I don't know what Apollonia did. I have no clue. Prolly involved baby sacrifices to the devil, but she is absolutely perfect. Don't look nipped, tucked, sucked or folded. She just outran time. My God. She must have a daughter my age. Please, ya'll. Why won't nobody research that for me?

This is her at the premiere of 8 Mile.



Know what, nevermind about a daughter. I just want her.

Yeah but you don't make decisions now based on what will happen 30 years down the road

Spats said:

Lordy, lordy, lordy!!

It just gets more inane.

Some people do. It's called planning and foresight.

gemini13 said:

and crazy people have a thing about making you feel crazy too

gemini13 said:

and crazy people have a thing about making you feel crazy too

People. People. Can we focus on what's really important here? The goddess...

People. People. Can we focus on what's really important here? The goddess...

TheSmyrk said:

black people and spanish people just got it like that

I agree. Looks are secondary to me.

The primary NEED for me in a relationship is chemistry (not talking lust or sexual attraction...but synergy stronger and more complex than that).

It's not really that person, but the dynamics between the two of us.

If I go out with someone ...and there's no explosive chemistry between us...there's no need for a second date. I feel that way about frienships too. You can't 'build' chemistry or force it. Either you have it or you don't.

I think all great long-lasting romances are built on that. If you have it... you can work things out. No matter what. You can overcome anything ... any differences ...whether religious, philosophical, political, etc.
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looks ain't everything I'd never marry a person just coz I think they look good, know why, eventually you get old and you get fat. then you get plastic surgery, but it only makes you look worst then what you look before, only this time your face doesn't have any movment..... my favorite old time actress was irene cara, thought she was beautiful, now she's old and fat..... but then sometimes you got think about people like Demi Moore. The only difference between me, is I will have the best of both worlds, I know how cruel people will treat either way it goes. I'd never date a person based upon how they look, a person like me needs more substance, coz after a while i will get tired of looking at your ass, only to realize your conversation is really lame.


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Yeah but what do you do when ur not your typical sex bomb ....just give up ?sometimes i get fed up cause I know i have a lot to offer if someone looked past the factt that Im only 5ft , but not petite but try to look my best so why cant men see past the fact im not 5ft 10 and skinny !

zaara said:

I can't believe you even posted that, Madam!



Okay, there are certain compromises you can make - isn't that what relationships are about? Yes on both sides, Spats - but if any bloke came up to me and said 'This ain't good enough', 'Change this' or whatever I'd show them where the effing door is.

You're a wonderful, special person. The people who matter love and know these things already. F*** what some future idiot thinks. Cos he certainly won't be worth it.

Less of that talk!

Yeah, but you should not knock the guys that don't find her attractive. Some guys are just not attracted to short women. Some guys are not attracted to women who are taller than them. I am not into short women either. I Like women who are a little shorter or at my height. I am 5'9 to 5'10. So Short women are are a little uncomfortable to hook up with.

The whole "If he is not interested in you than he is not worth it' routine is a load of crap.

Yeah, but you should not knock the guys that don't find her attractive. Some guys are just not attracted to short women. Some guys are not attracted to women who are taller than them. I am not into short women either. I Like women who are a little shorter or at my height. I am 5'9 to 5'10. So Short women are are a little uncomfortable to hook up with.
The whole "If he is not interested in you than he is not worth it' routine is a load of crap.

Because you are having to bend down all the damn time. It's awkward and uncomfortable. And it looks bad when one member of the couple is much taller than the other.

Spats said:

well shit a brick I'm under 5 foot tall... what hope do I have then?

Natisse said:

No you should think yourself lucky that Spats will stay away whereas a real man would see you for what you are