Rhondab said: what post did you read Dex that you thought was a bit too much.....
your questions don't just pop into that big ass head of yours..... I was wondering that myself | |
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I think a lot of has to do with how you view the Org and what you want/expect from it. | |
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Rhondab said: what post did you read Dex that you thought was a bit too much.....
your questions don't just pop into that big ass head of yours..... Shutup!!! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: I am not afraid to be known. I am who I am and one can take it or leave it. I am the same here.. there or anywhere. I think it is healthy for people to step beyond themselves and risk being known.... If that process begins here then great. Helps us to see we are all greatly wanting the same thing, to be accepted for who we are (and that we always won't be) AND THAT'S OK!
It also creates tolerance for difference in my opinion. I'd also dare to say that people around here are vastly more aware of people around the world and culture differences are better understood then by the average person in their local cities. How does one become comfortable? I'd suppose a little bit at a time and then by facing a little bit of scrutiny and surviving it. You realize that its not gonna kill you after all. As for the friendships they aren't isolated to online contact. Some of the greatest friendships I have known were forged on this site.... Including yourself and Chris. Final thought: I don't say anything in any environment that isn't able to be said in all. You could print all this and publish it. Heck most the people in my world have seen it anyway. Whap! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Rhondab said: what post did you read Dex that you thought was a bit too much.....
your questions don't just pop into that big ass head of yours..... Shutup!!! Make me... | |
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I used to be much more open here on the org until a fellow orger completely ripped that sense of safety out from under me. Now I am much more careful about what things I tell people. I use better discretion in giving out my phone number, address, or real name. I don't meet orgers I feel uncomfortable meeting. What a lovely wake-up call.
But, that wasn't really answering your question, dex. The org is all about people talking talking talking, mostly to ourselves. It's strange because I have posted shit in the past and completely forgotten about it and then another orger has brought it up in conversation and I'm like " how did they know about that?!" It's easy to forget we all have histories here and others, whether we like it or not, will remember them. I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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Great thread, Dex - five whaps for that!
I was not that comfortable posting at first - I rarely posted for the first several months on here. But then I began reading posts that really interested me and I made some positive connections with other Orgers and now I feel totally comfortable - and like Muse said, once you've been scrutinized and survived it... well, it's all par for the course after that, I suppose. I know that everyone initially comes here because they are Prince fans - but what a great place it is to interact, have intelligenct (and silly) discussions and truly forge some genuine friendships. Admittedly, I was nervous going to my first Org "gathering," but it was such a lovely experience and everyone was so incredibly nice and charming and witty... what a wonderful community we have here! VOTE....EARLY | |
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lets put it this way
im very grateful that there is no search function | |
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Natsume said: I used to be much more open here on the org until a fellow orger completely ripped that sense of safety out from under me. Now I am much more careful about what things I tell people. I use better discretion in giving out my phone number, address, or real name. I don't meet orgers I feel uncomfortable meeting. What a lovely wake-up call.
But, that wasn't really answering your question, dex. The org is all about people talking talking talking, mostly to ourselves. It's strange because I have posted shit in the past and completely forgotten about it and then another orger has brought it up in conversation and I'm like " how did they know about that?!" It's easy to forget we all have histories here and others, whether we like it or not, will remember them. Fuck her and fuck that... Unfortuantally you aren't the first to report such to me in the last few days..... It hurts to hear cowards behave in such a shady manner! I can only SWEAR that what comes around does indeed go around and shady folk get theirs..... | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Natsume said: I used to be much more open here on the org until a fellow orger completely ripped that sense of safety out from under me. Now I am much more careful about what things I tell people. I use better discretion in giving out my phone number, address, or real name. I don't meet orgers I feel uncomfortable meeting. What a lovely wake-up call.
But, that wasn't really answering your question, dex. The org is all about people talking talking talking, mostly to ourselves. It's strange because I have posted shit in the past and completely forgotten about it and then another orger has brought it up in conversation and I'm like " how did they know about that?!" It's easy to forget we all have histories here and others, whether we like it or not, will remember them. Fuck her and fuck that... Unfortuantally you aren't the first to report such to me in the last few days..... It hurts to hear cowards behave in such a shady manner! I can only SWEAR that what comes around does indeed go around and shady folk get theirs..... I'm not sure what's gone on but if it's something or someone to be worried about please a little (private, of course) warning would go far | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Natsume said: I used to be much more open here on the org until a fellow orger completely ripped that sense of safety out from under me. Now I am much more careful about what things I tell people. I use better discretion in giving out my phone number, address, or real name. I don't meet orgers I feel uncomfortable meeting. What a lovely wake-up call.
But, that wasn't really answering your question, dex. The org is all about people talking talking talking, mostly to ourselves. It's strange because I have posted shit in the past and completely forgotten about it and then another orger has brought it up in conversation and I'm like " how did they know about that?!" It's easy to forget we all have histories here and others, whether we like it or not, will remember them. Fuck her and fuck that... Unfortuantally you aren't the first to report such to me in the last few days..... It hurts to hear cowards behave in such a shady manner! I can only SWEAR that what comes around does indeed go around and shady folk get theirs..... | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Natsume said: I used to be much more open here on the org until a fellow orger completely ripped that sense of safety out from under me. Now I am much more careful about what things I tell people. I use better discretion in giving out my phone number, address, or real name. I don't meet orgers I feel uncomfortable meeting. What a lovely wake-up call.
But, that wasn't really answering your question, dex. The org is all about people talking talking talking, mostly to ourselves. It's strange because I have posted shit in the past and completely forgotten about it and then another orger has brought it up in conversation and I'm like " how did they know about that?!" It's easy to forget we all have histories here and others, whether we like it or not, will remember them. Fuck her and fuck that... Unfortuantally you aren't the first to report such to me in the last few days..... It hurts to hear cowards behave in such a shady manner! I can only SWEAR that what comes around does indeed go around and shady folk get theirs..... ya'll betta leave Muse alone befo she whoops dat ass!!!! | |
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DexMSR said: How do you come to the point where you are comfortable with your world exposed to the Org? i have always been comfortable with sharing the small amount i share of my life with those i choose to share it with ... i have no fears with being known for who and what i am i do not state facts about myself to gain friends ... the Org is a fun place to play ... and in the meantime i have made a few incredible friends... such as you Dex | |
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it satisfies my inner exhibitionist. | |
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I reveal a lot here because I reveal a lot in real life. I don't think I'm any different in person than I am on the org. I don't have any secrets. (actually only one, my dad doesn't know I smoke on occassion.)
M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Easy, cuz we're friends! Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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Why not? Sometimes I'll be open, sometimes I'll hold things back. Just depends how I feel at the time, who's posting, orgnothing or whatever. I don't really see a problem with posting personal stuff sometimes. It's nice to be known as a person rather than just a screen name and sometimes posting little honest bits and bobs here and there makes that happen. | |
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I don't think it's such a big deal,plus I only wanna be with People who are Fun and Non Judgemental. I Hate STUFFED SHIRTS! I also think people should be honest and talk about issues freely. It doesn't really Amount to all that Much. Look at SUE JOHANSON, DR JUDY KURIANSKI, DR RUTH.... Talking about Sex should Not Be so TABOO. Doesn't Mean ya Gonna get down with Everyone,but ya can Talk about Sex and Race Issues are Also Very IMPORTANT and POLITICS and AIDS. Good to Give OPINIONS...Have Things you STAND UP FOR,FEEL PASSIONATE ABOUT... | |
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Zelaira said: I don't think it's such a big deal,plus I only wanna be with People who are Fun and Non Judgemental. I Hate STUFFED SHIRTS! I also think people should be honest and talk about issues freely. It doesn't really Amount to all that Much. Look at SUE JOHANSON, DR JUDY KURIANSKI, DR RUTH.... Talking about Sex should Not Be so TABOO. Doesn't Mean ya Gonna get down with Everyone,but ya can Talk about Sex and Race Issues are Also Very IMPORTANT and POLITICS and AIDS. Good to Give OPINIONS...Have Things you STAND UP FOR,FEEL PASSIONATE ABOUT...
