Some of my female friends tell me my standards are too high. That i have given up on some women too soon or not given some they liked a chance at all.They say i should give the women i call Plain Janes a chance. When i tell them i am not physically attracted to all the Average Annie's they agree that you cannot help what you are attracted to. You cannot force it.You either are or you aren't.

And they are lousy at setting me up. I made the mistake of agreeing to be set up. I have told them countless times what I want in a woman and they set me up with women that just are not my type. The worst was one where i agreed to meet the girl downtown. She Told me what she would be wearing so i could pick her out. I go down and sneak a look to check her out before we met in person and I didn't find her attractive at all. So i turned around and never showed up. I left her a message on her answering machine saying i was sorry and i would call to set up another time to meet but i never called back. It was really awkward. My female friends never let me hear the end of that for awhile.

The intention of setting people up is to see if you are attracted to each other and if you might hook up. I knew right when i saw her that i was not attracted to her looks. So there was no point. I saved us both time and a date with no possible future. It's not as if she found out what i did. Nobody got hurt.

I knew right when i saw her that i was not attracted to her looks. So there was no point. I saved us both time and a date with no possible future. It's not as if she found out what i did. Nobody got hurt.

The fact that you're not a big enough person to spend an hour or so w/ another person just out of decency is pretty shameful Spatsy. She might have been a great person & become (can you imagine) a friend of yours Or you might have just had a nice dinner & never spoke again - maybe she wouldn't have been interested in you either

It's just so fucking shallow to bail just because you didn't find her "hot" There's more to a woman than blonde hair & tits


[Edited 11/23/05 6:52am]

Kissing under the misletoe, holding hands, taking your loved one to visit with your family and vice versa. The gifts, the warmth, the love in the air...isn't it great?!!?

Some of my female friends tell me my standards are too high. That i have given up on some women too soon or not given some they liked a chance at all.They say i should give the women i call Plain Janes a chance. When i tell them i am not physically attracted to all the Average Annie's they agree that you cannot help what you are attracted to. You cannot force it.You either are or you aren't.

And they are lousy at setting me up. I made the mistake of agreeing to be set up. I have told them countless times what I want in a woman and they set me up with women that just are not my type. The worst was one where i agreed to meet the girl downtown. She Told me what she would be wearing so i could pick her out. I go down and sneak a look to check her out before we met in person and I didn't find her attractive at all. So i turned around and never showed up. I left her a message on her answering machine saying i was sorry and i would call to set up another time to meet but i never called back. It was really awkward. My female friends never let me hear the end of that for awhile.

Spats said:

u got female friends?

It seems calhoun really likes u. She confuses me. Anyway u sound even worse then the people i see, and they are around 16 years old.

"yeah, she was a right fucking munter, so i just fucked her and told her to fuck off, hahahaha". Fuck that shit. A sentance like the example i gave ain't far off to what i hear from these kids. I use to be negative towards women a little. I still am sometimes (girls can be very 2 faced).

I got some hate for this thread, and that last comment on my opener was dreadful.

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/95698

I guess some of the girls on here dont mind ur honestly?
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thesexofit said:

What in the world are you talking about???

I think Spats is saying stuff to be saying it. That story about looking at the girls before entering the room and dissing her. Dude, that's so like cliche TV show movie mess. He's just saying this mess to be saying it. I don't believe you anymore, son!

KatSkrizzle said:

I'm thinking the same thing ...he knows he's going to get a reaction from it

and what's more I still think it's an alternate account

Natisse said:

Me thinks he's real I've seen his comments sprinkled around long enough & asked him enough questions (that he's actually bothered to answer ) to believe him. I know it's hard to fathom, that someone could be THAT shallow but that's our Spatsy

CalhounSq said:

fair enough... but that makes me sad for him then because he's going to lead (if he's not already) a very lonely life

karma's a bitch and she'll bite ya in the ass every time... one day he'll realise that

So i am going to be lonely because i won't hook up with a Plain Jane? Makes no sense.

Natisse said:

Me thinks he's real I've seen his comments sprinkled around long enough & asked him enough questions (that he's actually bothered to answer ) to believe him. I know it's hard to fathom, that someone could be THAT shallow but that's our Spatsy

And what's a "real connection" anyways? Putting up with so many women's crap? , the drama?, the neediness? the issues? the gender role games? Those are connections i don't need. I want some easy going fun and good times.

The ass was free because the ass was ugly. lol. I would rather have some beautiful ass that's worth something.

I do care about what they are like personality wise. I have never said i don't. I have just said that looks come before anything else on the list. That's why I have given my likes and dislikes when it comes to their habits, behavior, and so on. I won't accept just anybody.

I would rather be alone than be involved with someone who is unattractive. I think most people are the same way.

And what's a "real connection" anyways? Putting up with so many women's crap? , the drama?, the neediness? the issues? the gender role games? Those are connections i don't need. I want some easy going fun and good times.

I don't dislike all women. Just the women with the issues that annoy the hell out of me. If i could have a "real connection" with a woman who didn't have those stupid issues then it would probably be alright. I have found that it's very hard to find a woman like that though.

I guess her idea of "real connection" means all the stupid shit i mentioned.

I don't dislike all women. Just the women with the issues that annoy the hell out of me. If i could have a "real connection" with a woman who didn't have those stupid issues then it would probably be alright. I have found that it's very hard to find a woman like that though.

I guess her idea of "real connection" means all the stupid shit i mentioned.