HollowellSA said:

very true hon

Natisse said:

and Natisse... ur doing ALL u can do...

we must learn from r own experiences...

DO YA THINK MIND GAMES includes my fantasy about P ?

I don't play mind games as rule. The only time i have to is on the dating scene to counteract the ones that the women are playing. But as a defensive maneuver not an offensive one.

Spats said:

Of course it is an offensive one it is for your benefit..to get what you want not to protect yourself from harm eeejeet

Mind gamez make me nausiated! What'z the point?

lilmissmissy said:

it's a ploy 4 CONTROL. period. no excuses.

but i love all lol

LOVE, light & peace, Gin

It would be nice if we were always told the truth.....

Ocean said:

Some of us do tell the truth sweetie

Ocean said:

...just remember the truth ALWAYS comes out just not immediately

bahhhhh

dolphngin said:

whatcha baaaaahing about woman?

Travela said:

baby... this is the REAL world... the truth is not going 2 be told under normal circumstance

but it would be nice lol.

skip the mind games

CynthiasSocks said:

speak!

dolphngin said:

you don't believe the truth eventually comes out? no matter how long it takes? ...for me I very much believe in Karma which entails the truth always coming out it may take 10 days, 10 years or 10 decades but the truth will always come out IMO

Natisse said:

i believe that it often does, but not always. karma states that the results of r actions comes full circle, not that truth is always made apparent. i wish it did. many times i've dealt with this same situation and would love nothing more than the truth be known.

how many names do u have Mama? lol

XO.

dolphngin said:

I created "Travela" the other day for when I run out of posts... but it will be deleted again and I'll be back to just "Natisse" which is how it will stay

and I agree about Karma hon definately but I guess what I was trying to say is that I also think it ties in with the truth coming out

just my

No it is defensive. It is too keep from being played with. On the dating scene you have to do it.

It would be great if women were upfront and honest about what they want. It make everything easier.

Spats said:

Okay, I have to know: what happened when you were in love? Did she break your heart? What did she do?

I know in your mind she DID something

Spats said:

no, bullshit is what it is... thats crap and a copout to say it's for self-preservation

again, honesty is the best policy

It's not bullshit.

Honesty is the best policy. That's why i wish women would be more upfront about what they want.

Spats said:

Still wanna know what went wrong when you were in love

She moved away.

Spats said:

ok... 3 words that explain SO much

Her dad was an army guy and he was moved down east and she had to go. Haven't seen her since. That sucked big time.

Ocean said:

EXACTLY,.. The truth might be hard,... but lies hurt even worse. I much rather have some1 mad at me for being too blunt or direct with the truth, than have some1 mad AND DISAPPOINTED in me for lying. That is the lowest and most disrespectful thing you can do to some1 you love. Lying..and going behind some1's back. Totally disrespectful.

billyjackbitch said:

absolutely 100% totally agreed

CynthiasSocks said:

life is too short