I used to hang shit on you when you were Natasha for your unashamedly open posting, but now I've come to appreciate it. | |
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i'm pretty private. i'm the same way here as i am in R/L. i'll be happy to talk about the issues at length, but my private life is my private life, and people (here and in R/L) know relatively little about it.
i've learned to filter my comments. | |
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Natsume said: I used to be much more open here on the org until a fellow orger completely ripped that sense of safety out from under me. Now I am much more careful about what things I tell people. I use better discretion in giving out my phone number, address, or real name. I don't meet orgers I feel uncomfortable meeting. What a lovely wake-up call.
But, that wasn't really answering your question, dex. The org is all about people talking talking talking, mostly to ourselves. It's strange because I have posted shit in the past and completely forgotten about it and then another orger has brought it up in conversation and I'm like " how did they know about that?!" It's easy to forget we all have histories here and others, whether we like it or not, will remember them. Lordy, I remember that night! You, me and Lleena orgpopping like crazy and me wanting to raise hell with that person in your defense (I REALLY have to get out of that habit!). [Edited 12/12/05 19:13pm] | |
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I know Fauxie..We would argue and i was getting in trouble by the mods. You seem like you have Softened towards me. This I am Happy about. I Hate Fighting when people can be Friendly Instead. No,Ill will ever..Have a Great Night and Happy Holidays to U and Your Wife...Peace.. | |
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Zelaira said: I know Fauxie..We would argue and i was getting in trouble by the mods. You seem like you have Softened towards me. This I am Happy about. I Hate Fighting when people can be Friendly Instead. No,Ill will ever..Have a Great Night and Happy Holidays to U and Your Wife...Peace..
Thank you. | |
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Beautiful Responses People!!!
I am here for all the energy I have just read above! Yes we all Prince Fans...and all the lively spirits and souls here are just wonderful to experience!! I have had my run-ins, drama, arguments, relationships, stalkers, YOU NAME IT, but the one thing I have truly experienced here is RESPECT Respect is abound here. Respect and acceptance for every walk of life! Almost every person I have had run ins with I am totally their friend right now. I have had the pleasure of having met so many of you over the years and can't say how much I look forward to meeting even more of you. I created this thread to see EXACTLY what I am reading here! Love! Humor! Memories! HUMANITY!!! Damn....I done lost my buzz fuckin' around with you people!! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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IrresistibleB1tch said: i'm pretty private. i'm the same way here as i am in R/L. i'll be happy to talk about the issues at length, but my private life is my private life, and people (here and in R/L) know relatively little about it.
i've learned to filter my comments. Maybe so, but you are one witty and smart B1tch! And I for one am glad that you're here! VOTE....EARLY | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Natsume said: I used to be much more open here on the org until a fellow orger completely ripped that sense of safety out from under me. Now I am much more careful about what things I tell people. I use better discretion in giving out my phone number, address, or real name. I don't meet orgers I feel uncomfortable meeting. What a lovely wake-up call.
But, that wasn't really answering your question, dex. The org is all about people talking talking talking, mostly to ourselves. It's strange because I have posted shit in the past and completely forgotten about it and then another orger has brought it up in conversation and I'm like " how did they know about that?!" It's easy to forget we all have histories here and others, whether we like it or not, will remember them. Lordy, I remember that night! You, me and Lleena orgpopping like crazy and me wanting to raise hell with that person in your defense (I REALLY have to get out of that habit!). [Edited 12/12/05 19:13pm] yep When Nat told me what had happened I was --> | |
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I read thru the posts.
If it sounds like most of y'all are drunk then I'll expose my intimates. | |
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DiminutiveRocker said: IrresistibleB1tch said: i'm pretty private. i'm the same way here as i am in R/L. i'll be happy to talk about the issues at length, but my private life is my private life, and people (here and in R/L) know relatively little about it.
i've learned to filter my comments. Maybe so, but you are one witty and smart B1tch! And I for one am glad that you're here! awwww... that's sweet! and back atcha of course! | |
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I'm very careful what I post and do not post here. Emotions tend 2 b heightened on-line, but it's important 2 remember we're all here 2 have a good time. It's entertainment. That is how I view it and how I play here. Like most things on-line and in real life, it can b a lot of fun if U don't take it 2 seriously. Listen to me on The House of Pop Culture podcast on itunes http://itunes.apple.com/u...d438631917 | |
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Illustrator said: I read thru the posts.
If it sounds like most of y'all are drunk then I'll expose my intimates. Post away! VOTE....EARLY | |
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