Spats said:

So do you screw on a first date then?

no i wouldn't be mad. id take the money and it would be the first and last time that i'd mess around with him. his actions say more about him then me.

No i never have.

Spats said:

Your choice or theirs?

None of the women I hook up with are one night stand women.

Your COMMENTS MAKE NO SENSE... You are CONTRADICTING YOURSELF with what you have said. You say you want NO COMMITMENT...You are CONFUSED and MUST BE WEARING LOAFERS. I'm Not gonna Continue this DUMB SHIT! Your COMMENTS are CONFUSED. What are U EVEN TALKING about? Read ya Other THREAD on WOMAN'S RESPONSIBILITY. ????? End of my COMMENTS....Ya SMOKING Or SNORTING SOMETHING?

I don't want a long committed realationship but i don't want a woman who lays down on the first date either. Who knows where they have been.

Spats said:

I'm beginning to get the feeling that you should be lucky if you can screw on the 1st date, since I doubt there will be a 2nd.....

Spats said:

So you don't screw on a first date but the only thing you want women for is sacktime.....and they are the users eh?
Idiot

Diver the PERSOn IS an IDIOT. VERY IGNORANT and CONFUSED. DON"T KNOW WHAT HE/SHE WANTS.

I am not using anyone. And there is a difference between screwing on the first date and wanting it on a regular basis from a woman you are involved with.

And abierman, i have had plenty of second dates. I am just going through a dry spell.

Spats said:

I am not confused, ignorant, and i do know what i want.

Spats said:

Yeah a smack in the kisser

Making NO SENSE.Ya Said SPATS YA DON"T WANT a RELATIONSHIP... A Lady you are with IS a RELATIONSHIP if ya GETTING IT ON A REGULAR BASIS. YA ARE WEARING LOAFERS.

I don't really understand this. Did it happen? Do you do this?

There is a world of posabilities that might lead to this. Prohaps the girl let it slip out she was short on lunch money for work. He wasn't making payment for the sex, he wanted to feed her scronny ass. Or maybe there was a cheeky bet made about a tattoo or something like an ability. Although it was made in jest, the man was making good on his debt.

I said i don't want a long term relationship. Life is too short for that.

I would ring him up and say where the hell is the rest of it, f***er

Spats said:

What if this "dry spell" is the end of your "hot chick" run? What if it lasts FOREVER Because one day Spats, you will NOT be able to pull a hot chick. One day, after years of being closed off & emotionally dead, you won't be able to connect with a woman on a purely physical basis & you will be a lonely fart of a man. No one will want to fuck you. No one will want to go on a date with you. It will all end some day. Have you thought about that Spats?

As for the question first, I'd laugh my fucking ass off @ the BALLS of this guy I'd call a friend, rip him a new asshole w/ her help, then decide if I'd see him to return the $ or just call him up & cuss him the fuck OUT

Zelaira said:

I am not closed off or emotionally dead. I am just not a romantic sissy boy. One day i won't be able to get a hot girl. But You can't look that far ahead. You have to enjoy today.

Why would I want him there when I woke up anyway??? Hmm... leaving money makes it tacky. Just go. I wouldn't be in that situation anyway since I never bring someone into my home so he would have the ability to stalk me later.

Spats said:

That's what you think.

Spats said:

What is this supposed to mean, exactly ("where they have been")? I assume you're implying that a chick who will fuck on the first date is more likely to have some kind of STD? Not necessarily the case, my friend.

Women like to fuck as much as men do; it's only an old-fashioned, double standard that prevents a lot of them from doing the do right away (and, based on my experiences, this attitude is changing among younger women).

Let me ask you a question: Which is worse in your eyes - a girl who has protected sex on a first date or one who fucks without a rubber on a later date? Chances are, some of these women whom you prefer because they don't do the former (as far as you know ) have done the latter.

CalhounSq said:

Personally I find his additude unbalanced. I think his problem is what type of person he is and what type of person that attacts. There are many types of people in a general sence. I know from being a man in love that love and happiness is easy. It's a bit like gardening. However some people just like to pillage the landscape until it's unfit.