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PrintableSpats said: Yes, prince has done songs where he kisses women's asses. He has his faults too. It's nice to know stars like him make mistakes as well.
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Stymie said: 20 for a man: Playa, pimp, high fives all around.
20 for a woman: ho, skank, slut. If I had had 20 or more partners, I'd still be flying my freak flag high. Fuck haters. Well, I know this won't be a popular thing to say but there's a good reason for these perceptions. You can't really hold men and women to the same standards. We're different. We, men are naturally wired to go out and bed as many women as we can. Now, if we choose to settle with just one that's fine but it's not necessarily our natural instinct, particularly not as young men. Also consider that there's nothing to it for a woman to get laid. Men will pay the ugliest "skank" for sex, but a woman does not have to pay. If she wants it she can get it from somebody without lifting a finger. Also, sex is a completely different experience for a man and woman. Therefore, we don't hold men and women to the same standards. The problem is determining what standards to hold ourselves to-- fuck a society. If I think a woman's a whore for sleeping with any man other than myself well dammit she's a whore.  Then again maybe I think of myself as a hoe if I sleep with a woman when I know I have no interest in her aside from her body. It's all a matter of personal taste and there's really no right or wrong.
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1sexymf said: Give my you opinion on this please.
A few days ago, I was consoling a friend because her boyfriend broke up with her. He asked her how many sexual partners she has had (she's 23 by the way) and she told him around 18-20. He freaked out about it and ended it. Does that constitute a high number for a woman, and would you break up with a person if you discovered this, even if you asked? Here is my take on this issue: I never questioned HOW you came to be the freak that you must be to be with me...just that I am HAPPY that you are that freak with ME!!!!! 
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whodknee said: Stymie said: 20 for a man: Playa, pimp, high fives all around.
20 for a woman: ho, skank, slut. If I had had 20 or more partners, I'd still be flying my freak flag high. Fuck haters. Well, I know this won't be a popular thing to say but there's a good reason for these perceptions. You can't really hold men and women to the same standards. We're different. We, men are naturally wired to go out and bed as many women as we can. Now, if we choose to settle with just one that's fine but it's not necessarily our natural instinct, particularly not as young men. Also consider that there's nothing to it for a woman to get laid. Men will pay the ugliest "skank" for sex, but a woman does not have to pay. If she wants it she can get it from somebody without lifting a finger. Also, sex is a completely different experience for a man and woman. Therefore, we don't hold men and women to the same standards. The problem is determining what standards to hold ourselves to-- fuck a society. If I think a woman's a whore for sleeping with any man other than myself well dammit she's a whore. Then again maybe I think of myself as a hoe if I sleep with a woman when I know I have no interest in her aside from her body. It's all a matter of personal taste and there's really no right or wrong.
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Stymie said: whodknee said: Well, I know this won't be a popular thing to say but there's a good reason for these perceptions. You can't really hold men and women to the same standards. We're different. We, men are naturally wired to go out and bed as many women as we can. Now, if we choose to settle with just one that's fine but it's not necessarily our natural instinct, particularly not as young men. Also consider that there's nothing to it for a woman to get laid. Men will pay the ugliest "skank" for sex, but a woman does not have to pay. If she wants it she can get it from somebody without lifting a finger. Also, sex is a completely different experience for a man and woman. Therefore, we don't hold men and women to the same standards. The problem is determining what standards to hold ourselves to-- fuck a society. If I think a woman's a whore for sleeping with any man other than myself well dammit she's a whore. Then again maybe I think of myself as a hoe if I sleep with a woman when I know I have no interest in her aside from her body. It's all a matter of personal taste and there's really no right or wrong.
[Edited 12/9/05 1:50am] [Edited 12/9/05 1:59am] there is a certain amount of truth to it. however, when men try to use it as an excuse, it becomes bullshit. There's biology and then there's personal choice. Too many men confuse the two. | |
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I've only had one.
Oh..hang on. Does yourself still count?  | |
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CynthiasSocks said: NO! Straight guys can be so stupid- he's jealous over some shit that happened befor him.
