This is a dog. If your man is going ova 2 sum otha chicks house AFTER a bar closes, he is going there for a reason. He knows he is durrin sum shady chit, but he don't want to admit it. If I were u, I would be tellin hubby that he needs 2 stay home. A question on this though, Why is he going out to a bar without u? There must be lots o' trust up in yo house. Gawd knows that if my man found out that I was hanging at sum otha dudes house after i got shitfaced at the bar, he would first kill the boy, then come after me. Girl, u ain't stupid, don't act like it.

Spats said:

hmmm comment #2 that I can agree with Spats on.....

missfee said:

you agree with spats that LaVish DROVE her man to cheat?

charlottegelin said:

she didn't drive her man to cheat, i didn't take his comment that way. It's the truth, men and women cheat when they are not satisfied at home. Thats a reality. All men don't cheat, and all women don't cheat neither....but the ones who do cheat, sometimes, that is the main reason why they went wondering elsewhere....

it's not necessarily her fault that he did what he did...he made that decision on his own.
[Edited 12/22/05 15:15pm]

missfee said:

a mature person would deal with the issues in the relationship and talk to their partner about it, not cheat - as if that were ever a solution to anything

charlottegelin said:

yes, i agree with you. but most cheaters don't want to deal with the issues...hence the whole reason why they cheat.

missfee said:

you are so right, unfortunately

charlottegelin said:

yes i know....

missfee said:

not from experience I hope!

I am not saying she drove him to it. But if what he was getting at home was that great he would not be looking elsewhere.

Spats said:

Has it ever occured to you that you as yet, may not have had the time to know what the fuck you are talking about?

It's true. There is something she is not delivering. That's not an excuse to cheat. But it's true. Something is not right at home if he is.

Who are you by the way?

Spats said:

Spats, meet Muse. Muse, meet... naw, nevermind!

HOLY CRAP it's LaV!!!

CalhounSq said:

it's not, unfortunately.

EskomoKisses said:

Me too, now I'm pissed that it's not who we thought it was.

First off - let me address SPATS comments. My man gets everything he asks for at home in every fashion, manner and frequency. In fact he thinks I'm a nymph for wanting it so often AND he has even said no one is better than me...on multiple occasions. He gets head on a nightly basis and sometimes even before he goes to work. Believe me the lack or quality of sex is definitely not the issue. The man gets EVERYTHING!

Now as to the whole Lav thing - as stated previously I never knew there was another person with that name. Maybe the org shouldn't let someone use the same name twice, that would certainly eliminate this from happening in the future. But hey, thanks for everyone being so friendly towards me and accepting me for me. Appreciate it. Believe me the name will be changed!!

girlie...





and head before work! omg! you are the !!

LaVish said:

sure!! ya didn't realize there was another Lavish here although the style of your screen name is very similar to the way she used to have..... I find that hard to believe... I think your not being truthful in other words you may be untruthful in the meaning of this thread.... if any woman and man share a solid relationship based on trust then why the fuck would he need to go out drinking and come back with bullshit stories (not once but twice) about passing out at other FEMALES houses... sorry but that is someone who you obviously can't trust as well as someone who just joined www.prince.org this month and is already posting under a prior veteran org members name but claims to that they didn'/t know they share the same username... hogwash!!!

emm said:

Thanks I needed that.

Yeah, but a lot of men will take sex even if it's bad. Maybe he is just being nice.

PEJ said:

How would I possibly know there was someone else with the same name unless when I signed up the org would have told me. It did when I tried other names. My reply to you "fuck off"

Spats said:

Only desparate men take sex even if its bad....maybe you're speaking from experience.....

LaVish said:

to all of those who feel she drove him away...

You can't use sex to make a cheater stay. That's retarded as hell and perpetuates low self esteem. I admit some will wander if they feel that they aren't getting what they want (women do the same) but it's no excuse. He was getting everything he wanted but, people who cheat are unsatisfied with themselves. What you do for him will never be enough because you aren't the problem... He is. Regardless of sincerity, he disrespected you. If he was too drunk to get home on his own his "friend" should have taken the responsibility to take him home to you. Or at least call. All the best to you Vish.

LaVish said:

I was with a girl who I found out sucked in bed but i gave her a couple chances to improve. She didn't so i moved on. If he is not happy with you he should move on. Not cheat. I have never cheated.

Spats said:

Spats said:

you a liiiiie....

Better than "I was with a whore". I thought you were on vacation with Unibrow.