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Printablesuperspaceboy said: Aside from the occasional tryst...in terms of sex with actual regular partners/boyfriends...I have to say that for the most part after 2 months the sex is kinda boring and repetitive. Almost looked on as a chore...almost. Very few regular boyfriends have I actually had really good sex with. Of course they didn't stick around.
The thought of it, as said above is more exciting than actually doing it. My current partner and I have sex occasionally. I don't think that either of us are really compatable in that way. He certainly hasn't had a lot of experience and isn't very aggressive in that way. WHat to do? I love him to bits. ANd to be honest, sex has never been the glue that binds for us. DOes it bother me...a little. But I am not going to break off a 5 year relationship that is pretty good and solid for the most part just to seek someone that I am sexualy compatable with...probably because the other important things would not be there. The fact that my partner gets me, loves me and wants to be with me forever...goes a loooong way. CUz when I'm 70, sex will be furthest from my mind and needing someone who will take care of me will be much more prevelant. 
yup, i agree with all of that. and that is the exact reason why breaking off a relationship for a sexual "problem" has never seemed worthwhile in my mind since everyone has different hang ups. especially since after an estimated time of say 3 or 4 months, things indeed get repetitive and it doesn't matter what you're doing or with whom. | |
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I love it. I think I enjoy the foreplay leading up to the actual act. Kissing is very important before it too.
M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: I love it. I think I enjoy the foreplay leading up to the actual act. Kissing is very important before it too.
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superspaceboy said: Aside from the occasional tryst...in terms of sex with actual regular partners/boyfriends...I have to say that for the most part after 2 months the sex is kinda boring and repetitive. Almost looked on as a chore...almost. Very few regular boyfriends have I actually had really good sex with. Of course they didn't stick around.
The thought of it, as said above is more exciting than actually doing it. My current partner and I have sex occasionally. I don't think that either of us are really compatable in that way. He certainly hasn't had a lot of experience and isn't very aggressive in that way. WHat to do? I love him to bits. ANd to be honest, sex has never been the glue that binds for us. DOes it bother me...a little. But I am not going to break off a 5 year relationship that is pretty good and solid for the most part just to seek someone that I am sexualy compatable with...probably because the other important things would not be there. The fact that my partner gets me, loves me and wants to be with me forever...goes a loooong way. CUz when I'm 70, sex will be furthest from my mind and needing someone who will take care of me will be much more prevelant.  Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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IstenSzek2 said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I love it. I think I enjoy the foreplay leading up to the actual act. Kissing is very important before it too.
M LOL @ your signature. where is that from? Oops. got my avatar and sig mixed up. My sig was provided by my really good friend. I couldn't fit the entire quote. The rest said something like. "You stay here with your auntie and wait for the checks. I'll see you in between albums." M [Edited 11/2/05 11:41am] [Edited 11/2/05 11:42am] MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: I love it. I think I enjoy the foreplay leading up to the actual act. Kissing is very important before it too.
M it gets me all excited. the kissing to. | |
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a good friend of mine called me last week and told me:
"I met this amazing guy and he's so great and we really hit it off but then I just saw that twinkle in his eye that said "I like long n passionate sex with lots of movement and interaction" and that just made me wanna roll over and go to sleep right then and there, in the bar with all the people standing around" | |
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brownsugar said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I love it. I think I enjoy the foreplay leading up to the actual act. Kissing is very important before it too.
M it gets me all excited. the kissing to.It's pretty bad after all the great foreplay and kissing is ruined by the actual act. Heehee!! M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: brownsugar said: it gets me all excited. the kissing to.It's pretty bad after all the great foreplay and kissing is ruined by the actual act. Heehee!! M  | |
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I love it. I love everything about it. The foreplay, the moaning, the groaning, the sweating....love it. | |
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superspaceboy said: Aside from the occasional tryst...in terms of sex with actual regular partners/boyfriends...I have to say that for the most part after 2 months the sex is kinda boring and repetitive. Almost looked on as a chore...almost. Very few regular boyfriends have I actually had really good sex with. Of course they didn't stick around.
The thought of it, as said above is more exciting than actually doing it. My current partner and I have sex occasionally. I don't think that either of us are really compatable in that way. He certainly hasn't had a lot of experience and isn't very aggressive in that way. WHat to do? I love him to bits. ANd to be honest, sex has never been the glue that binds for us. DOes it bother me...a little. But I am not going to break off a 5 year relationship that is pretty good and solid for the most part just to seek someone that I am sexualy compatable with...probably because the other important things would not be there. The fact that my partner gets me, loves me and wants to be with me forever...goes a loooong way. CUz when I'm 70, sex will be furthest from my mind and needing someone who will take care of me will be much more prevelant. couldn't agree more... i have found that HOT sex is temporary and the newness wears off, and what is more important is the rest of the relationship. Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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IstenSzek2 said: superspaceboy said: Aside from the occasional tryst...in terms of sex with actual regular partners/boyfriends...I have to say that for the most part after 2 months the sex is kinda boring and repetitive. Almost looked on as a chore...almost. Very few regular boyfriends have I actually had really good sex with. Of course they didn't stick around.
