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PrintableI would be FURIOUS! WHAT THE FUCK is he Doing going to a GIRL or 2 Girl's Houses? He's a Jerk to tell you. I would Start going out with other guys and See How he likes it! I would also MOVE OUT! | |
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Lav..listen to Lib on this, he's porking them. Spy on his ass and seek the truth. Then kick his ass to the curb. "Waiting to be banned" | |
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Zelaira said: I would be FURIOUS! WHAT THE FUCK is he Doing going to a GIRL or 2 Girl's Houses? He's a Jerk to tell you. I would Start going out with other guys and See How he likes it! I would also MOVE OUT!
well going out with other guys doesn't make it right, that's playing games...if anything, i'd leave his ass alone, and if he doesn't think you are important enough to stop doing dumb shit, then you are better off with someone else...always remember "there's plenty of fish in the sea", and better ones to fry too. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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bkw said: I'm pretty sure i wouldn't get away with that shit.
That's exactly what I was thinking. LOL | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: PEJ said: Lav would never ask a question in that fashion. exactly.  I sooooo got my hopes up when I saw the name | |
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Maybe he's never lied in the past but there is a first time for everything.  Andy is a four letter word. | |
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I think you need to go with your gut instinct, definitely, but you need to set ground rules. 
This is not showing you respect. He is your partner; drunk or not, you shouldn't have to worry about his whereabouts or question his actions. He should've taken your feelings into account. My advice would be to make him aware exactly how this has made you feel but - in the meantime - maybe give him the benefit of the doubt. No point in getting angry over something you can't prove; you'll drive yourself crazy and it's a waste of energy. If you do find out something then, hell, you've got every excuse to hit the roof. But I think you need to make sure he doesn't do this again; if only as a sign of respect and acknowledgement of your feelings. | |
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I would tell him as of today...I have decided to date other guys. See his reaction.... You will know what to do after that... | |
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LaVish said: Hey all you guys/pimps/men out there. I need a little advice regarding my man's actions as of late. One night he came home (we live together and have been for numerous years) hours after bar close saying he passed out at girls house. The next night he doesn't come home until the next day again saying that he passed out at yet a different girls house. Now both of these women are much younger than him and have room-mates. He swears up and down that absolutely nothing happened and I have no worries. And he has always been truthful to me in the past. I trust him, but am I being stupid/naive about his actions? All the ladies out there seem to think so. But I choose to believe my man. He has never done this in the past to me. He swears he loves me and wants to be with me. Advice or comments would be appreciated.
LaVish, hate to say it but your man is a 'DEE O DOUBLE G'! Don't believe what he's saying, it is responsibility to make sure he returns home to you, if he doesn't then he's being disrespectful to you, and you don't deserve that! I'd say break his balls and give him shit! If you accept this once without asking him for responsibility, he will try to go further & further since you 'were alright with it before'! Give him shit! | |
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I'm sorry but I don't believe him.
What are the chances of passing out at two different girls houses on two nights in a row? Most guys can't get to pass out at one girls house at the end of a night. I don't believe that there were two girls, and I don't believe he's telling you the truth. One girl maybe. Or something else he doesn't want to tell you about. I would definately be suspicious. | |
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no man should get away with that...
he's lying out his ass get the truth out of him by any means neccessary. | |
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Hey Lav , obviously we dont know your man , but ..... personally it sounds to me that he is playing around | |
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Pochacco said: Hey Lav , obviously we dont know your man , but ..... personally it sounds to me that he is playing around
LaV, look outside the box.  | |
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He might have been truthful in the past but he isn't being truthful now. Get the truth from him, if he wont tell you find out for yourself. | |
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Who started this thread??? | |
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PEJ said: LaVish said: No..... Lav would never ask a question in that fashion. Man my head went through the same paces..although Virginia spelled it different! | |
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Sorry for the confusion to everyone - I didn't realize there was another Lavish, this is the only place I go to for prince info. I will have to change my name.
Oh and don't worry my man got PLENTY of shit over this. He hasn't simply gotten away with it with me going "ok". And I did ask if he would be ok if I did the same thing. Like other people have said only I know him and he seems very sincere when we have talked. | |
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CUMMING FROM A GUY, MAKE HIM PROVE HIS INNOCENTS.
