What's your flirting tactic? Do you have a set rule or do you bend it to your advantage? Are you a master flirter or fail at every hurdle? What are your greatest conquests?

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master flirter








first

I have never flirted in my life!

mdiver said:

LIAR!!!

fantasyislander said:

No, it's true i am just a real shy english boy, ask anyone around here.

mdiver said:

you mean you weren't flirting with me? something is wrong with my radar.

fantasyislander said:

Moi?????

I am probably the worst flirter in the history of mankind.
constantly looking, even staring at someone. then they get
it and are like "hmm, you're watching me?"

that's when i go into spasms and can't get myself to look
in their direction again even if my life depended on it.

Usually i try to sneak out the backdoor as soon as someone
returns my flirts.

I am really not a flirter...and i never know when someone is trying to flirt with me....i am soo in the gay bubble that its not even funny.

I don't flirt, apart from with some of my gay friends.

Sometimes I may come across as coming on to a guy but usually it's because when I'm interested in what someone's saying I give them my full attention. I think that can be sexy but I'm not really a flirtatious person. I tend to take people at face value and deal with people as they deal with me.

I play hard to get. I put out the best impression i can and then wait.I just wait them out. Sometimes it works and sometimes it does not.

Women really need to improve their flirting though. Their "just friends" flirting and their "I want you" flirting is pretty much the same. People can get the wrong message.

Spats said:

Some people are attracted to people who play hard to get, true.

I can't be bothered with playing games though. It just irritates me.

Maybe it's an age thing.

IstenSzek said:

OOOH I hate that! It's what I view as the cock tease. I am enlighted now. Becasue the "cock tease" can just be a confused flirt.

So let me ask you for future reference. If a guy is flirting with me or doing "the stare" and if I return the glance or try and flirt back and he does what you do...what do I do to not get him to take off?

More over, why do you duck out? You are (semi)obviously interested and they seem to be too (and probably wondering why this good looking guy is looking at them).

Mostly it's unitentional. What I have learned from it is that men like it when you listen to them and are intrested in what they say. It usually gets taken as flirting. Smiling is very good in validating them and their intrest in you. When I'm flirting, I notice that I smile often (not cheesey) and I keep eye contact at the same time.

Then there's the conversational flirting which includes joking around and catching him off gaurd.

mdiver said:

superspaceboy said:

yeah, usually i'm just looking at someone i think is very handsome.
then after a while they notice me and look back. that's when i get
confused and think "oh god, now he's noticed" and if he looks back
at me, i just try to get out of there quickly or just stare at the
ground because obviously they can't be flirting with me, they must
just be looking at me and thinking "ewwww"



so if that happens to you again in future, just try to get a bit
closer to them and make it clear that you ARE flirting. buy them
a beer or something. i know i would be thrilled if someone asked
me if i'd like a drink after one of my disastrous flirts. lol.

IstenSzek said:

Then are caught trying to cram your tongue down someone's throath just around the corner.

HamsterHuey said:

you just have to know how to work me

IstenSzek said:

you are like a flower with many layers or a fish & chips newspaper that is to be pealed apart i see.

Christopher said:

i'm more like an onion. peel me slowly and before you
get to the core you are bound to be crying like a bitch

IstenSzek said:

i was gonna say onion! well that or a peeling a thong from a big ass.

IstenSzek said:

Beautiful.

This is how the Captain flirts. I walk to a dark, grungy treet corner, flashing large bills. Several girls come right up to me and start talking to me and flirting with me and asking me if I "want to have a good time" or if I "need a girlfriend" or if I "want to be loved for a long time". I usually end up taking one or more of them home for 15 minutes to an hour.

I'm pretty damn good at this flirting thing.

I'm not much of a flirt. I think I've called a guy over to me ONCE I'm shy

CalhounSq said:

Shy, my ass.

Cloudbuster said:

Cloudbuster said:

I am too!!!

IstenSzek said:

Well, if you've got the time...

CalhounSq said:

Such lies!

Cloudbuster said:

i guess i can squeeze you in between Gemini319 and Bart