abierman said:

Apology accepted.

Sorry Abierman, i am not into aging lothario's,

I always post pix of beautiful men but in reality I'm not all that superficial.

I want someone that can be silly and have a great sense of humor. He has to be able to have fun anywhere. We could go out dancing or stay at home and watch a movie. He has to have a life of his own though. We should be able to hang out with our friends together and apart.


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MIGUELGOMEZ said:

How have you been?

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Agree with everything you said!

about 5' - 5' 4", in compatible shape,style, and looks with me... but different in family background, ethnicity.

very funny, wise, practical, creative, tough, unique, openminded, kinky, multitasker, independent, affectionate, supportive, and different in talents and career from me....

and a cute addictive voice!

oh yeah, commited and loyal.

and a non addictive personality. (alcohol, drugs, etc) but still fun.
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I've found everything I want in a mate...all in one person....just gotta make him mine!!!

Lizzy7701 said:

me too!!

Perfect..

DirtyGirl82 said:

i'm not into tennis, who IS that??

It's have to be in jpeg format, less than 800kb with high quality compression.

fantasyislander said:

James Blake ,he is so sexy ..

and


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Spats said:

But pretty, w/ nice ass, tits, cute li'l nose, shorter than me, feminine voice, feminine laugh, nice manners, long blonde hair.
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SassierBritches said:

i actually recognize him!!


oh and for beckham too

SassierBritches said:

I love him in those shorts ,he is a big boy !

andyman91 said:

exactamundo. spats, if you had a girl who truly didn't believe in gender roles, she'd be serving you ass-kickings on a daily basis.

MichaelsLight said:

Is this weird for a girl?

MichaelsLight said:

Not neccesarily. everyones different, and some people dont like affection or attention as much as others, if at all. there was an interesting thread on here not too long ago about this, and about th effect someones upbringing had on a their needs, wants, or even hates in later life. Not their upbringing as such, but how affectionate their family was, what kind of environment they were raised in, and other factors too. Thinking that women are all soppy and men are all hard is too extreme, its nothing like that really. There are extremes of every personality, as with everything in life most people are probably somewhere near the middle but that doesnt make the extremes wierd! How would we now what was "the middle" if we didnt have extremes!

susannah said:

We all want someone who will accept us as we are, but I always wonder who plans to accept and stay with someone who seems to be without a heart.

When i say that i mean a woman who is not stuck in the whole 'That's man's responsibility". Why can't i have that and those other qualities. A woman can be hot and still be like that.

And my wants are no different than anything anyone else here has posted.

Spats said:

Agreed, certainly wouldn't want a relationship where roles for men and women have to be like they were in the 40s.

Exactly. Unfortunately so many women still believe in that way of thinking. No progression.

Spats said:

Relationships that surround me, family and friend wise, I see the man/lesbian playing the man role, having to be the dominant in the relationship. But if the woman settles for that, the man will never change and the cycles of these roles live on. That's why I want a man who doesn't mind if I can't cook and would turn and run on his 3in. heels from a powertool without a problem.

Spats said:

You're free to want what you want, I'm just pointing out the gender roles that you ARE interested in. My guess is you also like makeup, shaved legs/underarms, and other female type gender roles.

Not too much makeup. Some make up because most women don't look so hot without it. And i don't like hairy women so they should shave. I don't think that's a gender role. Just what attracts you. Has nothing to with women that think it's the man's job to do this and that and her job to do this and that.

Spats said:

Like I say, it's okay to want whatever you want (you're just being honest), but I do think "some makeup" and shaved legs are gender roles just like "men are the aggressors" is a gender role. Men are not expected to shave their legs or wear makeup.

andyman91 said:

Those features earn you points in my book

I don't consider that a gender role. That's just what someone finds attractive. And those are a couple exceptions. Women can have long or short hair as can men, etc. I am talking about behavior.

Spats said:

because your ideal "qualities" are totally fuck'd, man.