Kissing under the misletoe, holding hands, taking your loved one to visit with your family and vice versa. The gifts, the warmth, the love in the air...isn't it great?!!?

missfee said:

what are you getting him for christmas?

nilegettolrahc said:

i don't know yet, he wants some sneakers but he is in between a pair of designer sunglasses or the sneakers. I let him choose since he's a tad difficult to shop for (since has has everything but the lottery jackpot of 215,000,000.00 )

missfee said:

I know the feeling this year everyone will get what they ask for - under $50. I am just not that imaginative anymore

I like being spontaneous and creative with people. I have a talent for seeking what they want out of them without asking them directly and then getting it for them. But thats a lot of work, and not to mention disappointment if its not what they really wanted. I know how I get when I go out of my way doing things that I don't really have to do and how angry I get when I find out that they don't like the gift that I gave.

I got a gift from her one time that was really good. She wrapped herself with wrapping paper and a bow and nothing else.

TMPletz said:

I can't wait to get my own place so that I can be extra naughty with my bf.

TMPletz said:

do you mind if I use that one? excellent idea

nilegettolrahc said:

Go right ahead.

Oh, and take a picture.

TMPletz said:

that will be hard wrapped up!

nilegettolrahc said:

Yeah, I guess it would be.

althom said:

what are you trying to tell me?

nilegettolrahc said:

Now that was a bit naughty.

althom said:

a bit!

althom said:

She likes being naughty.

ohh yes, yes it is...

and i know he'll lurve his present too

SammiJ said:

Sammi!!!! You're embarressing me here.

TMPletz said:

althom said:

!!!


i thought u were with ocean...or ab... or dook...
GOTDAMN IT BOY.. who ARE you with now?!

SammiJ said:

I thought it was you!

althom said:

nope!

taken! (and submissive )

I have never brought any of the women i have been with to my family parties or get togethers If i did then my family and her would think I was really serious about her. I always resisted going to theirs as well.

Another headache with having someone at xmas is you have to buy the girl lots of things. You end up blowing too much money on them to keep them happy.

Spats said:

Spats said:

It's true. If you don't buy them good stuff they are not happy. And with parties i end up having to make excuses why i don't want them to come to the family get togethers or sometimes i just don't mention it to them and when it's their family get togethers i do what i can to try and get out of it. And i have to explain to my family why i never bring anyone with me. The holidays can be such a headache.

Spats said:

You're empty and cold inside, huh?

If i take them to these things or if i go to theirs then you have to go through the whole meeting the family process which is such a headache. You feel like you are in the spotlight and everyones eyes are on you. I don't need that. And as i said it gives the impression to your family and theirs that the relationship is serious. So really i am doing the girl a favor.

Spats said:

So you're not into serious relationships?

I don't want a relationship that is going to lead to marriage because i have no interest in getting married. I want a pretty girlfriend, that i get along with good,that will be fun, that will have sex on a regular basis. But that will just be my girlfriend. When the spark starts to go or it starts to get boring then i usually want to move on.