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Being left behind....... I saw my ex girlfriend at tesco (supermarket where i work) today. Man, it was tough. I guess i still feel for her u know (we broke up last september).
She's at uni doing drama and has already been extra's in films, and what am i doing? Stacking shelves at tesco. Even though my job is kinda amusing, seeing my ex doing so well for herself makes me feel kinda small. How is it like if u bump into an ex? Are they onto better things now? (cue Johnny cash hurt opening "i saw my ex today..." [Edited 12/17/05 15:35pm] | |
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 Why should you feel small because of your job , you are working , it doesnt matter what you do , be proud of yourself 
Of course it gonna hurt when you bump into your ex , these things take time , you cant turn your feeling off and on like a switch You'll be fine fella  | |
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thesexofit said: I saw my ex girlfriend at tesco (supermarket where i work) today. Man, it was tough. I guess i still feel for her u know (we broke up last september).
She's at uni doing drama and has already been extra's in films, and what am i doing? Stacking shelves at tesco. Even though my job is kinda amusing, seeing my ex doing so well for herself makes me feel kinda small. How is it like if u bump into an ex? Are they onto better things now? (cue Johnny cash hurt opening "i was my ex today..." it shouldnt matter where they are in relation to you and your life because whats happening in your life is uniquely yours... it has nothing to do with where they are unless youve taken on the responsibility to be responsible for the stranger who is not your life it has been my experience that each individual's life is uniquely intertwined within the context of others lives however each path is also personal... example... lets say that i have an average of ten interactions with other human beings per day... thats over seventy per week... if i say something like... prince's music is interesting on this album, given a demonstrated dynamic relationship with other's paths added to a given respect they may have for my opinion on topics musical multiplied by geographic interactive connectivity, i may cause a ripple effect that affects all those connected to me perhaps youd like to piss me off by subliminally suggesting a path not interesting to me... this path is uniquely mine and has nothing to do with your path... as to explain in any way what the true nature of the path is will ultimately not only destroy other paths not understood by those less cogniscent understanding ultimately the true path and nature of dynamic creative interaction leads to a more personal understanding of what this will all become... ergo, if you fucking piss me off with another subliminal path lass than my own accomplishment level, i will ultimately demonstrate subliminality not understood by a clever copycat who will learn the up last | |
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7e7e7 said: thesexofit said: I saw my ex girlfriend at tesco (supermarket where i work) today. Man, it was tough. I guess i still feel for her u know (we broke up last september).
She's at uni doing drama and has already been extra's in films, and what am i doing? Stacking shelves at tesco. Even though my job is kinda amusing, seeing my ex doing so well for herself makes me feel kinda small. How is it like if u bump into an ex? Are they onto better things now? (cue Johnny cash hurt opening "i was my ex today..." it shouldnt matter where they are in relation to you and your life because whats happening in your life is uniquely yours... it has nothing to do with where they are unless youve taken on the responsibility to be responsible for the stranger who is not your life it has been my experience that each individual's life is uniquely intertwined within the context of others lives however each path is also personal... example... lets say that i have an average of ten interactions with other human beings per day... thats over seventy per week... if i say something like... prince's music is interesting on this album, given a demonstrated dynamic relationship with other's paths added to a given respect they may have for my opinion on topics musical multiplied by geographic interactive connectivity, i may cause a ripple effect that affects all those connected to me perhaps youd like to piss me off by subliminally suggesting a path not interesting to me... this path is uniquely mine and has nothing to do with your path... as to explain in any way what the true nature of the path is will ultimately not only destroy other paths not understood by those less cogniscent understanding ultimately the true path and nature of dynamic creative interaction leads to a more personal understanding of what this will all become... ergo, if you fucking piss me off with another subliminal path lass than my own accomplishment level, i will ultimately demonstrate subliminality not understood by a clever copycat who will learn the up last say what 
Nah, cool reply. Thanx for the time. I have an effect on people in my small way proberly. Infact, my mate john said i inspire him to do less shelf stacking
Seriously though i do sort of understand what ur saying. I dont even want to be famous, yet, i guess iam jealous of her. Come on guys, am i the only one jealous of an ex and their sucsess | |
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my ex better not bump into me.....  | |
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Are you Dan Fogelberg?
Met my old lover in the grocery store
The snow was falling christmas eve I stole behind her in the frozen foods And I touched her on the sleeve She didn’t recognize the face at first But then her eyes flew open wide She went to hug me and she spilled her purse And we laughed until we cried. We took her groceries to the checkout stand The food was totalled up and bagged We stood there lost in our embarrassment As the conversation dragged. We went to have ourselves a drink or two But couldn’t find an open bar We bought a six-pack at the liquor store And we drank it in her car. We drank a toast to innocence We drank a toast to now And tried to reach beyond the emptiness But neither one knew how. She said she’d married her an architect Who kept her warm and safe and dry She would have liked to say she loved the man But she didn’t like to lie. I said the years had been a friend to her And that her eyes were still as blue But in those eyes I wasn’t sure if I saw Doubt or gratitude. She said she saw me in the record stores And that I must be doing well I said the audience was heavenly But the traveling was hell. We drank a toast to innocence We drank a toast to now And tried to reach beyond the emptiness But neither one knew how. We drank a toast to innocence We drank a toast to time Reliving in our eloquence Another ’auld lang syne’... The beer was empty and our tongues were tired And running out of things to say She gave a kiss to me as I got out And I watched her drive away. Just for a moment I was back at school And felt that old familiar pain And as I turned to make my way back home The snow turned into rain -- | |
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I dont get why you would be jealous of your ex's success , shouldnt you be happy for her :huh:
As for my ex , well every time I see him he launches himself at me like Im gonna fling my arms around him or something  | |
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abierman said: my ex better not bump into me.....
