CarrieMpls said:

Carrie!

Cloudbuster said:

Cloudy!

oh...my...god...

How many times are we going to talk about this?

Janfriend said:

its that time of year...dont you know the org goes in cycles?

brownsugar said:

I think I'm on the same cycle as both of you. Heehee!!!!


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Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I was worried about sounding like that in my post...

Wouldn't it just be simpler if you bi-sexual folks had one set of your genitals removed surgically? You know, either keep your penis/testicle combo or keep your vagina. Having both is just not right!

Stymie said:

The way I’m telling it is that many “bi-sexual” women later in life will settle down with men and live heterosexual lives instead of being in relationships with lesbian women.

My post explains why I believe that, nothing about cheating.

if by pussy on the side you thought I meant cheating you are wrong, in those cases many husbands are down. For a bisexual man, though, it would most likely be a different case.

This what I know. I sleep with a woman.

I have no problem with bisexuals as long as they know what they are, admit it to themselves, and have some kind of pride about it.

What makes me mad as hell though, is these men that come to the gay clubs thinking they are going to have a threesome with two girls. Most of these men are totally disrespectful to the gay men in the clubs and "fag" is a word that comes out of their mouths a many a night. These damn queens just sit there and take it in their own club when they should be ganging up and beating the hell out of these men. The women they are trying to talk to should also beat the hell out of them because these men are throwing around homophobic words in a gay club and lesbians are homosexuals also. A self respecting lesbian should slap the shit out of her bisexual girlfriend if she asks her to join in a threesome with a man. Why should she lower herself to sleep with something she doesn't want just because her girlfriend likes men. That bastard would throw a fit if he was asked to join in with a man. (However, 99% of these men in these clubs will fool around with another man when they don't get lucky with a woman. They keep that part a secret though.)

Now....here's the problem between bisexual men and gay men. Before, after, or even during the sexual act with most bisexual men, if you ask them what they are...they say they are straight. They don't even admit to themselves that they are bisexual. Now, I be damned if I'm going to listen to some bastard tell me he's straight and he's trying to take me to bed. That's just their way of feeling superior to gay people. They want to enjoy the pleasures of the gay lifestyle but they don't want to face the discrimination that goes along with the lifestyle. Many gay men don't care because they just want to get the dick. Hell, have some damn pride. I don't have time for the son of a bitches. I wrote "trade" and "downlow" motherfuckers off my list a long time ago. The only way I would fool with one is if they have never been exposed to the clubs to see how the others ones refuse to accept it.

I'm generalizing I realize, but it's always seemed to me that straight people are more accepting of bisexuality than the GLBT community is. And that's just pathetic. I get tired of the "bi now, gay later," from my own people. Yes, some people go that route and claim they're bisexual until they're completely ready to fully embrace and love themselves, but as many have already said sexuality is a spectrum. Duh. Didn't you bitches see Kinsey?

Funny you should say that. In this book on Mick Jagger he supposedly grabbed a guys crotch in a NYC Hotel Lobby and caught himself telling the guy he wasn't Gay. I think both he and Michael are Really Quite and Prince Just DIDN'T Wanna Be Around them Knowing they had Tendencies. But supposedly Jagger had Multiple Sex in a Day. He's a Sex Addict According to this book and even was with Madonna.

vainandy said:

Well said man.
My experience is that we all need to be real and honest with ourselves first and foremost. If you exclusively like someone of the same sex, then you like em and it's the same if you like the opposite sex. And if you like em both then hey, like em both. Be true to yourself and don't settle for less.
[Edited 12/15/05 21:43pm]

Next question is TOP or Bottom.....Dominant or Passive? SUBMISSIVE?

meow85 said:

NOT EVERYONE ON ORG THINK MEOW MALE

BUT EVERYONE ON ORG THINK MEOW WAY DEFENSIVE

Cloudbuster said:

shut up WIGGIE smalls!

Christopher said:

That is so my hair!

Cloudbuster said:

we all knew

FauxieToo said:

whatever helps you get to sleep at night, mabel!

vainandy said:

:clap:EX-FUCKING-ACTLY. You said the shit better than I could. Moderators? Let's wrap this shit up.

Cloudbuster said:

Hey, me too.

MarieLouise said:

That's true, but it's also true that you don't need to actively be sleeping with both sexes to be satisfied. Didn't you read what I posted? Or did you and just not believe it?

DynamicSavior said:

Well fuck you too, and thank you for illustrating so clearly the type of shitty thinking this thread was meant to address.

I am not greedy.


I am not a whore.


I have never cheated on a partner, male or female.



I am not undecided or unsure of my sexuality. I know what I am and what I like, and there is no confusion at all.



Don't you DARE make judgements on me or my sexuality based on your own issues.

JediMaster said:

It's not my fault people generalize.

Anxiety said:

applekisses said:

DynamicSavior said:

Um, yeah. Actually it is. If gays and straights wouldn't bring it up, there wouldn't be an issue to begin with.

AsianBomb777 said:

But you'd nail Prince if you had the chance.

Mach said:

People DO say some stupid shit.