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Thread started 01/09/06 5:01pm

missfee

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My mom is getting on my fuckin' nerves

She's really pushing me to the limit. I'm ready to move out just to keep my sanity. I've never seen such a negative person, who really doesn't have it that bad to the next person, complain so damn much. I give her money each month just because I live in her house, and she still isn't satisfied. When I say that its time for me to move out, she doesn't believe that i'll make it on my own, she says "it's too dangerous to move out and you don't need to be moving out until you get married anyway", what a crock of shit. I know plenty of people my age (23) who don't give their parents shit and they do everything up in their parent's houses, oh but not me. And i still get shit....i told her "what do you want me to do, give you my whole entire check?" know what she said "yes", and i said "well you ain't getting it".....

she never has to hunt me down for money i give her each month, i always give it willingly...she's driving me fuckin' crazy

i graduate from college, i find a good paying job, i'm even learning programs that i quite don't know just so that i can start applying for more jobs paying even more money, but no, she doesn't see that...all she see's is her fuckin' bills going sky high, and someone to take it out on.

i'm so tired of this shit!!!!! mad mad mad

I'm sorry but I had to vent it out....
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Reply #1 posted 01/09/06 5:03pm

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Time to move out
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Reply #2 posted 01/09/06 5:10pm

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luv4u said:

Time to move out

lol

that time has come and gone wink
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Reply #3 posted 01/09/06 5:16pm

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MickG said:

luv4u said:

Time to move out

lol

that time has come and gone wink

yeesh thanks a lot mick....
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Reply #4 posted 01/09/06 5:17pm

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i moved 3 miles from my mom--close enough to get to her in an emergency, but just far enough away to keep my sanity. she called me today hysterical that there was a huge leak in her living room ceiling from the bathroom upstairs. i rush right over to see two drips of water on the floor. i ask her why she said it was flooding and she says " well i was just repeating what my nieces said (ages 9 and 10). mad

so i took a deep breath, tightened a washer screw, changed the hallway light bulb and took the trash out--and then came home.

the moral is--they put up with our dumb shit when we kids, so it's only fair i return the favor lol
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Reply #5 posted 01/09/06 5:20pm

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missfee said:

She's really pushing me to the limit. I'm ready to move out just to keep my sanity. I've never seen such a negative person, who really doesn't have it that bad to the next person, complain so damn much. I give her money each month just because I live in her house, and she still isn't satisfied. When I say that its time for me to move out, she doesn't believe that i'll make it on my own, she says "it's too dangerous to move out and you don't need to be moving out until you get married anyway", what a crock of shit. I know plenty of people my age (23) who don't give their parents shit and they do everything up in their parent's houses, oh but not me. And i still get shit....i told her "what do you want me to do, give you my whole entire check?" know what she said "yes", and i said "well you ain't getting it".....

she never has to hunt me down for money i give her each month, i always give it willingly...she's driving me fuckin' crazy

i graduate from college, i find a good paying job, i'm even learning programs that i quite don't know just so that i can start applying for more jobs paying even more money, but no, she doesn't see that...all she see's is her fuckin' bills going sky high, and someone to take it out on.

i'm so tired of this shit!!!!! mad mad mad

I'm sorry but I had to vent it out....


Oh I know EXACTLY how you feel. As a matter of fact, things were alright between me and my mom before I came out. Then I started getting lectures at 3 in the morning and shit. One night I was talking to a guy online, it wasn't cybersex or anything, and she was standing behind me the whole time. Then she started yelling at me. So I got up, got some trash bags, called my friend, packed my shit up and I was out THAT night. Not even an hour after she started yelling at me. And the whole time she was crying and shit telling me I can't make it on my own and I won't have anywhere to go and it's not fair for me to leave her and all that bullshit. Like she expected me to stay in the fucking house with her ass. Bitch, please.
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Reply #6 posted 01/09/06 5:26pm

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meltwithu said:

i moved 3 miles from my mom--close enough to get to her in an emergency, but just far enough away to keep my sanity. she called me today hysterical that there was a huge leak in her living room ceiling from the bathroom upstairs. i rush right over to see two drips of water on the floor. i ask her why she said it was flooding and she says " well i was just repeating what my nieces said (ages 9 and 10). mad

so i took a deep breath, tightened a washer screw, changed the hallway light bulb and took the trash out--and then came home.

