm sad to say I hate someone. It took time, but this person is such a bitch to me for years that it became hate.
I'm not sure to be able to forgive him for all the bad things he has been keeping doing on and on. Unfortunatly I can not get rid of him, or take him out of my life. This kind of people should be judged because they get stronger each time they see they have power to be evil. For sure I will never show him how much I hate him. I don't want to give him the pleasure to see how much it hurts. It would give him power to be worse and worse. Some people can really be evil. | |
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virginie74 said: I'm sad to say I hate someone. It took time, but this person is such a bitch to me for years that it became hate.
I'm not sure to be able to forgive him for all the bad things he has been keeping doing on and on. Unfortunatly I can not get rid of him, or take him out of my life. This kind of people should be judged because they get stronger each time they see they have power to be evil. For sure I will never show him how much I hate him. I don't want to give him the pleasure to see how much it hurts. It would give him power to be worse and worse. Some people can really be evil. Its a shame.. but yes some people can be hateful.. and really eveil. | |
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