The thought of it, as said above is more exciting than actually doing it. My current partner and I have sex occasionally. I don't think that either of us are really compatable in that way. He certainly hasn't had a lot of experience and isn't very aggressive in that way. WHat to do? I love him to bits. ANd to be honest, sex has never been the glue that binds for us. DOes it bother me...a little. But I am not going to break off a 5 year relationship that is pretty good and solid for the most part just to seek someone that I am sexualy compatable with...probably because the other important things would not be there. The fact that my partner gets me, loves me and wants to be with me forever...goes a loooong way. CUz when I'm 70, sex will be furthest from my mind and needing someone who will take care of me will be much more prevelant.
yup, i agree with all of that. and that is the exact reason why breaking off a relationship for a sexual "problem" has never seemed worthwhile in my mind since everyone has different hang ups. especially since after an estimated time of say 3 or 4 months, things indeed get repetitive and it doesn't matter what you're doing or with whom. I sorta discussed this with my brother (younger) and he claims something is terribly wrong with my relationship, and he could be the furthest from the truth. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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cborgman said: superspaceboy said: Aside from the occasional tryst...in terms of sex with actual regular partners/boyfriends...I have to say that for the most part after 2 months the sex is kinda boring and repetitive. Almost looked on as a chore...almost. Very few regular boyfriends have I actually had really good sex with. Of course they didn't stick around.
The thought of it, as said above is more exciting than actually doing it. My current partner and I have sex occasionally. I don't think that either of us are really compatable in that way. He certainly hasn't had a lot of experience and isn't very aggressive in that way. WHat to do? I love him to bits. ANd to be honest, sex has never been the glue that binds for us. DOes it bother me...a little. But I am not going to break off a 5 year relationship that is pretty good and solid for the most part just to seek someone that I am sexualy compatable with...probably because the other important things would not be there. The fact that my partner gets me, loves me and wants to be with me forever...goes a loooong way. CUz when I'm 70, sex will be furthest from my mind and needing someone who will take care of me will be much more prevelant. couldn't agree more... i have found that HOT sex is temporary and the newness wears off, and what is more important is the rest of the relationship. I've found it to be the other way around...that it's what's in the rest of the relationship that causes the sex to be hot. | |
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cborgman said: superspaceboy said: Aside from the occasional tryst...in terms of sex with actual regular partners/boyfriends...I have to say that for the most part after 2 months the sex is kinda boring and repetitive. Almost looked on as a chore...almost. Very few regular boyfriends have I actually had really good sex with. Of course they didn't stick around.
The thought of it, as said above is more exciting than actually doing it. My current partner and I have sex occasionally. I don't think that either of us are really compatable in that way. He certainly hasn't had a lot of experience and isn't very aggressive in that way. WHat to do? I love him to bits. ANd to be honest, sex has never been the glue that binds for us. DOes it bother me...a little. But I am not going to break off a 5 year relationship that is pretty good and solid for the most part just to seek someone that I am sexualy compatable with...probably because the other important things would not be there. The fact that my partner gets me, loves me and wants to be with me forever...goes a loooong way. CUz when I'm 70, sex will be furthest from my mind and needing someone who will take care of me will be much more prevelant. couldn't agree more... i have found that HOT sex is temporary and the newness wears off, and what is more important is the rest of the relationship. And it's not like we can't make the agreement to get the sexual satisfaction we need from somewhere else. We had that agreement way in the beginning before we committed to each other. And over time it's been pretty exclusive (though I know we each have had our straying moments). So I suppose it's semi-open and perhaps we may open it a bit more, we each just haven't felt like doing so. Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Byron said: cborgman said: couldn't agree more... i have found that HOT sex is temporary and the newness wears off, and what is more important is the rest of the relationship. I've found it to be the other way around...that it's what's in the rest of the relationship that causes the sex to be hot. good point. but we both agree the rest of the relationshi is more important, right? Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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Byron said:[quote] cborgman said: I've found it to be the other way around...that it's what's in the rest of the relationship that causes the sex to be hot. In my situation, it just keeps getting better.  | |
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I have forgotten what sex was like.  | |
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jerseykrs said: I have forgotten what sex was like.
doesn't Dook have the pictures anymore to refresh your memory?  | |
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IstenSzek2 said: jerseykrs said: I have forgotten what sex was like.
doesn't Dook have the pictures anymore to refresh your memory? hahaha, wait a minute, that was uncalled for! 
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Byron said: cborgman said: couldn't agree more... i have found that HOT sex is temporary and the newness wears off, and what is more important is the rest of the relationship. I've found it to be the other way around...that it's what's in the rest of the relationship that causes the sex to be hot. very well said. One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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Byron said: cborgman said: couldn't agree more... i have found that HOT sex is temporary and the newness wears off, and what is more important is the rest of the relationship. I've found it to be the other way around...that it's what's in the rest of the relationship that causes the sex to be hot. perhaps. i really like that idea. i guess only time will tell. but i do need a lot of time to get used to people. not just concerning physical attraction, but also the psychological side of things. with me it's the other way around I guess. i don't really like anyone in the beginning, my affection grows over a long and seriously slow period of time. and even then i still wake up screaming at night hehehe.  | |
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jerseykrs said: IstenSzek2 said: doesn't Dook have the pictures anymore to refresh your memory? hahaha, wait a minute, that was uncalled for!
if it helps, i think with you, i might not totally dislike it | |
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my answer is, yes... i FUCKING love it !!!!! everything about it. One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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IstenSzek2 said: jerseykrs said: hahaha, wait a minute, that was uncalled for!
if it helps, i think with you, i might not totally dislike it
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jerseykrs said: IstenSzek2 said:
if it helps, i think with you, i might not totally dislike it
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Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's really good. And when it's bad...it's still pretty good. | |
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sextonseven said: Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's really good. And when it's bad...it's still pretty good.
pizza 
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CarrieLee said: I love it. I love everything about it. The foreplay, the moaning, the groaning, the sweating....love it.
Totally agree.  | |
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