OR ATLEAST DO WHAT I DID ONCE, TAKE A TRIP, AND WHILE IN THE CAR SAY- O WE HAVE AN APPOINTMENT TO HAVE A LIEDETECTOR TEST TAKEN. THEN SEE WHAT HE SAYS. I BET HIS STORY CHANGES REAL QUICK..... noituloveR lautiripS weN a fo gninwaD eht si sihT | |
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Is the the real LaV? | |
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Stymie said: Is the the real LaV?
 Read TWO posts above you.. You all trip'n. The girl admitted many posts ago she was NOT another LAV.  | |
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LaVish said: Sorry for the confusion to everyone - I didn't realize there was another Lavish, this is the only place I go to for prince info. I will have to change my name.
Oh and don't worry my man got PLENTY of shit over this. He hasn't simply gotten away with it with me going "ok". And I did ask if he would be ok if I did the same thing. Like other people have said only I know him and he seems very sincere when we have talked. Don't change your member name. It's pretty  Plus from what I understand, the spelling is different from the "OTHER" Lav. I think somebody said in chat she had an two "H" in her name  | |
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tripp said: CUMMING FROM A GUY, MAKE HIM PROVE HIS INNOCENTS.
OR ATLEAST DO WHAT I DID ONCE, TAKE A TRIP, AND WHILE IN THE CAR SAY- O WE HAVE AN APPOINTMENT TO HAVE A LIEDETECTOR TEST TAKEN. THEN SEE WHAT HE SAYS. I BET HIS STORY CHANGES REAL QUICK..... Dayum LMAO "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
johnart says: "I'm THE shit" | |
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emm said: if it isn't the laVish then you should probably change your user name
There can only be one LaVisHh..  | |
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EskomoKisses said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: exactly. I sooooo got my hopes up when I saw the name me miss her too..  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: emm said: if it isn't the laVish then you should probably change your user name
There can only be one LaVisHh.. Can't there be one Lavish and one LaVisHh..? Geeze people, this person made a member name and a "help" advice thread and y'all make her feeling like she did something wrong, or she don't stand up to being "LAVISH" .. give the girl a break and stop being so dramatic | |
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TheCatWoman said: Stymie said: Is the the real LaV?
Read TWO posts above you.. You all trip'n. The girl admitted many posts ago she was NOT another LAV. Was your sole purpose in getting a new user name to piss folks off? | |
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He is probably cheating. And you don't want to be with someone who cheats. And if he is it's because he is not happy with what he is getting at home. The relationship is over. | |
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Stymie said: TheCatWoman said: Read TWO posts above you.. You all trip'n. The girl admitted many posts ago she was NOT another LAV. Was your sole purpose in getting a new user name to piss folks off?? What? I don't piss anybody off. Not at least that I am aware of. .. Whats your point? Just because I called you out on your post? .. Dayum, she just said/posted she was NOT the person you thought, it is two posts above you. Only for you to ask AGAIN ..[Edited 12/22/05 10:17am] | |
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TheCatWoman said: Stymie said: Was your sole purpose in getting a new user name to piss folks off?? What? I don't piss anybody off. Not at least that I am aware of. .. Whats your point? Just because I called you out on your post? .. Dayum, she just said/posted she was NOT the person you thought, it is two posts above you. Only for you to ask AGAIN ..
[Edited 12/22/05 10:17am] Obviously, I did not see the other posts.When I saw them, I started to edit mine. But before I had a chance to, I got your smart-assed comment and eyeroll. | |
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Stymie said: TheCatWoman said: ? What? I don't piss anybody off. Not at least that I am aware of. .. Whats your point? Just because I called you out on your post? .. Dayum, she just said/posted she was NOT the person you thought, it is two posts above you. Only for you to ask AGAIN ..
[Edited 12/22/05 10:17am] Obviously, I did not see the other posts.When I saw them, I started to edit mine. But before I had a chance to, I got your smart-assed comment and eyeroll.ah, right! okay | |
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