Give my you opinion on this please.
A few days ago, I was consoling a friend because her boyfriend broke up with her. He asked her how many sexual partners she has had (she's 23 by the way) and she told him around 18-20. He freaked out about it and ended it.
Does that constitute a high number for a woman, and would you break up with a person if you discovered this, even if you asked?

It's only an issue if someone makes it an issue.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

I like what you've done with your hair.

NO! Straight guys can be so stupid- he's jealous over some shit that happened befor him.

You're friend is better off without his stupid ass.

She's 23 and she has had 18 to 20 sex partners? That's a lot. I would be out of there as well. Give her credit for telling the truth though. Because i would want to know the truth.

Cloudbuster said:

I'm afraid you're just far too good looking to be gay.

"My girlfriend has sucked 37 dicks!"

"In a row?"

I'm 24 and I guess I had almost the same number of 'sexual' partners. It gave me the rest I needed. I'm not the type to be pleased with something if I haven't checked if the grass on the other side is greener, so I just checked it for myself.

If someone breaks up with you for this reason it isn't love, so on the long run you'll be happy to have lost that one.

I always regard it as the problem of others, if it bother them I mean, not mine. I know what was fun and what not, I know what I appreciate...

Spats said:

Ohh, and what about you?

MarieLouise said:

Well said

How many did i have at 23? Not that many. At that age that's a lot. She's really been around the block.

Spats said:

Better than beating around the bush, nagging on the internet and not getting any.

Spats said:

@ Spats: I believe you had 0 and are still waiting.....
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Abierman who are in no position to knock me. lol I have seen those pictures.

Spats said:

and they were pretty impressive pictures
abierman is in EVERY position to knock u.

Hmmm...I wonder how many partners HE has had....It's always a double standard. Guys can screw around with as many women as they want to...and its not a problem...but he will dump his girlfriend if he feels that she's had to many partners...i don't understand it. Why is it even an issue, anyway? Your friend is better off without this creep.

MarieLouise said:

ouuuuch

My wife and I are our first ond only.

1sexymf said:

18-20 is a high number for a woman of 23, but I would not break-up with a girl over that; it's a fucking double-standard (no pun originally intended, but WHOOP, dere it is).

TMPletz said:

that's so sweet

Uh Huh. I have been with better looking women. He is in no position to insult me.

Spats said:

and you're in no position to be so cocky
there's an obvious reason why you're no longer with those women
and you're also in no position to judge women
know yourself before you know other women.

TMPletz said:

Hey, don't blush, that's ok of course! I don't want anyone to think my experience is a standard for others. If you found the right one all at once, that's . For me it just worked out otherwise...

I do know myself and i am not being cocky. He was the one being cocky about the women he was with before i was and he is in no position to knock how well i have done. If you are going to knock what i have got and be cocky about what he has then at least show better proof than what he has.

SammiJ said:

Ouch!!!!!

TMPletz said:

Lucky.

abierman said:

OMG!
i didn't even realize i typed that
LOL it stays!!!

Spats said:

who said it was before???


put your money where your mouth is, pal! Untill then I'll be cocky!
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Spats said:

no, no you probably don't.
sorry.