if you went out on a date with guy, you had a good time, have a good roll in the hay and then you wake up in the morning and find a $20 bill on your pillow...would you be mad?

YES.

meltwithu said:

$20.....cheapskate!

If it happens once, it can be funny.
Twice, and I would ask myself some questions...

I'd give it to the homeless, then dump him.

i would be highly upset.. its not a good idea

If you don't already know the answer to this then you are very, VERY bad with the ladies!!!

I wouldn't be mad. The only way that could possibly happen is if it fell outta his clothes when he was getting dressed. I'd call him and let him know he'd lost a $20. I'm polite like that.

unlucky7 said:

Honey, youre supposed to be the dumped in this situation ! With a reward ! See ?

The dames usually give me 30 to just go away.....

meltwithu said:

It's someone who leaves nothing more than 20$, right ? (no phone number, neither way to contact him back) ?

jerseykrs said:

YES! I'd Call him up and CURSE him OUT! That would be a RUDE ASSHOLE for sure. What's he the TOOTH FAIRY? LOL..

Zelaira said:

Zel, you should slow down. It's not good for your heart. We all know here Prince is the best ever ever.

Any woman that screws on the first date deserves 20 bucks on her pillow.

Spats said:

Not neccessarily ( cant spell it I know )

Spats said:

she did.

meltwithu said:

um... thats a huge

Spats that is a SEXIST COMMENT. Everybody Knows it DOESN"T MATTER HOW MANY DATES you go on before ya have SEx. Many CELEBRITIES have DONE IT on the FIRST DATE and if a Guy is gonna Leave doesn't mean FIRST OR 30th time ya Sleep together. If ya get all hot and stuff why does this become an ISSUE? Ever watch SEX IN THE CITY? IS SAMANTHA WRONG to be SEXUALLY OPEN as she is? How old are you anyway? You do make Comments that are COLD! Of course ya gotta feel an ATTRACTIOn for the OTHER PERSON,but SOMETIMES People get CAUGHT Up IN THE MOMENT. I think it's VERY WRONG to make the STATEMENTS you have. You seem to ONLY WANT SEX so YOUR COMMENTS DON'T Make any SENSE! You say you DON"T WANT COMMITMENTS OR FAMILY so WHAT IS THAT? ARE YOU CONFUSED? ARE U WEARING LOAFERS? LOL!

Not that I Fuck On the first Date if EVER.... LOL. So that is Funny. But I just think like WHO CAREs SPATS? What Are ya COUNTING DATES? KINDA STRANGE.

Spats said:

oh please.

and i don't see anywhere that it says..."you go out on a FIRST date with a guy...."


as far as the question...yes i would be insulted but as Carrie said....i would find him and give it back under the assumption he just dropped it.

Zelaira said:

there..that's better

[Edited 11/21/05 11:07am]

virginie74 said:

I'm too innocent...i wouldn't know what happened.

Ya know I love Ya Melt. I'm all talk bout My GAME. I actually waited 2 years to be with someone once and after waiting for so long we were INSATIABLE!

Zelaira said:

Laughing. That's funny.

the question made it sound like you just met the guy. Come on. How can you respect a woman that screws on the first date. If she has done it with you than god knows how many other times she has done it.

See, I disagree with ya and Really DOES IT MATTEr if YA USE PROTECTION ANYWAY? Depends what you are looking for. Ya didn't answer my question SPATS about Stuff. Makes NO SENSE YOUR COMMENTS REALLY. If somebody just meets a person and Fucks them just like that well that is SOLICITATION. Leaving 20 is like saying HERE'S ya TIP or Something. In this day and AGE I DON"T THINK TEENAGERS WAIT. Seems like the get it on Right away. Ever watch the Dating shows? Or those REALITY SHOWS on Vh-1 or MTV. The GIRLS and GUYS are VERY FAST!!!

What didn't i answer?

Read my above post several lines above. So you want a NO STRESS LIFE but you are DAMNING the WOMAN FOR SLEEPING WITH YOU? MAKES ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE! And ya know this is just a GUILT TRIP. Women SHOULDN'T FEEL GUILT for HAVING SEX...NO,Spats you are WRONG and SEXIST with ya COMMENTS. Ya Can't have ya Cake and Eat it too.I don't Usually Sleep with a guy first Date but if I did I wouldn't FEEl like I was a WHORE OR DIRTY OR ANYTHING..I would just Say..Damn We had a good time. I honestly Don't know why GUILT is EVER an ISSUE. This is WHY WOMEN CAN"T COME...TOO MUCH GUILT. By the way..... I always feel SECURE.... I KNOW MYSELF.... Sometimes I am JUST DISGUSTED BY THE PEOPLE IN IT!
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