I might if I were still single.

of course ...but not exclusively

Ya never know where those women have been.

althom said:

I can understand why...

Byron said:

Yeah, it's true.

I know someone, who knew someone, who walked by a person, who said they knew a person, who once dated someone, who's cousin's friend, heard that Althom was a male stripper in the mid 1990's.

[Edited 12/23/05 1:31am]

Hmmm...I'd be very wary of any man who would date an exotic dancer. I already met my boyfriend before I started dancing (thank god) and a man has to be very secure with himself to deal with it. Unfortuantly when you meet a man and he finds out you are a dancer they usually treat/see you differently. Mostly they think you are easy. I see this with my girlfriends all the time. I really feel for them. They just attract the worst losers.

There was this one arrogant asshole who came into the club once and we hung in the champagne room for the night. He was good looking AND had money. Well I found out that he had dated/fucked many strippers and his way was spending a bunch of money on them at the club and the girls would fuck him like that night.

Well he tried that with me and honestly expected sex!! Like he got REALLY pissed at me because he spent some money on me and ofcourse me being a dancer would just be tickled pink to sleep with him, like I was a sure thing right? It is sad but there are alot of hurtful men out there and they think dancer equals easy. I think the guys that really respect women and want a real, monogomous relationship would be too intimidated by a dancer.

One of my friends go out of the buisness and swears up and down that since then all the good guys have been coming out of the woodwork. So I think whatever a dancer did in her past is pretty irrelevent to alot of men. Alot of GOOD men.

1sexymf said:

it does surprise me to an extent. for a man (and i use that term loosely) who is so hung up on looks alone and has a fear of long term commitments then the stereotypical 'stripper' should be a perfect match for him. unless she is a stripper who is dancing just to pay her way through medical or law school in which case she would have brains and wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole (even if it was off her stage...pole...stripper...hahaha...at least i amuse myself)

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[Edited 12/23/05 3:54am]

I would. But I think she'd have to respect my own life choices as well, just like I'd expect any other woman to do. And no silly stripping music in the stereos, thank you.

Sure...

There is a difference between dancing and being a whore.... if she was just a dancer....sure...

pardonme4livin said:

Well unfortunately, some men, or women for that matter, don't know the difference.

1sexymf said:

lillith said:

Nah, he's automatically intimidated... & probably skeeved out that she'll want oral. He wouldn't dare

CalhounSq said:

Bringin' out the heavy artillary...

CalhounSq said:

LMFAO

yeah, I'm gonna have to decline that request!!!

CalhounSq said:

I think he'll fall under the asshole umbrella: "Oh she must be a whore."
[Edited 12/23/05 6:59am]

Why do you not think i am a "real man"? I swear to god that some women here have a strange idea of what that means.

Novabreaker said:

What constitutes silly stripping music? surely you can't mean Prince???

1sexymf said:

I have dated one in the past and believe it or not it was her that had the jealousy issues not me. She would have a fit if another lady even looked at me too long, I found that kinda weird considering her occupation and the fact that I wasn't the least bit jealous of the attention she got.


To answer your other questions:

1.Yes I would date her if she danced in the past
2.If I'm dating a lady and don't know that she 's dancining then I haven't been paying enough attention to her.
[Edited 12/23/05 10:20am]

I'm friends with a beautiful girl from a prominent family (her father is a well known surgeon), who secretly strips for her money (for many years now). She was two timing two men not too long ago. And keeping her dancing a secret from both. It was incredible to sometimes witness her perform this sneaky juggling act of excuses, deception, and wildness.

I briefly dated an ex-stripper. Her former occupation didn't bother me, nor did it excite me.

problem is that peatterns of deception
become the norm and usually unnecessarily.

Spats said:

i didn't mention the word 'real' at all. i said you aren't quite a man yet...you have a lot of growing up to do, still a boy.

Of course having personally known some of these strippers I must they were all pretty, ehm, let's just say "not very intelligent".

Novabreaker said:

Alot of them are. But I have met some of the most intellegent, talented, and spiritual women ever while dancing. The best thing about dancing is how you have alot of free time to pursue other interests.

But there are alot of insecure bimbos too. But those girls are usually in the eighteen-twenty range so they are still young.

Krystal666 said:

Well just like any other walk of life, there are all kinds of people that make up the stripper population...I'd be willing to bet there are some ridiculously together and intelligent strippers/dancers out there that are merely using their "assets" to enable themselves to have some financial freedom to eventually move in to other endeavours.

1sexymf said:

Not a problem!

Novabreaker said:

There's a difference between being "intelligent" and "smart" hence they're strippers...

Neversin.

no
yes
probably end the relationship
[Edited 12/29/05 8:18am]