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HECKs NO! ..

He goes from house to house, eating their food .. stays a couple nites for some sex and some rest time, then heads over to the next
He don't pay child support, she on welfare, more than likely spending the money on some FOOD or a high, her girlfriends

How do woman feel about men who have multiple baby mama. And would you ever go with a guy KNOWING he has a few woman and many babies he don't support?

like brittany spears man! LOL

I wouldnt be interested in somebody who doesnt support his kids.

and hell no - men like this are to be strictly avoided....

catpark said:

... Foo!

Hey, she a fool! His girlfriends baby was less than a year old when Britney got pregnant!? .


And YOU KNOW, britney is not going to be his last

LleeLlee said:

.. One Word!! COWARD!

nakedpianoplayer said:

.. he yes!

TheCatWoman said:

i have other 'words' for men like this

YOU GO GIRLFRIENDs .... You KNOW's what you want and DON'T want

But, you would be surprised the number of dudes who have a bunch of kids, no job but a ton of "charm" -- and how easily they take in otherwise-reasonable women. Only to repeat the pattern with them. A female relative of mine bore such a man a child (like, #7 for him), married him and now realizes it all might have been a mistake.

nakedpianoplayer said:

..Please share

TheCatWoman said:

girl, you trying to get me in trouble ??

ThreadBare said:

OMG.. the charmers are the worse. How in the hell can you not see through a charmer? If he said it to you, he had MUCH practice. Oh No! . I will NEVER be charmed.

I ain't THAT deperate

nakedpianoplayer said:

NO

TheCatWoman said:

Being a father has more to do with being there for your children, not just the procreation, thats the easy part.
Its doing the parenting that I would call being a father.

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TheCatWoman said:

Yeah, I've little good to say about that dude. He believes in being taken care of, in contributing nothing, in just mooching.

He's taken off 5+ weeks from teaching because a kid tripped him...

LleeLlee said:

Exactly! And really, shit happens and "he" may be having financial difficulties but him showing his concern for their mental and emotional welfare is also so important. By him just being a part of their life helps out and shows his true concern for his children.

The guys I'm talkin bout, just get a girl pregnant and more than likely it's because he is showing his gratitude and "love" by giving her HIS baby. But once the baby comes, he don't support it in ANY way. And these woman KNOW he got other babies and baby mama's.

TheCatWoman said:

I was fortunate, my father was a strong presence in my life and I remember as a child, him taking me to school, taking me to the Doctors when I was ill.. but most of all.. just loving me.

TheCatWoman said:

mos definitely not! but he staying cuz the ride is good(money etc) once he gets bored of that he'll be gone!

catpark said:

mmmHmm

LleeLlee said:

That is awesome . I feel the same about my father
But I have a feeling we are the minority in these delightful kind of situations. I hear so many sad stories about the men, the most important man in a womans life; her father.

I'll respect a father, but not a guy leaving souvenirs
all over town.

Let me just say that I CAN understand how women would be stupid enough to get knocked by Mos Def or Allen Iverson - both of whom are dreamy & sweet & SEEM to have some level of sincerity...

...both of whom have HELLA KIDS/KIDS MOMMAS!!

I would never fall for such shit Fuck me, keep in touch... NO DEPOSITS

TheCatWoman said:

Children grow up though, and thats when they remember who did what and when....

just my two cents.

TheCatWoman said:

my daugther's father dotes on her they go everywhere together! they walk the same, talk the same, act the same everything!

CalhounSq said:

. NO DEPOSITs

man i hate "baby mama" makes me cringe

Mazerati said:

I TOTALLY hear you