You're friend is better off without his stupid ass. Co-sign. It's only some mysoginistic, sexist bullshit. I'd rather be with someone that is a little more experienced than someone who is new at it. This is only because the new person may not want to settle down right away even though I did. M [Edited 12/12/05 20:43pm] MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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well if she learned some tricks from every partner she had.....then keep her.
like its great having sex with a virgin.....not..... i find that the heart is a risky fuel to burn. | |
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Stymie said: whodknee said: Well, I know this won't be a popular thing to say but there's a good reason for these perceptions. You can't really hold men and women to the same standards. We're different. We, men are naturally wired to go out and bed as many women as we can. Now, if we choose to settle with just one that's fine but it's not necessarily our natural instinct, particularly not as young men. Also consider that there's nothing to it for a woman to get laid. Men will pay the ugliest "skank" for sex, but a woman does not have to pay. If she wants it she can get it from somebody without lifting a finger. Also, sex is a completely different experience for a man and woman. Therefore, we don't hold men and women to the same standards. The problem is determining what standards to hold ourselves to-- fuck a society. If I think a woman's a whore for sleeping with any man other than myself well dammit she's a whore. Then again maybe I think of myself as a hoe if I sleep with a woman when I know I have no interest in her aside from her body. It's all a matter of personal taste and there's really no right or wrong.
[Edited 12/9/05 1:50am] [Edited 12/9/05 1:59am] I didn't say we can't be faithful. I said that particularly as young men our inclination is to be with numerous women. The same may be true for women, but I'm not a woman so I can't really comment there. What I can say is that the experiences and mating behaviors of men and women are different and because of these inherent differences the standards won't be the same-- nor should they be. [Edited 12/12/05 18:02pm] |
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Obviously, I can't speak for all men. I'm sure there are some that grow up dreaming of that one special girl to start a family with (chumps  ). |
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I'm 24 and I've had one sexual partner, and indeed one partner of any kind. I guess that makes me a chump? 
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Fauxie said: I'm 24 and I've had one sexual partner, and indeed one partner of any kind. I guess that makes me a chump?
... [Edited 12/12/05 18:11pm] No, it makes you a poor reader. I'm talking inclinations, not actions. (I also point out the winking emoticon). 
Besides, you didn't grow up dreaming of finding that one special girl did you? [Edited 12/12/05 18:43pm] |
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I would never ask to begin with...and most likely, if I have the type of relationship that I tend to seek out, she and I would talk openly about any and every subject anyway, and I'd know more about her sexual history than mere numbers. But in reality it doesn't matter if you truly love someone. As the song goes, "How many came before, it really doesn't matter, just as long as you're the last"
And ideally, I'd think 18-20 sexual partners might be a bit much for a 23 year old to have...lol...but again, hardly matters. | |
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whodknee said: Fauxie said: I'm 24 and I've had one sexual partner, and indeed one partner of any kind. I guess that makes me a chump?
... [Edited 12/12/05 18:11pm] No, it makes you a poor reader. I'm talking inclinations, not actions. (I also point out the winking emoticon).
Besides, you didn't grow up dreaming of finding that one special girl did you? [Edited 12/12/05 18:43pm] I didn't take offense.
I didn't grow up thinking that, no. I wasn't even looking to be in a relationship, in fact. Don't worry, Mr. was not lost on me. | |
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Fauxie said: whodknee said: No, it makes you a poor reader. I'm talking inclinations, not actions. (I also point out the winking emoticon).
Besides, you didn't grow up dreaming of finding that one special girl did you? [Edited 12/12/05 18:43pm] I didn't take offense.
I didn't grow up thinking that, no. I wasn't even looking to be in a relationship, in fact. Don't worry, Mr. was not lost on me. |
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Spats said: It's way too much for anyone at that age. I wouldn't go near her. Nasty. I don't blame the guy for taking a hike. The woman was obviously not very selective about who she had sex with.
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That's a pretty high number, but no reason to break up. As long as she isn't fucking 18-20 guys when they were together.  | |
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whodknee said: I'm sure there are some that grow up dreaming of that one special girl to start a family with (chumps
).Doesn't everyone?  I don't mean from the outset, but it's an ultimate goal for a lot of people, and I don't see what's wrong with that.[Edited 12/21/05 8:58am] | |
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I'm in my late 20's.
I don't think any guy dreams of that when he is young. Not a guy in his right mind anyway. That is a dream that women wallow in. | |
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i really shouldn't matter as long as that person is being faithfull to you. | |
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I don't see it as a reason to break it off. However, for the record, that is a high number, the young age makes it more concerning. I mean, I'm not judging, just giving my opinion. | |
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jerseykrs said: I don't see it as a reason to break it off. However, for the record, that is a high number, the young age makes it more concerning. I mean, I'm not judging, just giving my opinion.
well, is it a high number for a male? | |
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beret1022 said: jerseykrs said: I don't see it as a reason to break it off. However, for the record, that is a high number, the young age makes it more concerning. I mean, I'm not judging, just giving my opinion.
well, is it a high number for a male? yes, regardless, it is a high number. | |
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