Why cant women do the same thing men do ?

Oh its because then they might be considered hypocrites.

Where the milfs at?

the age thing bothers me a bit



yeah, I like to watch Lost mostly becuase of Naveen Andrews...he's beautiful.

I wouldn't mind dating an older woman but no more than fifteen years older - I'm 33 - if all is well with the body and mind.

The double-standard is so archaic!

There is nothing wrong with a ten or even fifteen year difference...anything beyond that is a bit questionable.

The only problem with an older woman with a younger man is that men typically are not ready for the kids & such until they are older...and if he decides at 35 that he wants kids from his 45 year old wife...then it could be troublesome.

people shouldn't have kids when they are old.

unlucky7 said:

...nor when they are really young.

I totally don't care because it's honestly none of my business.

PurpleJedi said:

which sadly leaves a very small window of opportunity, and a lot of people are not with the right partner during those years

PurpleJedi said:

yep

I'm a guy who's 19 and I'd much rather date older women bc girls my age are too immature. I haven't had the opportunity to date mature, but I bet it's a much better experience.

^^^^ that's what girls your age say about you guys.

I also would like to add that older women know what they want and are not out to try and fix or change you to make you something you are not....

age is only an issue if you make it so.

Age is just an issue.

But for me, I just wouldn't feel right.

lilgish said:

lilgish said:

Yeah....what she said...

it really doesn't matter unless the dude is immature. brains would do just fine, but very few young ones have it.

i don't think it's wrong for men and women of different ages to hook up and stay together if they really get on well.

i do think it's gross when a man (or woman) develops a pattern of seeking out mates who are 20 years younger than themselves to the exclusion of any other age group....

personally i think i'd be bored with a guy half my age. what on earth would we talk about? but to each their own really

Well, I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 42...is that bad?

beret1022 said:

Nope - that's not that big of a gap, really. hey, as long as you're happy with each other - it's never a bad thing.

Whatever works for the individuals involved - I'm all for it if all parties are happy and approach the relationship from a healthy perspective - i.e. not acting out any mommy/daddy complexes.

DiminutiveRocker said:

Prince is that you? j/k

With older ladies (but not much older) I guess it's cool. Older guys, hells no. I saw this old ass mufucka with a woman decades younger than him in the mall and I wanted to toss pretzels at both of em. The sexual politics of it were nauseating.

It's new for me being in that situation, I've got to think about that question, because of myself! I'm 40+ and do become the intress of much younger man, I could been theyr mother! I did never thought that could happen, because I did not think about, to date younger men. I did always prefer more mature then me, minimum 2 years.
I'm surpriced about that change in my chances.
When I was a teenager, I dreamed about that kind of boys, today, are and could be intressed in me. Anyways I'ld never abuse of that.

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Well my boyfriend and I have a 10 difference in our ages (I'm 10 years older) and it usually isn't an issue. We have the same interests, likes, goals and desires. Age is irrelevant - its only a number and only becomes a problem if you allow it to become one.

My 2 cents

CynthiasSocks said:

that is just what i was thinking.

DarlinLaurie said: