Would you have sex with the lady,test tube INVITRO? Adoption? Also, Do you feel it is WRONG that GAYS ARE NOT ALLOWED to ADOPT in Many States? Also, does Being Gay in your Opinion cause a Child to Have Gay GENES or TENDENCY Of ? Why are LESBIANS ALLOWED or Most Often the Ones SEEN and NOT GAY MEN?.... I also happen to know Gay men who were Married at one time and had Children then Divorced and Now live with the Gay Lover.

You know Zel, each one of these questions should really be their own thread.

2the9s said:

she should have her own sticky and when things come to her head just post it in her own thread

Zelaira said:

Let's see if I can answer all of these...

Depends on the circumstances. Yes. No, not necessarily. Because the gay male stereotype is more threatening. Cool.

being a dad would be cool someday, sure. i would prefer to adopt, mainly because providing a good life for a child is more important to me than making sure it has my DNA.

this isn't to say i'm beyond good ol' fashioned birds'n'bees action to bring a kid into the world. it's just not my first choice.

Anxiety said:

You'd put your pee pee in a woman's choo choo?

Number23 said:

indirectly speaking, sure.

very indirectly speaking.

Anxiety said:

Mm. I'd prefer to know I'm the product of an good old-fashioned fumble rather than my dad having a wee wank while he was thinking about Brad Pitt making a table for sick birds or something. Then injecting me up some random vagina with a $2.99 haeamroid soother. No romance.

No thanks.

On of my dads was gay but my other dad wasn't.

Just kidding. I was raised by wolves so I really should stay out of this.

Number23 said:

well, that's one way of looking at it.

another way of looking at it is this way:

Mm. I'd prefer to know that my parents wanted me so much that they went to the trouble of finding a surrogate partner, spent all the money and time (it can take months and months for artificial insemination to be successful, after all), and made sure they had all their ducks in a row and had a loving family waiting for me before i was brought into the world, rather than knowing i was the result of a quick roll in the hay and my daddy saying to my mommy "it just feels better without a condom...trust me".

it's hard for single men to adopt but single women can. I think the whole bias against gay men adopting stems from that.

that being said, a heterosexual married couple has the easiest time adopting. hmmmm....

Anxiety said:

You missed out "You know how much I love you." Unrelated, but it's popped into my head, Phil Spector has said of the prosecutor in his current "she kissed the gun" court case that he was 'proof it's possible to conceive through anal sex'. Which I had a giggle at and have stolen at least twice without acrediting the original source. But on another, related, note, from reading your posts here over the past four years, I think you'd make a fantastic parent and should do it before you get too old, selfish and cynical. Seriously.

Yes, I want turkey baster babies. Andrew and Christina.


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it's my ultimate goal and dream in life, it's all i have ever wanted, and i would adopt.