Spats, you make me want to pull my hair out....


perhaps its men who think like who that keep me from trusting and getting into a serious relationship


i wish we could delete an orger completely from our viewing, you disturb me even if it is only an act for attention that youre doing...

nakedpianoplayer said:

Spats is a head case who is too busy to realize he is a head case.

He talks about phyical attraction like it is the only type of attraction.

He mostlikely watches too much pornography.

He is a robot.

He isn't a man, he's a boy, one that believes every lie that the media tells him.

I don't want a pretty woman for my ego. It's what i am physcially attracted to. Everybody has types they are attracted to. I don't see how i could possiby hook up with someone if i didn't find them physically attractive. If any of you can then you are a miracle.

What is wrong with playing hard to get?

And i have never said their personality and brains don't matter.

The clubs may not be the ideal place but that's the best place if you want a pretty woman. The top ones go there. You should seem some of them. Hot as hell.The babes are not at the coffee shop and library.

Ace...I mean no disrespect by this comment...but, I find it interesting that you're chastising Spats for his focus on the physical when you are so often doing the same here. All of the threads about models, etc...it's just something I've noticed.
Again, no disrespect meant.

Yes but you also have to be physcially turned on by them. Am I the only one here who thinks this????? WTF???

applekisses said:

There is a big difference between having an appreciation for physical beauty and making it your sole focus in pursuing a relationship.

Ace said:

But, because of your focus on it, I have often thought it was the most important element in your pursuit of a relationship.

Yes but you also have to be physcially turned on by them. Am I the only one here who thinks this????? WTF???

And wedding vows are a outdated tradition. The soaring divorce rate proves that.It's a tradition kept alive to keep women happy.

And could you women please stop hitting me in the head with chairs.

applekisses said:

Most important? Not even close.

Mick, aren't you the same guy that claims his wife is a babe? Hmmmmm

Spats said:

My wife is a model. I mean, she actually does printed publications. She gets so much fan mail from guys gusshing over her, but it is all based on her looks. This sickens me. I met her when she was very young, with a shaved head, in raggard clothing, without makeup. I loved her for the beauty within. Maybe, my tending to her soul that is a graden helped her too bloom so beautifully.

Ace said:

Did you just say this?

"It's not my sole focus but you are eventually are going to have sacktime with the person you are involved with and how can you have sex with someone who are not physically attracted to?????"

Spats said:

My wife is a model. I mean, she actually does printed publications. She gets so much fan mail from guys gusshing over her, but it is all based on her looks. This sickens me. I met her when she was very young, with a shaved head, in raggard clothing, without makeup. I loved her for the beauty within. Maybe, my tending to her soul that is a graden helped her too bloom so beautifully.

I had a guy friend back then by the name of bill. He reminded me alot of you spats. Back then he talk a whole lot of shit about my girls looks. Like you do. Now he is just like all the thousands of guys that wait in line to drool over her. Mostlikely like you are.
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applekisses said:

No, that was Spats.

MickG said:

Let's see some pics, yo!

So it's alright for the woman to sit an let the man do the approaching but it's warped if i do it?

The clubs are unfortunately the best place to find pretty women. They are not hanging out at libraries, supermarkets and coffee shops.

Speaking of coffee shops. At the coffee shop I go to there is a girl there that goes out of her way to talk to me. Not just the normal nice talk that they have to do. I mean she stops over and talks to me when i am sitting having my hot choclate. One of my buddies says it's obvious she likes me and is interested. But, She is pretty damn plain. That is the luck i am having right right now. If there was a god then the pretty blonde would be all over me like that. Things are just off the mark right now. That's how things have been going for me lately.

Ace said:

I know it was him...but, did you mean something similar to what he said? (I'm just playing Devil's Advocate here)

So it's alright for the woman to sit an let the man do the approaching but it's warped if i do it?

The clubs are unfortunately the best place to find pretty women. They are not hanging out at libraries, supermarkets and coffee shops.

Speaking of coffee shops. At the coffee shop I go to there is a girl there that goes out of her way to talk to me. Not just the normal nice talk that they have to do. I mean she stops over and talks to me when i am sitting having my hot choclate. One of my buddies says it's obvious she likes me and is interested. But, She is pretty damn plain. That is the luck i am having right right now. If there was a god then the pretty blonde would be all over me like that. Things are just off the mark right now. That's how things have been going for me lately.

New Year's Eve will also be the eve of my 10th wedding anniversary! So Mrs. Lammastide and I have made reservations to trek up nawth to Toronto and party with the Canucks.

I love Canada. Can't wait!

Annual party @ our house Lots of food, board & video games

applekisses said:

I'm not disagreeing with the fact that you have to be physically attracted to someone to have a healthy relationship; I'm saying that his focus is weighted way too heavily towards the superficial.