well, do ya?

No. She never really had any exes. There was one guy who she came close to dating, but neither of us has seen or heard from him in a number of years.

my mister has a long string of exes that go all the way to the horizon, and the thing is, they are all really nice, normal women who are still friends with him. I can't avoid talking to them, cause a few of them are in our circle of friends, but they are all married with kids of their own. I don't have any problems with any of them, I've even been to nutrimetics parties with 2 of them

HELL NO... I don't wanna know none'a them bitches

I have talked with them. Well, but being with her for 15 years now, we have moved away and there are none left to talk with. I am not that old. I am just commited. 3 more years and we will have spent half our lives together.

but what makes them bitches?

charlottegelin said:

If that's meant for me, I'm kidding But I have no interest in talking w/ partner's ex's UNLESS their still considering themselves "friends". Then I gotta know her...

CalhounSq said:

good!
especially if they are single and call often danger! danger! danger!

charlottegelin said:

sneakers don't know how to use phones.
shoes don't know how to use phones.
sandels don't know how to use phones.

so my question to all you is this.

Who the hell taught the boots to use the phone?












Answer to joke: booty call.

Here's a slightly fucked up story - I am friends with my ex's ex. See, he dated her for a few years before meeting me. He dumped her for me - we dated for three months - then we broke up. He dated her again, twice. I met my current in London and started talking to my ex, via email and letters and phone. We turned out to be very good friends so him and his ex came and visited me and my current in London. They stayed for a week and we all had a really awesome time. I also consider my ex to be one of my best friends.

We hung out with them in Berkeley last December:



Anyway, the ex's ex is now a hardcore lesbian, so that helped to ease things. So obviously the ex and the ex's ex are no longer dating. We're all also friends with my ex's current, too. It's so incestuous but it actually works!

Natsume said:

I think the question on everyone's mind is that if you break up with your current is there any chance of dating the ex's ex?

charlottegelin said:

I just reread it and I'm confused even though it's my situation and MY story!

actually it was mostly joking. Your ex's ex would be the "hardcore lesbian" now.

MickG said:

I had a mad crush on her when I first met her, which was when my ex and I were dating. It extended all the way to when she visited me in London. If that counts.

Natsume said:

I don't really know any. They live in different parts of the country...

My husband has never met any of mine, either... (easier - they're in the States)...

I have met a few girls who were kind of after him at one time or another, same time as me. They were none-too-friendly at first, but now we're all friends. We don't talk about those days, I'm sure they'd never admit anything anyway.

charlottegelin said:

Ah well, so they have lives and aren't actively yearning after him... or are they?

we both invited one ex each to our wedding

charlottegelin said:

was that agreed on prior to the wedding? you each have the right to invite one, but only one ex?

Heiress said:

not at all! just the way it was. We both spent about 5 years with our respective exes, so they were important enough to us to be invited to our wedding

Her ex-husband is my best friend. We just got back from hanging out at his house.

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I don't have a problem talking to my husband's first wife. She's the mother of my stepson and I think it's best for him that we all get on. Plus she's done nothing to hurt me. We get on quite well.

Reincarnate said:

Good on you. wish others could be so civil. for the sake of the kids.

charlottegelin said:

awww you're very sweet charlotte

Reincarnate said:

and tipsy

charlottegelin said:

hehe ... it's only 11am here - how can you be on the pop already? ... or are you still on evening time?

Reincarnate said:

it's 10pm here in Australia, sunday.
I keep forgetting about this bottle of Baileys we have but tonight I remembered

charlottegelin said:

mmm Baileys and ice

Reincarnate said: