sure, sex is good fun and can be very cool. but after
8 years of actually "doing" it now, I still feel that
it leaves a lot to be desired.

and this is not frustration talking cuz I still get
it at a regular basis lol. I just never really cared
for it that much.

thinking about it, yeah, that gets me geared up. but
the actual act, the sweating, the groaning, the long
hours of hard work or the quick insane stomp, it's a
bit of a charade for me lately, where i like what is
happening but where the best part is the end, and an
inkling of the realisation that you just had sex and
now won't have to have any for at least a few hours.

in all honesty, most of the time i'm happier just to
sit at my desk, drinking coffee and surfing the net,
(no, not for porn) and listening to some music.

Hell fucking yes! Try going without for a while! You'll really love it then!

I suppose you're all too bussy having sex to reply

IstenSzek2 said:

NOT ME!

CynthiasSocks said:

Hell, the longer I go without, the more stingy I get. After a while
I just turn into Edina being all

"Well yes, they turn me on, but I just don't want them sitting on
my furniture".

IstenSzek2 said:

I enjoy honesty of any kind. I despise dishonesty.

Uh....yeah. Absolutely yes.

CarrieMpls said:

did you understand the topic?

Yes please ..how can anyone not enjoy sex?!

IstenSzek2 said:

oh, I understood the topic.

I just think honesty deserves a good word thrown in there whenever we can.

As for the topic? You've asked me on a weird day. My opinion will be skewed. I would not be giving a totally honest answer. So I know better than to type out something to you fine people that would not be completely honest.

Nikki23 said:

well i'm not saying i *never* enjoy sex. it's ok most o the time.
more than ok, sometimes. but over all, sex is just hyped up to be
something so spectacular, something that supposedly drives about
80% of all human motivations.

i just don't see what the big deal is, really. and i've tried it
all by now. so it's not a case of not having found the right ehm
well whatever

CarrieMpls said:

that's ok

It's the intimacy and emotions shared with the person I'm involved with that gives me pleasure...the physical act intensifies those feelings infinitely. Sex is emotional and mental more than it is physical. I love giving myself over to them and having them give themselves over to me...letting ourselves feel completely vunerable, uninhibited, safe and loved while giving each other extraordinary pleasure over and over.

Yeah, I really do enjoy it...

If if's with a pretty woman who turns you on and and everything you are doing turns you on then sex is great. If not....

If I HAD any sex, I would enjoy it, yes

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

maybe i can send some of my sexlife your way
so i have more time on my hands to do things
i really enjoy

IstenSzek2 said:

As long as he's not gay

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

ok, forget that i mentioned it

IstenSzek2 said:

The beautiful ones always smash the picture....

of course i like sex. i like coffee too, and i've been drinking that shit all the time since i was in high school.

HowComeYouDontCallme said:

now i'm thinking about having sex with prince

:limpforlife:

Anxiety said:

LOL

me too.

i don't like masturbation any more either. it's more a case of
"oh god, are you acting up again, just please f*ck off will ya"

then i have coffee and cigarettes until i pass out.

i really do. when its done right and with the right person.

more the idea than the reality...

Aside from the occasional tryst...in terms of sex with actual regular partners/boyfriends...I have to say that for the most part after 2 months the sex is kinda boring and repetitive. Almost looked on as a chore...almost. Very few regular boyfriends have I actually had really good sex with. Of course they didn't stick around.

The thought of it, as said above is more exciting than actually doing it.

My current partner and I have sex occasionally. I don't think that either of us are really compatable in that way. He certainly hasn't had a lot of experience and isn't very aggressive in that way. WHat to do? I love him to bits. ANd to be honest, sex has never been the glue that binds for us. DOes it bother me...a little. But I am not going to break off a 5 year relationship that is pretty good and solid for the most part just to seek someone that I am sexualy compatable with...probably because the other important things would not be there. The fact that my partner gets me, loves me and wants to be with me forever...goes a loooong way. CUz when I'm 70, sex will be furthest from my mind and needing someone who will take care of me will be much more prevelant.

cborgman said:

finally, someone who kinda agrees.

superspaceboy said:

well said and very sweet.

IstenSzek2 said:

Unfortuneately it's a big deal for many people. I've never seen the desperation as someone who "loves" someone else who doesn't. Most times it's about the sex.

IstenSzek2 said:

I'm just one of those people that thinks about sex a lot ,when i was single i was so cranky as i wasn't getting any ..i sometimes think i have too many male hormones in me or something