Not with those photos you won't. I told you i don't keep photo's with past girlfriends. They go into the garbage. And i would not know how to post them anyways. And i didn't make a huge habit out of getting photos with them because there wasn't much reason to and nothing to prove.

Spats said:

I guess why have photos of them if you're just going to have sex with them and then move on to the next? I guess that makes sense.

What does it matter about someones past . Live with them now , today and enjoy one another

Ive not had the sexy love with many people but what does it matter really

That's not it. There just hasn't been much reason too. I haven't been looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with and if we broke up i would just be tossing the photos in the garbage anyways.

Spats said:

So if you ever found "the one", you'd have no visual memoirs of the great times you had when you were only dating.

I am not wanting to spend the rest of my life with someone. That's too damn long. Hopefully.

It freaks me out every thread is ending with a discussion with Spats, always on the same things. And yes, I know, I'm guilty as well. Sometimes I simply can't resist.

I still think he's an alterego. If he's not, I would really like to read his opinion on other topics than how our legs and noses have to be, and how we don't have the guts to ask a man out for a date..

Maybe I'll give it a try, but I won't start a thread about it, because I want to prevent from giving the wrong impression.

Spats, what music do you like?
What's your favourite food?
What was your best holiday ever?

I'm serious though.

My boyfriend and I decided to say we were virgin before we met.

I had a lot of boyfriends, he had a lot of girlfriends, and he's very good in bed. Sex is so important. (I am 31, he is 34)

Counting is so stupid. Being mad at someone about his past relationships is so dumb !!! The guy should be happy to know her, to satisfy her needs, more than the others she's been with...

1sexymf said:

I don't know this guy at all, but having experienced similar situations I can say I don't think he was necessarily concerned about what she had done in and of itself as much as he was worried about what such a history might lead to in the future. 18-20 before the age of 23 is indeed an unusually high number that seems to indicate a big sexual appetite or need for sexual diversity. He was probably worried that he alone wouldn't be able to satisfy that and that he'd lose her to someone else before long. This is both common and quite understandable, in my opinion. At the same time, you could argue that she had already "satisfied her curiosity" and would be more likely to remain monogamous than someone who'd had unusually few partners.

He might also be worried about catching something!!!!! With that many partners there is a good chance.

1.My favorite music is Prince.

2.Greek food is my favorite. And Pizza.

3. My favorite holiday was in New York. The greatest city in the world. I would love to go to California.

retina said:

I see myself as an example of the last statement. I've been together with my boyfriend for two years... he was scared of the fact I had 'so many' sex partners, but I ended up being the faithful one, he didn't.

So I really don't think this says that much. On the other hand, people who cheat will always run the risk to cheat again. T

MarieLouise said:

i must admit ... i have been watching all the bashing and wondering when someone would try to at least break away from the smallness of it all

retina said:

Spats said:

I must admit it's a start. As you registered in 2002, I've began to wonder about this alter-ego thing.

Anyway, I truly invite you to speak about other things as well.

MarieLouise said:

True. And just for the record; I wasn't claiming that there is an actual increased risk for someone who's had many partners to be unfaithful, but rather that it's understandable that their new partner perceives it that way (since the human mind is designed to look for patterns to predict outcomes, which quite often is useful).

TMPletz said:

I tried to throw away pretty much all photos of my previous boyfriend including prom and snoball photos. My boyfriend (now husband) rescued them from the trash so I wouldn't regret it later. I am so glad he did that

I don't regret throwing out any of the photos of past girlfriends.

it really would be a fear of being boring to her that made him freak out.... maybe?

1sexymf said:

ufoclub said:

NO.
that would just be him being a coward then
that's a real way of showing he has no balls...


how would that freak him out 2 the point of not wanting 2 be with her?
c'mon.

Spats said:

Well it was him that asked and at least she was honest about it. He should have thought about that before he asked her.

MarieLouise said:

I respect your honesty, MarieLouise. As for my opinion on how many is so called "acceptable", that is totally up to the person. It's their body and their decision. It's a bit narrow minded to judge people like that.

beret1022 said:

From what I hear, he is no choir boy. I told her she should be glad that he left. If he freaked out over that, then I'm sure there will be other things he would get equally nasty about later on down the road.

Ace said:

It sure is. Women are expected to be the Virgin Mary but men can screw their brains out and not have to worry about being called a slut.

20 sex partners is a lot by 23.

I think it's a high number but it doesn't give reason to break up with someone over it. And she was probably really good in bed with the experience so he's missing out Tell her she's better off without him.

retina said:

His actions do seem to be somewhat of an insecure person. That's another whole issue itself.

Tell him he better see a doctor.

I know that if you aren't hung up on morality=few sex partners (fear of god), then it might be fear of not being sexual enough to match... that is the psychology of many men, we need to be the #ONE or its not really on. So its cowardice. Or pride.

SammiJ said:

Or fear of a disease. Who knows where the woman has been.