i disagree that spats' 'filter is dirty and clogged'

you're imposing a double standard here, do you see that?

let me spell it out for you.

first you defend synthia's preference for gender roles (man=aggressor, pursuer, active one in bed; woman = submissive, pursued, less active in bed).

and even though synthia's sexual preference makes her sound like she's kind of into bondage which equates to a possibly questionable psychological background you support her there as well.

(personally i am SO glad women are not requires to behave as synthia describes because that's the role we have been expected to play for centuries. i find it a total turn off to be 'the pursued' fuck that shit, imo).

anyway back to the point:

and THEN, after allowing Synthia the right to choose her admittedly 'different' sexual proferences THEN you have the nerve to refuse to allow spats the same freedom to choose his preferences?

excuse me but that has double standard written all over it.
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you are understanding and kind to synthia (even though in my opinion and in the opinion of many other women who've weighed in here - synthia's preference represents a backward, repressive social role)

then again, you're pretty insultive to just about everyone on this thread.

you are understanding and kind to synthia (even though in my opinion and in the opinion of many other women who've weighed in here - synthia's preference represents a backward, repressive social role)

then again, you're pretty insultive to just about everyone on this thread.

Awww, don't let it get to you. It's just opinions, right. There are some dimwitted people on the org, but you should just feel sorry for them instead of getting riled up. Don't trip, potato chip.

I'm trying to understand the controversy. I mean, the thread title is an invitation to opinions, no?

'Ladies, Do you move in bed or do you believe that's the guy's responsibility?'

Spontaneity is king.

I agree

Excellent, let's have sex!

You go underneath first and then you have to...

No, you need to be on top!

Wait, do you have a pen and pad handy? Let's get this organised first.

Well, before we even do that, I need to filter you through my list of ridiculous standards before I'll even bother waiting for you to make the first move.

Yes, you're right. First up, is being 'taken' an acceptable concept for you? I won't even so much as look at a woman who won't allow herself to be taken.

Wow, that's such a prehistoric idea. When are you going to stop talking? That's annoying!