AsianBomb777 said: Ocean said: My Dad has always been like that with my brothers.....now that I think about it I don't think I have every seen him hug them ...
It can be very damaging I think. My sister and I make it a point to hug my newphews all the time. We always tell them we love them, and we always tell the all sides of a story--even the ugly stuff. They knew death was final, and that differnt people had different spins on life-after-death when they were only 3 and 4 years old. They also know that grownups can be wrong--we insist upon it. (Even though it doesn't change the fact that we are to be obeyed. lol ) | |
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wHiTEgIRlCrAzY said: Ocean said: Lmao ... I'm a hopeless romantic, what can I say. u may need a little more practice without ur finger | |
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AsianBomb777 said: Ocean said: My Dad has always been like that with my brothers.....now that I think about it I don't think I have every seen him hug them ...
It can be very damaging I think. My sister and I make it a point to hug my newphews all the time. We always tell them we love them, and we always tell the all sides of a story--even the ugly stuff. They knew death was final, and that different people had different spins on life-after-death when they were only 3 and 4 years old. They also know that grownups can be wrong--we insist upon it. (Even though it doesn't change the fact that we are to be obeyed. lol ) oh and yes I definitely think it's damaging....my brothers and my Dad don't have very good relationships as adults now....they seem to be always looking for his approval and he never seems to quite give it to them | |
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Ocean said: AsianBomb777 said: It can be very damaging I think. My sister and I make it a point to hug my newphews all the time. We always tell them we love them, and we always tell the all sides of a story--even the ugly stuff. They knew death was final, and that differnt people had different spins on life-after-death when they were only 3 and 4 years old. They also know that grownups can be wrong--we insist upon it. (Even though it doesn't change the fact that we are to be obeyed. lol ) hugging your boys is so important. My boys are hugging champions! | |
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Ocean said: wHiTEgIRlCrAzY said: Lmao ... I'm a hopeless romantic, what can I say. u may need a little more practice without ur finger Fingers have nothing to do with romance. Wait, scratch that. aka crazyhorse | |
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wHiTEgIRlCrAzY said: Ocean said: u may need a little more practice without ur finger Fingers have nothing to do with romance. Wait, scratch that. | |
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Ocean said: wHiTEgIRlCrAzY said: Fingers have nothing to do with romance. Wait, scratch that. wow! this romance is really blossoming!!! | |
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nilegettolrahc said: Ocean said: wow! this romance is really blossoming!!! I always wondered how you spell "blossoming." aka crazyhorse | |
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wHiTEgIRlCrAzY said: nilegettolrahc said: wow! this romance is really blossoming!!! I always wondered how you spell "blossoming." is this right? | |
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That when they went to 'sleep' after a big row- they were't really 'sleeping'
*many bored hours on a weekend as a kid...'WAKE UP!! IM BORED!!!' No hablo espanol,no!
Pero hablo ingles..ssii muy muy bien... "Come into my world..." Missy Quote of da Month: "yeah, sure, that's cool...wait WHAT?! " | |
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they smoke a lot of weed....
for the arthritis i'm sure. you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel
Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants. | |
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lillith said: they smoke a lot of weed....
for the arthritis i'm sure. yeah..that got to be it... | |
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They've mentioned to my sister and I that they'd been practicing Mormons (they weren't raised that way, they joined it in their 20's I think) before we were born..but they don't know we know why they aren't still Mormon.
Our grandma told us that when they started to look into getting married in the Mormon church (this was in the seventies) that the elders or whoever made some remarks about looking into my mom's background...but not my dad's. Apparently this was motivated by racism, or something awfully close to it. My dad is obviously white, but my mom is hard to place when you first look at her. They were horrified and left the church. I really want to know why they haven't told us this, but we were sworn to secrecy by my grandma. ugh i had a spelling-like-AB moment edit [Edited 12/12/05 12:40pm] | |
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My life is stagnant because they babied me for too long and their love is self-serving. As a result, I always felt rejected and hated by them. | |
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fantasyislander said: i know what sound my mom makes when they're doing "it".
that is horrible!!!! I never want to know that!!!! http://elmadartista.tumblr.com/ http://twitter.com/madartista | |
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gyro34 said: My life is stagnant because they babied me for too long and their love is self-serving. As a result, I always felt rejected and hated by them.
that's very sad. http://elmadartista.tumblr.com/ http://twitter.com/madartista | |
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madartista said: gyro34 said: My life is stagnant because they babied me for too long and their love is self-serving. As a result, I always felt rejected and hated by them.
that's very sad. Thanks, madartista. I love that hug emoticon. [Edited 12/12/05 20:01pm] | |
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gyro34 said: Thanks, madartista. I love that hug emoticon.
Funny how much warmth comes out of that little thing, huh? Here's another one http://elmadartista.tumblr.com/ http://twitter.com/madartista | |
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madartista said: gyro34 said: Thanks, madartista. I love that hug emoticon.
Funny how much warmth comes out of that little thing, huh? Here's another one Here's one for you too If you don't mind my asking. What does that tatoo say in your wrist? | |
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