gemini13 said:

wouldnt it ???

i only WISH i had a man that would think of something this nice to do for me

i tell you one thing, he'd be getting some crazy wild sex that night, thats for sure

One time, years ago, it was valintines day. My wife, then girlfriend, had to work. I wanted to do something beautiful. We had been having hard times and we had no money.

I got this Red Flat Bed Sheet, and I cut it in the shape of a heart. I then went about spray painting my love on it for her. It was the largest valitine I know of ever being given. It was about 4x5 feet and I hung it from the celeing in our modest room. She cryed, and she still has it.

MickG said:

you have a gift....

and she is very lucky



keep it up, there is a real shortage of romantic men out there

nakedpianoplayer said:

she is the gift, and I am the one that is very lucky.

P.S. I do all the cooking too.

MickG said:

Dude, you had her at the giant heart.

Fauxie said:

it does sound a bit like advertising at this point doesnt it ?


mickg.... im sure you're a lovely man


now fauxie ..... well, he knows....

nakedpianoplayer said:

I do all the cleaning in the house too.

Fauxie said:

Fauxie said
I do all the cleaning in the house too. [/quote]

All I do is the dishes and vacume, besides general straiting up.

MickG said:

well, hey, check this out...

i do ALLLLL the cleaning, all the cooking, all the laundry, all the shopping, provide all the money, do all the child raising, make all the decisions, arrange all the holidays and birthdays, manage all the bills and deadlines, keep up with the kids schooling and teachers, and STILL have time to be romantic and great in bed


AND i fixed mickg's quote....


any takers ???






[Edited 11/20/05 19:20pm]

See? it proves my point. Women want and need that crap done for them. No man with any dignity or self respect will do it though.

nakedpianoplayer said:

I don't clean shit...lol

Actually, I clean everything...but I live alone so there's nobody to appreciate that aspect about me.

Not to sound picky, but make sure you use spell check...

"charish" is cherish.

Also, I would gear some to the college guys there, who might have new girlfriend and don't want to shell out too much cash, but still want something sweet.....


and men like to wait til the last minute for the Christmas gifts, so closer to Christmas get these out again and sell em.

Spats said:

LOL@U brother, you have it all wrong.

Stupid men can't get over their own egos enough to do what is right for themselves.

Smart men fall inlove and live happily ever after.

How would doing that sissy stuff be right for myself? it would be right for her obviously but how would it be right for me?

Spats said:

I thought them TV commercials that stated cavemen were still around were only joking. I can seen now the were serious.

friend, I don't even know where to start explaining to you.

It takes all kinds. You and I are not the same kind of man.

It's things like that which make me believe ever more I must be star seeded.

"sissy stuff" Like cooking and cleaning? I would hate to see your appartment, or I feel bad for your mom if you are still living at home with her.

I really don't understand what you consider "sissy stuff". Having feelings? Being able to let go the ego enough to admit a female has made me happy and has given me a warm feeling inside?

I can't help to think you are joking. Are you just joking around?

I am not into all that romantic crap like that garbage about leaving something on her pillow. That's what they want, need and expect. Ugh. That's what i consider sissy stuff. I can cook stuff and i clean my place. I have to do that stuff. keep you self respect and your dignity and don't give in to that mumbo jumbo.

You didn't explain what "getting over the ego and doing what's right for yourelf" means. Doing that crap is not right for myself.

Spats said:

I find it sad enough to cry, that you think all that is mumbo jumbo. You must have really been hurt sometime in your past.

I think I love your ideas, nakedpianoplayer.

nakedpianoplayer said:

that just makes me want to buy them all for my r-kelly doll.










j/k 4reals

Spats said:

i know this is your "style" to talk shit on the relationship aspect of human beings..... but really, try not to do it here, i dont have much patience for your attitude, ummmmmkay pumpkin ?

Byron said:

i hear ya there i guess my kids could appreciate it but thats about it

bluesbaby said:

awesome ideas thank you dear

SHANNA said:

thank you sweetie

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Spats said:

Christopher said:

thats just..... sick
























j/k 4reals

Spats said:

actually, i kinda agree. this amrketing crap we see over the holidays seems to convey the message that 'it's not love unless a diamond is involved'

REAL love does that stuff without seeing an advertisement first.

and besides, in a truly loving relationship, the guy shouldn't be making the women do all that holiday work alone to begin with.

XxAxX said:

true statement

however, from what i see and understand about each and every woman i know...


some will go all out for the holidays, others will tend to stay more within thier means.... but each one of them does something that makes the holiday special for those around them it must just be in our nature. however, a thank you for the efforts is always nice

nakedpianoplayer said:

that's true. and women do more work around the house than men, traditionally, in this gender inequitable world of ours so they do deserve thanks.

it's just sad imo that the marketing powers are able to get their two cents in during the holidays like this. that they're able to make men feel like they have to drop their hard earned cash on jewelry to express their gratitude.

i mean, diamonds aren't a girl's best friend. diamonds are only cold, shiny bits of rock. hugs 'n' kisses are what really count