Spats said:

So what I get out of that is that you have no potential career-wise.
That and you're not responsible enough to contribute anything.

gemini13 said:

oh, he contributes something alright....




















...he contributes a prime example of how men shouldn't act, and what type of men that women should keep the hell away from. that, and he's good for a laugh.

Why do you think i have no potential career wise or nothing to contribute? I just want women to get up off their ass and contribute something for a change. Instead of waiting for the man to do it all.

Spats said:

you just answered your own question, in a way.

Spats said:

Wait a minute....you're contradicting yourself here....

You say you don't like so-called outdated gender roles, but you want an ultra feminine girl who has impeccable manners? That sounds very 1940's gender role-ish to me.

gemini13 said:

(isaac sharon voice) he doesn't know what he wants!

gemini13 said:

co-sign

gemini13 said:

Obviously he wants it both ways. He wants a hot girly-girl to hold the door open for him & buy him dinner.

I think both men and women should have good manners and pretty feminine women just turn me on.

andyman91 said:

andyman91 said:

DUHHHHH!!!!!

That is NEVER going to happen. The girly-girl will EXPECT the door to be opened for her.

Spats said:

feminine women who aren't into gender roles??


i have some things i want to say to you, but i won't. i'm more of a lady than that.

besides, i'm pretty sure they'd get [snipped].

Describe YOUR perfect image of a possible mate

It really doesn't have to make sense to anyone else. It's what you want in a person even if that person will never exist...

Like I said, he's free to want what he wants, it's just he was contradicting himself a bit with the gender role comment.

I have never said that i want a woman paying for me or holding the door for me. I can do that crap for myself. But i don't want a woman who has no interest in doing that stuff and only wants,needs, and expects the man to do all of that.

Spats said:

So are you saying that all this stuff you hate is ok as long as you both do it?

Spats said:

You're right, I was making a joke. But you do seem to want a girl to be ultra feminine, but only when it suits you, & masculine, but only when it suits you, and I wish you luck with that.

No, i am not saying that.

Spats said:

sure you are. you're wanting a woman who keeps herself up at all times (considered as feminine), but she'd better seek you out herself (considered as masculine).

feminine to me means: that kind physical mannerism and way of talking that is girly.

d.j quall, adam lamberg mix

Spats said:

i'd love to hear about your progression as a man. how have your values changed since you were a teenager?

I don't need to describe her. I married her.

TMPletz said:

So sweet.

I'd say something similar.

My wife.

Before I married her though.






jk

LleeLlee said:

I don't have a perfect image of a possible mate. That's dangerous.

I have a possible image of my perfect mate.

I have a wonderful boyfriend. Physically speaking he's totally my cup of tea. I don't believe emotional perfect matches exist. I love him so much, he loves me, and together we try to solve our difficulties. Major problem but best key if you find it is having enough space to be yourself, and enough time to be together and be one.

SassierBritches said:

eh...i just thought they deserved another post!

I think androgyny is really sexy. A perfect girlfriend would be more masculine then me, and able to take care of me, but without being controlling.

Heres my list of super lush qualities , OK so its more than likely completely unreasonable

Medium build , not at all skinny , thats just nasty

Dark hair preferably all messed up and kinda dorky geeky

A hairy Chest and tummy

Someone who isnt into themselves / take themselves too seriously

Someone who is kind , honest and genuine

Someone soft and strong at the same time ( no toilet paper jokes please )

Pochacco said:

until that fourth line i thought you were talking about a woman!!