LleeLlee said:

Reincarnate said:

Cloudbuster said:

oops perhaps I could have put a capital in there somewhere
I meant Naked

Reincarnate said:

TMPletz said:

for others I always use a stick

notoriousj said:

I am and i call strangers darling at work- not condescending or flirtatious its just that i get overly comfortable at times in my approach to customers. But even outside of work- definitley touchy feely- if i feel a person is all straight and unresponsive to it- as in maybe a bit uncomfortable i stand back a bit. But generally it is well recepted

lilmissmissy said:

Lilmissmissy!

Cloudbuster said:

I'm sorry am i coming across too touchy feely?

lilmissmissy said:

No, you're doing fine.

Natisse said:

Same as me, I guess.

I'm pretty tactile. I wasn't when I was growing up but I'll give my mates a hug, no question.

Anybody else: this is when I don't like having my personal space invaded. I work with people who - if they have to tell you something - will come RIGHT UP TO YOUR FACE. Get out! I think the look on my face usually tells them to back off.

I guess it just depends on who it is.

onenitealone said:

Yeah, depending on how fit they are.

Cloudbuster said:

Well, of course.

onenitealone said:

Shallow.

Cloudbuster said:

I was kidding. But you can touch me, obviously.

onenitealone said:

That can annoy me too. I`ve had some teachers over the years that was like that.

Cloudbuster said:

Turn around, bitch.

Icicle said:

It's like they think you won't understand what they're saying unless THEY'RE BREATHING DOWN YOUR NECK. Go away!

onenitealone said:

Cloudbuster said:

I think I'd better stop there.

onenitealone said:

Right, and it`s even worse when some of them don`t brush their teeth...

Icicle said:

I'm really not

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

It's because the majority of them that do it to me are women chomping on gum after dousing themselves with cheap perfume

Reincarnate said:

lol@come over here naked.... i knew what you meant

im glad there are folks out there who can appreciate my way of showing kindness

i dont like touchy feely people if i'm not close to them. if its someone i don't know i tend to be suspicious of them or freaked out by them.

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With my family and with friends, I'm very affectionate, but, a bit stand-off-ish as well...

Warm hugs, sweet smooches, well wishes...then, stand on your own two feet please...!...(Grownups, I mean...)...Because children want to climb, and pull, and swing on you all day long. And I love them too...But, adults---sit up straight, and, so that I can conversate with you from across some room, PLEASE! Don't sit/stand so close, and breathe/bump/pat/poke/fall on me as you try to get attention to make your point/joke/whatever... I'm up/out!

Stangers---I'm okay...See, my daughter and I were shopping in the market a couple of days ago, and this young man caught my eyes with his. He stopped and appeared to be looking for something before he spoke to us out of the blue...He wished us a happy new year, said he wanted and hug, and said "I love you". I responded in kind, and I felt perfectly fine about it...He was good looking tho...blonde hair, blue eyes, body...lol...ooooh. But, anyway...it could have been anybody, I suppose...

As for my partner---I feel that I should be aroused by his touchy-feely most of the time, and anticipating his "connection" with me all of the time because of it.