What would you do if you really loved someone and you knew their feelings were the same for you but they backed away cos they are scared.. would you pursue them, or leave them alone?

Chances are, their feelings aren't really what you think. People use the term "scared" to dodge being honest.
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In other words, move on hon.

Jersey is right sweets... run like the wind.

REDFEATHERS said:

I would take her out, make it a dream date, good food & drinks, good conversations & laughs, flirt & dance....have fun....bring her home, one wet kiss on her doorstep and go home.....hoping for a text-message before I get home, hoping for her to call me the next day!


That's the way I'd like it to be, wehn feelings are mutual!

Y'ALL are the ones who are scared here!!!!!
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jerseykrs said:

REDFEATHERS said:

Well, I can't answer this one sweety, for I have never loved anybody




But, IF I did, say in my dreams. I would move on. Let things happen as they will and not force it. I mean, not that you are but some people do this and end up regreting it sooner or later.

I'm surprised by the replies here.....what happenend to romance ?

abierman said:

Me too.. arent you supposed to follow your heart and grab the chance while you can?

REDFEATHERS said:

yes, and I'll never give that up!

abierman said:

I'm the exact same way......but there aren't too many of us left.

abierman said:

Romance?

abierman said:

This is how I feel, but I could be waiting for ages for it to happen...

Byron said:

well.....I don't need many! If a woman can't see that I'm a good catch for the right reasons, then she's not worthy and I'll move on!

abierman said:

I feel I will never give up, but that stops me from living my present.. just wishing for the future..

REDFEATHERS said:

it's about dignity towards yourself.....no-one is worth giving that up, it has to be mutual! Stick to it!

abierman said:

And, THERE IT IS!

abierman said:

Interesting..

REDFEATHERS said:

words of wisdom from the bierman?? very interesting indeed . . .

fantasyislander said:

fantasyislander said:

I see.....I have to work on my reputation here.....

abierman said:

Advice given from the chat:

Orger: wtf is wrong with ure fucking puss red?


ME: puss??? what are you on about?

Orger: puss = face


Orger: bloody women with thier pmt and fucking problems. go buy a bag of maltesers and watch bridget jones diary and cheer ureself up u cunt




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RED

fuck chat, I never go there.....stick with me!

REDFEATHERS said:

want me to beat them up for you?? *cracking knuckles* i've already got a list started with the one who made nikki23 hate men . . .

REDFEATHERS said:

hard one to answer... IMO I'd leave it because if they're scared to persue anything then they're evidently not ready and the time isn't right

TheCatWoman said:

He is such a shit..

fantasyislander said:

you're just jealous.....