the moral is--they put up with our dumb shit when we kids, so it's only fair i return the favor lol

lol sorry but i can only put with so much shit. it's time for me to make a move whether its saving an extra 200 dollars a month to move by myself, or find a roommate....
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Reply #7 posted 01/09/06 5:33pm

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missfee said:

meltwithu said:

i moved 3 miles from my mom--close enough to get to her in an emergency, but just far enough away to keep my sanity. she called me today hysterical that there was a huge leak in her living room ceiling from the bathroom upstairs. i rush right over to see two drips of water on the floor. i ask her why she said it was flooding and she says " well i was just repeating what my nieces said (ages 9 and 10). mad

so i took a deep breath, tightened a washer screw, changed the hallway light bulb and took the trash out--and then came home.

the moral is--they put up with our dumb shit when we kids, so it's only fair i return the favor lol

lol sorry but i can only put with so much shit. it's time for me to make a move whether its saving an extra 200 dollars a month to move by myself, or find a roommate....


If all else fails, just punch her in the mouth.
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Reply #8 posted 01/09/06 5:33pm

nilegettolrahc

I moved to another city when I was 18 and never returned (apart from occasional visits).
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Reply #9 posted 01/09/06 5:35pm

missfee

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nilegettolrahc said:

I moved to another city when I was 18 and never returned (apart from occasional visits).

did you live with someone, or did you just have money like that to move and live on your own???
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Reply #10 posted 01/09/06 5:36pm

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missfee said:

meltwithu said:

i moved 3 miles from my mom--close enough to get to her in an emergency, but just far enough away to keep my sanity. she called me today hysterical that there was a huge leak in her living room ceiling from the bathroom upstairs. i rush right over to see two drips of water on the floor. i ask her why she said it was flooding and she says " well i was just repeating what my nieces said (ages 9 and 10). mad

so i took a deep breath, tightened a washer screw, changed the hallway light bulb and took the trash out--and then came home.

the moral is--they put up with our dumb shit when we kids, so it's only fair i return the favor lol

lol sorry but i can only put with so much shit. it's time for me to make a move whether its saving an extra 200 dollars a month to move by myself, or find a roommate....



oh yeah--you gotta move-- i could never live with my mom again, unless she became unable to take care of herself. fortunately my two lazy ass sisters live with her, so i am free to enjoy my townhouse to myself biggrin
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Reply #11 posted 01/09/06 5:39pm

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I think you make one of these posts every month.

hmm

Might this be related to your....

ummm...

well...

that girly... ah, how do I say that?


Ummmm...



























PMS?
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Reply #12 posted 01/09/06 5:39pm

nilegettolrahc

missfee said:

nilegettolrahc said:

I moved to another city when I was 18 and never returned (apart from occasional visits).

did you live with someone, or did you just have money like that to move and live on your own???

I found a girl in the local newspaper who was from the next town, and she had an apartment and needed a flatmate. I was studying and was eligible for government assistance (AUSTUDY), which barely covered the rent and food. Some days all I had was a handful of change until the next payment came. It was hard, had to get a job at the supermarket Friday nights and all day Sundays so I could eat too. When I finished I got myself on unemployment benefits and rent assistance for about a month until I got a real job.
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Reply #13 posted 01/09/06 6:23pm

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your relationship with your mother is going through some change, and that's always a challenge. but keep in mind that there's not a more important relationship EVER. at a time when i'm watching my mother go through massive, permanent changes (dementia, probably Alzheimer's), i look back at times in the past when i could have been more patient and more compassionate. live in the now - you'll never get those moments back. peace
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Reply #14 posted 01/09/06 6:47pm

missfee

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MickG said:

I think you make one of these posts every month.

hmm

Might this be related to your....

ummm...

well...

that girly... ah, how do I say that?


Ummmm...


PMS?

this is not true. and no its not me, but thanks for the concern though...
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Reply #15 posted 01/09/06 6:48pm

missfee

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nilegettolrahc said:

missfee said:


did you live with someone, or did you just have money like that to move and live on your own???

