Spats said:

not suitable for worthogs.

missfee said:

I'll have one come Sunday, I'll keep you posted!

missfee said:

Things I miss.


Being single isn't all that bad except between Thanksgiving and Valentine's Day.

Question fro Spats: How old are you?
Did you ever post your picture on the Org?
Where do you live?

I am in my late 20's.

No i haven't posted a picture. I don't know how to.

I sadly live in Canada.

Spats said:

WHAT A SURPRISE you haven't posted a picture! you wouldn't want anyone to see you're a big of a PLAIN JANE now would you? I dare you to post one spats! I think you're lying about not knowing how - and if I'm wrong about that then email me a picture and I will post it for you

as for SADLY living in Canada? if you don't like living in one of the most breathtaking countries in the world (and that's from someone who's never even been there yet to see how magical it is in real life!) then go somewhere else! try living in Africa, the middle east, any number of places where life is not so great

now... about that picture

The Polution up here is getting bad in the summer so it literally has become breathtaking. As i said if i had the money i would move to LA or New York.

I truly do not know how to post a picture or email one. I have said that i am average looking. I have never pretended that i look like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt.

Spats said:

oh bullshit you don't know how to email come on! be the man you reckon you are and have the balls to email me a pic to post!

I know how to email but i don't know how to email a picture.

Spats said:

hmm... what a dilemma!

Spats said:

I somehow thought you were younger
I asked about your picture becuase those who usually bash other people usually do not post their pic.
I was just curious.

I have not bashed anybody's looks on here.

Spats said:

not directly, no...

wanna give it a shot?

seeing as though you were chicken shit to post your own photo perhaps you'd like to see my "plain Jane" picture!

Natisse said:

Wow, Natisse, you're in a mood today!

I like it!

I am not chicken. I don't know how to.

Spats said:

What kind of an email account do you have?

Why?

Spats said:

I never said you were chicken.
It's easy to post pictures. All you need is a photobucket account, which is free.

Spats said:

To show you how to email a picture silly.

Why is it important that you know what i look like? And why in the hell should i email a photo to someone who has been insulting Me?

Spats said:

because all u do is insult women and insist on judging them solely on looks before u even give them the time of day
you sad sod.

I don't do that to the women here. I haven't knocked any the women here who have posted their picture.

I have women friends and i talk with women who aren't what I consider hot. I just do not want to have sex with them. But i have women friends who are plain janes.

Spats said:

Do your female friends ever give you advice Spats? If so, what kinda stuff do they say?

Thus begins the turn of this thread.

There is one thing to be said about our dear friend spats.

My ex was very much like this fellow. Not relationship driven and ran at the site of commitment until he met me. Obviously it didin't work in the long run and he was the most wonderful charasmatic selfish man I'd ever met. Made himself into the martyr and pushed me away.

We reconciled once...told me he'd never be in a relationship or consider marriage until he was 50. I feel sorry for him though. He's a very unhappy man at the core. I couldn't stay around him for long. His swings were a bit much, in addition to the asshole self seclusion. A very insecure and spoiled adult boy.

He is back in the saddle again after I left.

My current boy that's with me 2 years later, was on my trail while I was with him too. He's been working hard! 3 years! Which just goes to show, that the cliche is true. The bad one is blocking you from the one that can truly make you happy.

OK, let's slant the topic back to holidays!

I think it is fun to be in love all year round!

MickG said:

gamepoint!

Natisse said:

What a great photo hun.....and I'm really loving ur hair dark

Some of my female friends tell me my standards are too high. That i have given up on some women too soon or not given some they liked a chance at all.They say i should give the women i call Plain Janes a chance. When i tell them i am not physically attracted to all the Average Annie's they agree that you cannot help what you are attracted to. You cannot force it.You either are or you aren't.

And they are lousy at setting me up. I made the mistake of agreeing to be set up. I have told them countless times what I want in a woman and they set me up with women that just are not my type. The worst was one where i agreed to meet the girl downtown. She Told me what she would be wearing so i could pick her out. I go down and sneak a look to check her out before we met in person and I didn't find her attractive at all. So i turned around and never showed up. I left her a message on her answering machine saying i was sorry and i would call to set up another time to meet but i never called back. It was really awkward. My female friends never let me hear the end of that for awhile.

Spats said:

That's a really shitty thing to do ...u could have at least been pleasant and tried to enjoy the night ...who knows she could have turned out to be a good friend....
[Edited 11/22/05 22:31pm]

Ocean said:

It takes a shitty man to sneak a peek & not have the balls to make decent conversation for 2 fucking hours Damn Spats, it really is only skin deep w/ you