bad blood huh? U know, she saw me and i really did not want to talk to her. My ex is sweet, but so naive. She is condesending, but she does not mean to be.. "oh, as long as ur making money". Still, she was great, and uni got in our way. Long distance would not have worked. She would tell me "u can do anything if u put ur mind to it" etc..... well thats easy for her to say, she is gorgeous. I guess society has taught her dreams are possible, whilst my upbringing has done anything but. We would argue. "this is the real world" i would say. "what chance have i got of becoming an actor or a musician?" I could try my hardest, waste all my money, and be trapped by a belief that i matter, but i'll just get bitter wondering why not me for the rest of my life, searching for excuses or reasons as to "why arn't i a pop star, a tv actor, a film star". We were so different really | |
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Who cares if she's been an xtra in films? Just means you're getting paid for doing a job. Don't worry about it. [Edited 12/17/05 16:46pm] Listen to me on The House of Pop Culture podcast on itunes http://itunes.apple.com/u...d438631917 | |
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npgmaverick said: Who cares if she's been an xtra in films? Just means you're getting paid for doing a job. Don't worry about it.
[Edited 12/17/05 16:46pm] I dont know, iam bitter i guess. Still looked fine, and dressing less conservatively with the fishnets and all (it was snowing outside today). I have college, but i just dont have ambition like she does. We are 2 opposties in that respect. | |
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thesexofit said: npgmaverick said: Who cares if she's been an xtra in films? Just means you're getting paid for doing a job. Don't worry about it.
[Edited 12/17/05 16:46pm] I dont know, iam bitter i guess. Still looked fine, and dressing less conservatively with the fishnets and all (it was snowing outside today). I have college, but i just dont have ambition like she does. We are 2 opposties in that respect. Are you for real sunshine ? Fishnet stockings only bring one image to mind  | |
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2the9s said: Are you Dan Fogelberg?
Met my old lover in the grocery store
The snow was falling christmas eve I stole behind her in the frozen foods And I touched her on the sleeve She didn’t recognize the face at first But then her eyes flew open wide She went to hug me and she spilled her purse And we laughed until we cried. We took her groceries to the checkout stand The food was totalled up and bagged We stood there lost in our embarrassment As the conversation dragged. We went to have ourselves a drink or two But couldn’t find an open bar We bought a six-pack at the liquor store And we drank it in her car. We drank a toast to innocence We drank a toast to now And tried to reach beyond the emptiness But neither one knew how. She said she’d married her an architect Who kept her warm and safe and dry She would have liked to say she loved the man But she didn’t like to lie. I said the years had been a friend to her And that her eyes were still as blue But in those eyes I wasn’t sure if I saw Doubt or gratitude. She said she saw me in the record stores And that I must be doing well I said the audience was heavenly But the traveling was hell. We drank a toast to innocence We drank a toast to now And tried to reach beyond the emptiness But neither one knew how. We drank a toast to innocence We drank a toast to time Reliving in our eloquence Another ’auld lang syne’... The beer was empty and our tongues were tired And running out of things to say She gave a kiss to me as I got out And I watched her drive away. Just for a moment I was back at school And felt that old familiar pain And as I turned to make my way back home The snow turned into rain --  | |
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Pochacco said: thesexofit said: I dont know, iam bitter i guess. Still looked fine, and dressing less conservatively with the fishnets and all (it was snowing outside today). I have college, but i just dont have ambition like she does. We are 2 opposties in that respect. Are you for real sunshine ? Fishnet stockings only bring one image to mind she could wear anything. As mico weaver said "she could turn butter into cream". I was surprised too. Tempted to sing "fishnet black pantihose" by morris day to her. But, she never did get my bizarre taste in music. | |
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Man, you gotta be who you're gonna be & do what you're gonna do for YOU Fuck an ex - don't compare. If there's something else you want to be doing w/ your life make a plan & get to it already 
As for me, my exes still bow when they see me    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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They all left me behind...thrown out like a piece of trash...but you know what I say...FUCK EM, I am too good for their broke asses...so just be yourself and make yourself happy first and foremost.   | |
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Who cares what your ex is doing? Screw them. I could care less what my ex girlfriends are doing. And the odds that she wll become a successful actress are slim to none. | |
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Spats said: Who cares what your ex is doing? Screw them. I could care less what my ex girlfriends are doing. And the odds that she wll become a successful actress are slim to none.
B/c they're losers like yourself? I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Spats said: Who cares what your ex is doing? Screw them. I could care less what my ex girlfriends are doing. And the odds that she wll become a successful actress are slim to none.
dont u ever feel for ur ex? Some of my ex's i dont think about, but i guess my last one was kinda special. | |
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