Today my family gets a phone call of someone we know that passed on...We are close with the family and I grew up knowing them, and what not. But they had a son and he passed this morning. Now...I'm sure you're like...well ok thats sad...but why is that freaking you out....

Well because this is going to be my fourth funeral in a row. Four weeks ago a lady we use to know who was in the hospital room above my grandma passed...We didnt get to go to the funeral because my grandma was ill...one week goees by and my grandma passes...two weeks go by this lady we know got into a horrible accident and she died...I was at the funeral home last night, and this morning I get the news of him dying. Its so friggen scary and the thing is we know this other lady who is ill with cancer and she is in her final stages so I'm afraid that she too soon will pass...I don't know I'm freaking out and don't want to even leave the house.

oh no

Lizzy7701 said:

thanks

do you think this has happened to anyone else

BucketOfBouncyBalls said:

yes. subconsciously you are having to face mortality. that is why you are freaking out. a witch in my family use to say "death comes in 3s". You are surounded by death. It can be a positive experence.

BucketOfBouncyBalls said:

Could have...there is the death comes in 3s...had to start somewhere...

Sending hugs...that's terrible!

MickG said:

yea....so far four....
so im assuming theres two more to go eh?

My grandpa died last year, my grandma the year before.

It really affected me. For my grandma I havent't been sober for 3 monthes.
After my grandfather died I was in hospital...


Now I'm feeling better. Because they had a great life and I they gave a lot. I'm proud of them, they're now like my Jedi Masters...



Death is part of the game. Enjoy the time you're given.

virginie74 said:

I hear you...I'm having such a hard time getting over my grandmothers death. Mainly because it went by so fast She went in the hospital for one thng and she never came out. And what hurts me the most is that I was with her till her very last moments, and its little things like that I see in my mind. And I miss her a lot....she was such a pain in my ass and I loved her for it cause I could always laugh at the things she did to drive me crazy. But I really miss her. So I know how you feel.

hang in there. I'm sure it's all a coincidence. SO sorry for your losses

BucketOfBouncyBalls said:

I feel for both of you on this - life does pass far too quickly and there are times when you'd give anything for just 5 minutes more with a loved one.

Appreciate the good times.



xxx

Reincarnate said:

I completely agree

stay strong sweety

my best freind lost 9 family members in the past 2 yrs

it is hard i know ...

Mach said:

thank you

You're going to have to take sometime for yourself very soon. Be strong and take it day by day. Most of all take care of you.


M

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Yea its been very hectic its so much stress that (ihaveasthma) I've been getting frequent asthma attacks, which is bad.

Would you like a cuddle?

JDINTERACTIVE said:

lol yes

so sorry

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BucketOfBouncyBalls said:

charlottegelin said:

I like you....OMG AND YOU LOVE NEW YORK TOO!!! *faints*

BucketOfBouncyBalls said:

!!!

*dances around with glow sticks*