Anxiety said:

I'm in my own category dammit.

I can't be labeled. When people ask I just tell them "i suck dick" and they get the point.

DynamicSavior said:

wasn't that what i just said a few posts up?

Anxiety said:

NO!! CHUT IT YOU!!!

One of my best friends is bi and she married a woman. But, I know that she has gotten feedback like you have from the gay and straight communities. I think it's ridiculous. Hang in there, honey...we all fall on the sexual preference continum somewhere

DynamicSavior said:

Anxiety said:

I can't believe you found those guys!!!

DynamicSavior said:

I just figured out who you are from your nasty and very ignorant comments.

Natisse said:

hey you,

I've just really conditioned myself into not caring what society thinks. I'm done with trying to explain myself to people.

Stymie said:

Stymie said:

I'm not ignorant or nasty. I'm just talking from experience. Let me guess, you're "bi" too. You people are awfully sensitive. goodness.

DynamicSavior said:

bait much?

for someone who comes across as so sexually conservative, your responses on this thread sure make you look like an A-1 master baiter.

why do some folks feel the need to waste their time proving to people that they are what they are? just fucking be it, man.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Dansa!

Cloudbuster said:

Stymie said:

Ivy!

DynamicSavior said:

You people?

At the end of the day, it doesn't matter who I share a bed with or who I'm attracted to.


If you don't like us, leave us tha fuck alone. You won't see threads we start on here bashing gay or straight people.

Cloudbuster said:

hi, you.

As with most things in life, my feelings r best summed up by Mr. Chris Rock:

"No real person is just one thing"



I love my Husband, but denying my sexual attraction to women would b lying.

Stymie said:

Like I said earlier, I don't have any problem with bi-sexuals. I have bi-sexual friends. I just don't want to date one. If you start a thread bashing gays or straights, you'd be half bashing yourself, right? So that wouldn't be logical now would it. And we're not the ones on here bitching about how we're not accepted. We deal with it, so why don't ya'll just marinate in the little acceptance you get from society and stop complaining. Goodness. Now I have to go do my eyebrows.
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aslong as bi-female can stay strictly dickly while she's with me (and strictly my dick), I'm okay.

Going with another female breaks my monogamy stance just the same if it was a man...in a serious relationship mind you. No orgies either. If you need pussy that bad then find a man who doesn't mind.

DynamicSavior said:

ehh, the ol' tried & true "i have _____ friends" excuse...that still don't quite save ya.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I don't care what "bi-sexuals" think of me. I don't mind being around them, but when they try to get personal with me, I still have mixed feelings regarding their stance on their sexuality. I mean, i'm not like "I HATE ALL THOSE CONFUSED BITCHES!!!" but still, when they come out the mouth with all that "gays and straights don't like us" and "our sexuality is legit" It gets annoying. We deal, why can't they? And it's always them bringing this up. It's not the straight or gay people on here going "THOSE GO*DAMN BI-SEXUALS!!!FUCKING SHIT UP FOR EVERYBODY!!" So why can't ya'll just chill already?

I believe there have been studies done on bisexuality and i know that in the college i attended the sexual spectrum was discussed. the information on bisexuality is out there but for whatever reason, people don't fully comprehend it.

I think there's a little bit of bisexuality in everyone. You can be straight yet recognize that a member of the same sex is attractive or sexy and admire their physical appearance without want to be sexual with them. You can also be straight and have an intellectual attraction to some on of the same sex but not a sexual one. There's nothing wrong with admitting that but most people ignore it.

I went through a time in my life when i didn't believe in bisexuality AT ALL. I thought that every bisexual was a freakin' faker. My first boyfriend said he was bisexual but then he came out as being gay. I also had some other friends who thought that they were being trendy by being bisexual. It disillusioned me somewhat.

Then i grew up and was able to see sexuality for what it is. Like anything else in the human psyche, it's fluxuating, confusing, and hard to pin down.

DynamicSavior said:

why?

it's like i said earlier, why do some people feel the need to constantly prove themselves instead of simply just being whatever sexual orientation they are? f'rinstance, i'm a lesbian...the only time i feel the need to bring it up is whenever: 1) someone asks me, or 2) there's a discussion such as the one that's going on here. i'm not the type of cat who feels the need to constantly drop the lez-bomb when i'm having a conversation with someone about what kinda pop i like to drink or whatever's clever. the same thing would apply if i were bi. if the fact that your bi friends are so adamant on telling you how they are is getting on your nerves, just stop 'em and say "i know. i'm fine with it, you don't need to keep repeating yourself."

i for one think the negative attitudes put forth on those who are bi are pretty stupid. if you're gay, you're gay.

When it comes down to it alot of so called "bi-sexual" women give themselves two choices....

usally they choose to marry a MAN and have children, while they get pussy on the side; all of the sexual benefits of homosexuality, with none of the societal hardship.

it's much easier than having to be in lesbian relationship in public.

some would rather give the appearance of a straight lifestyle.

alot of this comes down to lifestyle issues and choices rather than sex.
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Truth, one of the major schisms between me and a lot of the gay men that I've met is their attitiude towards bisexuals. I can't for the life of me understand why a group so marginalized by the rest of society would need to then belittle a group that's different from them. I don't get how people don't see the inherent hypocrisy in such an attitude. Gah. Really, it's a prejudice that both gay and straight people seem to have, and I just don't get it.


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lilgish said:

You KNOW a lot of bisexual women? I don't know a lot but I don't know a single one in the scenario that you posted. The way you tell it, a lot of bi women are out to cheat on someone. That just isn't the case. We don't cheat anymore than straights or gays do.