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PrintableStymie said: We don't cheat anymore than straights or gays do.
Absolutely. It's that kinda comment that pisses me off the most. If I'm with someone, I'm with someone. No games. End of. | |
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Stymie said: I've just really conditioned myself into not caring what society thinks. I'm done with trying to explain myself to people.
Ive stopped trying to label myself a long time ago. Again though if i am in a relationship, I dont stray, being attracted to whomever I am attracted to doesnt mean I sleep with everything at the drop of a hat | |
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Cloudbuster said: Stymie said: We don't cheat anymore than straights or gays do.
Absolutely. It's that kinda comment that pisses me off the most. If I'm with someone, I'm with someone. No games. End of. Yes, but your slutty ass hops from someone to someone with the frequency of a cheap HAM radio. 
THat's what Christopher tells me. | |
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ella731 said: Stymie said: I've just really conditioned myself into not caring what society thinks. I'm done with trying to explain myself to people.
Ive stopped trying to label myself a long time ago. Again though if i am in a relationship, I dont stray, being attracted to whomever I am attracted to doesnt mean I sleep with everything at the drop of a hat That's not what JerseyKRS tells me | |
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AsianBomb777 said: Cloudbuster said: Absolutely. It's that kinda comment that pisses me off the most. If I'm with someone, I'm with someone. No games. End of. Yes, but your slutty ass hops from someone to someone with the frequency of a cheap HAM radio.
THat's what Christopher tells me. What the fuck would that twisted pervert know? | |
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Cloudbuster said: AsianBomb777 said: Yes, but your slutty ass hops from someone to someone with the frequency of a cheap HAM radio.
THat's what Christopher tells me. What the fuck would that twisted pervert know?  | |
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AsianBomb777 said: ella731 said: Ive stopped trying to label myself a long time ago. Again though if i am in a relationship, I dont stray, being attracted to whomever I am attracted to doesnt mean I sleep with everything at the drop of a hat That's not what JerseyKRS tells me In his dreams | |
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I identify myself as profoundly straight | |
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Cloudbuster said: AsianBomb777 said: Yes, but your slutty ass hops from someone to someone with the frequency of a cheap HAM radio.
THat's what Christopher tells me. What the fuck would that twisted pervert know? ohhhh, the stories he could tell you about late nights with miss mj...  | |
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lilgish said: When it comes down to it alot of so called "bi-sexual" women give themselves two choices....
usally they choose to marry a MAN and have children, while they get pussy on the side; all of the sexual benefits of homosexuality, with none of the societal hardship. it's much easier than having to be in lesbian relationship in public. some would rather give the appearance of a straight lifestyle. alot of this comes down to lifestyle issues and choices rather than sex. [Edited 12/15/05 8:19am]  ... | |
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AsianBomb777 said: I identify myself as profoundly straight
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: Cloudbuster said: What the fuck would that twisted pervert know?
ohhhh, the stories he could tell you about late nights with miss mj... | |
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Anxiety said: sexual orientation is based on a spectrum, not a finite box of clearly marked definitions.
even within the labels of "straight" and "gay", you have a wide world of variance in what people look for in their partners. people who look for nice, clean labels are saying more about their own fears than they are about any truths in society. I think the "sexual spectrum" is the best explanation I've seen yet. I can certainly agree with this. When I was in my teens, I got very confused on the matter of sexuality. I fit many of the stereotypes of a gay man, felt more comfortable around gay men and women, and enjoyed the hell out of Madonna (  ). Of course, the assumption would be that I'm gay or bi, right? Well, there was just one little problem: I wasn't remotely attracted to men. This was a confusing situation, since many of my friends tried to convince me I was gay, and I was always getting hit on by gay dudes (of course, this had more to do with me being in theater than anything else. I was always the token straight guy). I just didn't know how to reconcile my interests and personality with a lack of lust for people of my own gender. Thank God that I had Prince to identify with, or I probably would have gone insane.
My point is, I meet much of the criteria for being "queer", but have no sexual attraction to men, thus I fit into an odd space on the spectrum. If everything were as black and white as some make it out, I wouldn't exist. Nowadays, I'm somewhat considered "metrosexual", but years ago there was no such label (and today this is a trendy term, describing a trendy movement). Humans will probably always feel the need to slap a label on things, it's just a part of our psychological makeup, but we need to realize that things aren't always so easily compartmentalized. 
Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended, for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones. (Ecclesiastes 7:9) | |
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"I don't believe bisexuality actually exists." 
"Bisexuals are just lying to themselves. They're really gay and trying to cop straight priveledges." 
"Women are naturally bisexual, but it's impossible for men to be." 
"Bisexuality is just a phase." 
"They're just doing it to be trendy" 
"You can't trust bi's. They'll cheat on you/aren't capable of monogamy/will leave you for someone of the other gender/spread disease."  | |
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AsianBomb777 said: I identify myself as profoundly straight
how exactly do you define "profoundly"? | |
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Handclapsfingasnapz said:[quote] DynamicSavior said: why? I mean, i'm not like "I HATE ALL THOSE CONFUSED BITCHES!!!" but still, when they come out the mouth with all that "gays and straights don't like us" and "our sexuality is legit" It gets annoying. We deal, why can't they?
it's like i said earlier, why do some people feel the need to constantly prove themselves instead of simply just being whatever sexual orientation they are? f'rinstance, i'm a lesbian...the only time i feel the need to bring it up is whenever: 1) someone asks me, or 2) there's a discussion such as the one that's going on here. i'm not the type of cat who feels the need to constantly drop the lez-bomb when i'm having a conversation with someone about what kinda pop i like to drink or whatever's clever. the same thing would apply if i were bi. if the fact that your bi friends are so adamant on telling you how they are is getting on your nerves, just stop 'em and say "i know. i'm fine with it, you don't need to keep repeating yourself." i for one think the negative attitudes put forth on those who are bi are pretty stupid. if you're gay, you're gay. I'm the same way too. Personally, I really don't care about my sexuality. I am what I am, and I deal with it without feeling the need to broadcast it. I mean goodness. Maybe if all ya'll would come out the closet and stop messin shit up for the rest of the GLBT community, maybe we would take ya'll seriously. One of Dansa's org hornies 
Supa is my gay messiah and he eats homeless dandruff sammitches on the bus.  HULK NEED LAID, HULK SMASH!!
