Spats said:

the way you've been goin on, it was gunna happen sooner or later.
not that i'm totally pulling the race card out
but i can see where calhounsq's coming from

There is not one knock against women that i have made that could be considered an insult against black women alone. Not one. White women have big noses, fat asses, pudgy noses, and the list goes on. The ugly noses comment went to those to "beauties" that Abierman is slobbering over in his photos. That's how the subject of noses came up. You have a lousy sense of direction if you can see where Calhoun is coming from.

Spats said:

i fucking give up.

theAudience said:

Ok I have to say it..... and I quote.... "I would bang the shit outa that chick at any given chance." end quote.

Spats said:

You prefer "White" looking Black women is what you're saying. I mean, most news station executives use that type, so I can understand. Light skinned, relaxed hair, what else?

Ever heard of the Hotten Tot Venus (did I spell that right?) When Europe first exploited Africa, they (European men) were OBSESSED with the big booty...essentially. But that's beside's the point...

You know what else I like about Ki Toy? She only does the Dungeon Family videos (Outkast, Goodie Mob, Killer Mike...etc). Because they are her friends. She doesn't see herself as a video "model". She actually runs a childcare agency for mentally disabled kids.

CalhounSq said:

What's wrong with big ta-ta's?

(proud member of the D-Dub Club)

KatSkrizzle said:

Nothing I'm just happy w/ my C's, don't think I could handle more

Heiress said:

It's all good fun. It's my way of saying I appreciate someone. I think that's generally understood.

Spats said:

Whoever it's directed at, I know for one thing that it is hate. There is a glaring difference between professing your personal preferences in a potential partner and being insulting and disrespectful to those who don't match those preferences. I'm of the opinion that most people on this website are, on the whole, friendly, open-minded, amiable people. There's no reason why anybody here should wish to dislike you or your comments without some motivation to do so. Don't you ever wonder why your posts meet with such disagreement? You don't have to care, but it may just be a little indication that your way of thinking could warrant some changes. People are filled with so-called imperfections. Peoples' boyfriends, girlfriends, wives, husbands, friends, brothers, sisters, fathers, mothers, family members and acquaintances may all possess features you show such apparent disgust or disdain for, and that includes the people around you too. Are you completely superficial and negative about everybody or does that only apply to potential partners? It all just speaks of a way of thinking that I can only see would be detrimental to you and the people around you.

I, for one, am glad I am not around you or indeed have the misfortune to be witness to and feel the effects of your brand of negativity beyond reading your posts on this site. I'm just one person, but it seems there are more who feel the same way. That's a regretable situation, I feel. Whether you care or not is frankly besides the point. The way people here react to you is no accident.

I don't hate anyone. I think am friendly. When it comes to potential girlfriends i am not openminded. I know what i want and What i don't want. I will not accept just anything like most people. In other aspects of my life i am openminded.

Saying big noses or big asses in women don't turn me on or i don't like insecure/needy women is not being insulting or disrespectful. Just saying what turns me on and does not. And the only people that should piss off are people who have those qualities.

It's does not matter to me whether you would want to be around me. We weren't going to be meeting anyways.

Fauxie said:

Spats said:

I find it hard to believe that you can turn on and off this openmindedness you speak of, though which we've had no evidence of thus far. Why do I think that closedmindedness might pervade other aspects of your life? That you don't mind pissing people off due to your words regarding physical appearance is disrespectful and insulting in itself. I find it so, at least. Whether we're going to meet or not has no bearing on your words, which I find greatly insulting to people. I don't think I'm alone in this, and thus your not caring loses all meaning. There are people who do meet you, who do have to be around you. I doubt I, or others here, are so different to those people. What makes you think that the people on this website are so atypical a cross-section as compared to the people you meet in your life?

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Because if the people i know did not want to be around me they wouldn't. And the new women i meet don't know what i like and don't like. They find that out if i stick around. And i would only stick around if they have what i like.

Spats said:

And that's got you where exactly? Currently not in a relationship and bitching about women's faults on a prince fansite?

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You can't be in a relationship all the time. There are going to be times when you don't have a girlfriend. Unless you decide you will date anything. I am between girlfriends.

Spats said:

so you don't see anything long-term in your future?

Spats said:

And long may that continue for the sake of women everywhere!

Fauxie said:

I don't think it would be wise to agree to being with anyone long term. (it depends what you see as long term) I get bored easily and it's not smart to close off all other options. You should always leave the door open for new possibilties. Say someone asked you to sign a contract that would lock you into something long term. Then you started getting better offers. Then what? You are stuck. Say you marry someone and then a year into the marriage you meet someone who is better than what you have and they want you. You are stuck. You blew it.

Spats said:

I wish you got bored with your org-account.....

Spats said:

Your an idiot...Shut up!

I just don't want any "what if's" or regrets. Those things are a bitch

Abierman, you must agree with some of what i say because you are still cruising for women.

Spats said:

It's actually kind of Spats to want to remain free. That way no woman will have to be tied to his ass for any lengthy period of time - God knows there's better men than him out there

"God knows there's better men than him out there." Go see that thread about why women are always choosing bad guys.

I don't see why anyone has a problem with my outlook on settling down long term. It's pretty logical. Take your romantic ideas out of it and look realistically at my point. You could really screw yourself bad by committing long term to anyone. I don't want to look back and think.. "Damn, i could been with her but I blew it'. Regrets and What if's can really dog your ass. I don't wannna have those regrets.

Spats said:

Everyday I regret that you keep coming here and talking such bollocks

It's not B.S.

Spats said:

I said "bollocks" not bullshit!

For once he's right and i am wrong.

Spats said:

Comedian as well as expert on what all men should want and what all women should be like.....with that many talents how come you are single?

CalhounSq said: