My man's computer is down. So he called me last night to check his email for him. I hate having people's passwords, especially your significant other. It tempts you to be nosey and I feel that if you don't go looking you won't find things you don't want to hear.

Anyway, the sweet guy has saved ALL of my emails....ALL of them, so cute. But I found an email from a girlfriend. I found out it was a girlfriend because I read it. (bad bad me!) We have been dating a year and 3 months, decided to go exclusive 3 months ago....so I shouldn't be mad but.....

This girl was HURT, he was ignoring her, (so she said) and was asking is there someone else????? Well yeah!!! This was April, we'd been dating 4 months by then. And that was the last email.... Thing is I remember that weekend when that email was sent, and he was acting SO funny. Dude she was compalaining that he never called her at night anymore.....well that was because he was calling me....

I don't know how to react. First of all, I didn't know he was attached...
I mean, I was still acting like I was single too...because I was. It didn't stop me from going out with other men while we were unattatched. I mean we both discussed how much we liked each other but it took us time to come to the next level.

I don't want to be the one that enticed him to jump into something else. That makes me nervous now. I'm an unaware man-stealer. Of course the tone of the email looks like they were having some serious problems but that still doesn't make it right. But I CAN'T confront him on it. I mean that was MY fault.

See....I should have told him no and left it at that. Call a friend to check your email not your girl!

I'm an ass and I feel like one too.

Well, that'll teach you to snoop!

I don't think you can read anything into it. They may have already finished but she was having a tough time letting go or he may have found you and realised he didn't see a future with her.

Whatever happened is history now. I think you need to forget you ever saw that email and put it all behind you.

Reincarnate said:

AND forget his password immediately!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

yeah damn right

ask him to change his pasword ASAP ... I have a friend that used to snoop in her husbands mail account ...

and blow tiny stuff into rage rants ...

cost them alot of stress and pain


STAY out of other peoples accounts

I couldn't agree with you more. I am tripping! He sent her directions to his house back in September! So I pieced together that she was the one from MD. I'm buggin. I should have NEVER looked in his email.....

He saves EVERYTHING I send him! How cute.

I'm emailing him now to tell him to change it.

wait, i need to call him...ha ha! hence no computer