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whoa..you know what's weird?? I know a woman named Erin, and she's bi-sexual, and a Prince fan...i wonder if you're her... One of Dansa's org hornies
Supa is my gay messiah and he eats homeless dandruff sammitches on the bus. HULK NEED LAID, HULK SMASH!!
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DynamicSavior said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: it's like i said earlier, why do some people feel the need to constantly prove themselves instead of simply just being whatever sexual orientation they are? f'rinstance, i'm a lesbian...the only time i feel the need to bring it up is whenever: 1) someone asks me, or 2) there's a discussion such as the one that's going on here. i'm not the type of cat who feels the need to constantly drop the lez-bomb when i'm having a conversation with someone about what kinda pop i like to drink or whatever's clever. the same thing would apply if i were bi. if the fact that your bi friends are so adamant on telling you how they are is getting on your nerves, just stop 'em and say "i know. i'm fine with it, you don't need to keep repeating yourself." i for one think the negative attitudes put forth on those who are bi are pretty stupid. if you're gay, you're gay. I'm the same way too. Personally, I really don't care about my sexuality. I am what I am, and I deal with it without feeling the need to broadcast it. I mean goodness. Maybe if all ya'll would come out the closet and stop messin shit up for the rest of the GLBT community, maybe we would take ya'll seriously. Who the hell is confused here? | |
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Stymie said: So, you are telling bisexual members of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered community to come of the closet? Isn't Bi part of the GLBT? You say with onee breath to let people be then turn around and say we should come out of the closet.....when we're already out of the closet as bisexuals.
Who the hell is confused here? get outta my brain, woman!   | |
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Stymie said: DynamicSavior said: I'm the same way too. Personally, I really don't care about my sexuality. I am what I am, and I deal with it without feeling the need to broadcast it. I mean goodness. Maybe if all ya'll would come out the closet and stop messin shit up for the rest of the GLBT community, maybe we would take ya'll seriously. Who the hell is confused here? Well, I'm not confused. Fine then. You're bi. I GET IT. But I was obviously referring to the half closeted ones. Come on out and get you some hatin'. Put some hair on your cojones. One of Dansa's org hornies
Supa is my gay messiah and he eats homeless dandruff sammitches on the bus. HULK NEED LAID, HULK SMASH!!
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Handclapsfingasnapz said: Stymie said: So, you are telling bisexual members of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered community to come of the closet? Isn't Bi part of the GLBT? You say with onee breath to let people be then turn around and say we should come out of the closet.....when we're already out of the closet as bisexuals.
Who the hell is confused here? get outta my brain, woman!  
Let me get off this thread. My braincells are dying. | |
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This isn't fun anymore. I'm out. One of Dansa's org hornies
Supa is my gay messiah and he eats homeless dandruff sammitches on the bus. HULK NEED LAID, HULK SMASH!!
The reigning queen of GD. All bitches step down. Prince.org: Where's Mani? | |
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DynamicSavior said: This isn't fun anymore. I'm out.
Thank fuck for that. | |
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Meow,
you have my support. Do your thing. I believe in Bisexuality. I hope you find the love of your life, whatever the gender may be. Peace, Miguel 98% HOMO M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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meow85 said: Sexuality in general is a tricky thing to define. Many people seem to be under the impression that all bisexuals are fully 50% attracted to men and 50% attracted to women. Some like women more than men, some like men more than women, and some, like me, really are equally attracted to people of both sexes. The ratio doesn't matter, what makes a person bisexual is attraction, at least in part, to both sexes.
 That is indeed the main source of misunderstandings about bisexuals. If they're leaning more towards one gender they'll immediately be subjected to accusations and disbelief. Only if they're carefully planning how to evenly distribute their time between the two genders are they accepted as bi, if even then.
I think the reason for that is people's fear of being labelled as bisexual themselves. As long as they can tell themselves that being "mostly straight" entitles them to call themselves "straight", they feel safe. It's sad, really. | |
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Cloudbuster said: DynamicSavior said: This isn't fun anymore. I'm out.
Thank fuck for that.  Damn I love you. | |
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maybe i'm wierd or sappy or whatever but eventhough i consider myself straight, i've never put a label on people's sexuality. i always felt that people fall for who they fall for and it just so happens that that person may or may not be of the same sex. | |
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brownsugar said: maybe i'm wierd or sappy or whatever but eventhough i consider myself straight, i've never put a label on people's sexuality. i always felt that people fall for who they fall for and it just so happens that that person may or may not be of the same sex.
Exactly. You can't control who you fall in love with. You can't control who you're attracted to. You can't control what turns you on. It's really that simple. | |
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Cloudbuster said: brownsugar said: maybe i'm wierd or sappy or whatever but eventhough i consider myself straight, i've never put a label on people's sexuality. i always felt that people fall for who they fall for and it just so happens that that person may or may not be of the same sex.
Exactly. You can't control who you fall in love with. You can't control who you're attracted to. You can't control what turns you on. It's really that simple.  |
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