I found a girl in the local newspaper who was from the next town, and she had an apartment and needed a flatmate. I was studying and was eligible for government assistance (AUSTUDY), which barely covered the rent and food. Some days all I had was a handful of change until the next payment came. It was hard, had to get a job at the supermarket Friday nights and all day Sundays so I could eat too. When I finished I got myself on unemployment benefits and rent assistance for about a month until I got a real job.

whew, sounds like you went through hell and back...
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Reply #16 posted 01/09/06 7:08pm

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IrresistibleB1tch said:

your relationship with your mother is going through some change, and that's always a challenge. but keep in mind that there's not a more important relationship EVER. at a time when i'm watching my mother go through massive, permanent changes (dementia, probably Alzheimer's), i look back at times in the past when i could have been more patient and more compassionate. live in the now - you'll never get those moments back. peace


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Reply #17 posted 01/10/06 1:03pm

brownsugar

your gonna have to move to appreciate her more nod i'm always broke but there's nothing like having your own
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Reply #18 posted 01/10/06 1:11pm

unlucky7

My mom is pretty bad, she says many hurtful things and likes to embarrass me in front of family members and frieds I know she likes it. That's why I spend most of my time in a different room. I don't like her that much. Can't wait to move out. I don't think she loves me that much. i think she would rather have another child.
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Reply #19 posted 01/10/06 1:12pm

unlucky7

oops
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Reply #20 posted 01/10/06 1:27pm

jbchavez

I'm 1500 miles away from home, so I'm kinda missing mom right now. My kids are missing grandma too.
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Reply #21 posted 01/10/06 2:16pm

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Yes ma'am. It is time for u to get out there on your own. Kiss mom goodbye and tell her that u love her.
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Reply #22 posted 01/10/06 2:18pm

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wha? you're 23, and your mom don't think you can make it on your own?? sheeeeeit, my dad always said that when i was wanting to move outta the house when i was 18 or so. lol if your mom ain't keeping you from moving out, get outta the house and prove her wrong. and be glad that you still got a mom who's still around to get on your nerves...i don't have one.


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Reply #23 posted 01/10/06 2:20pm

brownsugar

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

wha? you're 23, and your mom don't think you can make it on your own?? sheeeeeit, my dad always said that when i was wanting to move outta the house when i was 18 or so. lol


i wanted to move out when i was 16, couldn't do it but i was working on it! smile
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Reply #24 posted 01/10/06 3:48pm

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missfee said:

nilegettolrahc said:


I found a girl in the local newspaper who was from the next town, and she had an apartment and needed a flatmate. I was studying and was eligible for government assistance (AUSTUDY), which barely covered the rent and food. Some days all I had was a handful of change until the next payment came. It was hard, had to get a job at the supermarket Friday nights and all day Sundays so I could eat too. When I finished I got myself on unemployment benefits and rent assistance for about a month until I got a real job.

whew, sounds like you went through hell and back...

well, it wasn't a life of luxury, but I did not have to listen to my folks telling me what to do razz woot!
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Reply #25 posted 01/10/06 5:01pm

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Handclapsfingasnapz said:

wha? you're 23, and your mom don't think you can make it on your own?? sheeeeeit, my dad always said that when i was wanting to move outta the house when i was 18 or so. lol if your mom ain't keeping you from moving out, get outta the house and prove her wrong. and be glad that you still got a mom who's still around to get on your nerves...i don't have one.


hug
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co-sign. I'd give anything if my Mom could call and annoy me right now.

Make your move missfee. If nothing else it will give you a new perspective.

Good Luck!
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Reply #26 posted 01/11/06 3:59pm

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my mom made me think sometimes that the Menendez brothers had the right idea.
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Reply #27 posted 01/11/06 4:03pm

SammiJ

sounds like my mom
i live away from her and i guess it's going to take more time for me to appreciate her present behaviour confused

it's going to take a lot of time...
my mom is the exact same way.
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Reply #28 posted 01/11/06 4:39pm

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shrug i love the hell outta my mom, i miss her everyday, and i cant wait for her to come back home....
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Reply #29 posted 01/11/06 5:48pm

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meltwithu said:

i moved 3 miles from my mom--close enough to get to her in an emergency, but just far enough away to keep my sanity. she called me today hysterical that there was a huge leak in her living room ceiling from the bathroom upstairs. i rush right over to see two drips of water on the floor. i ask her why she said it was flooding and she says " well i was just repeating what my nieces said (ages 9 and 10). mad

so i took a deep breath, tightened a washer screw, changed the hallway light bulb and took the trash out--and then came home.

the moral is--they put up with our dumb shit when we kids, so it's only fair i return the favor lol


No, not really. You don't owe your parents a damn thing
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