Ya Know I Love ya Supa. You are a Riot and Right On Track... Peace Cara Mia...

Zelaira said:

I aint no jellyfish, that's for sure!

The sex I advocate ...

It's not for the Ms. Celie's

It's not for the stone age

It's not for the people in the 1950s

It's for someone who celebrates the differences between men and women and find those differences hot and intoxicating. Celie didn't even have a relationship with Mr. There was no bond between them. Her submission was demanded, not given in awe and respect as does a women who looks up to her man and celebrates him.


I not going to lie there while anyone does his business. I guess it's easy to condemn somethign if you distort it.

I am going to meet that man in bed, our feminine/masculine essences will clash and it will be explosive. He will lead and dominate and I'll respond to his every movement, nurturing him and celebrating the fact that he's an incredible masculine power. That's beautiful. But I'm not talking about some casual sex or one night stand. I'm talking about a beautiful, romantic loving relationship.

I'm not trying to emasculate a man or be like him. I accept my womanhood and revel in it. I'm not oppressed. Men and women are both powerful. But part of my power is in nurturing the man I love. I'm not trying to be the thruster. I like being taken. You know that verse in the Bible where it says Jacob took Rachel to his tent and took her ... I LOVE that. We live in a society where men do not get to be the heroes they were created to be. That's too bad.

The thing is... I consider myself a feminist and believe in female power ... and this does not contradict with that. Female power doesn't have to mirror male power. If I'm going to command the bed, then I might as well buy a strap-on or dildo and fuck him.

But that's not going to happen. The only men I've respected in bed are those who are dominant and know how to command the bed.

I believe every woman secretly craves to be "taken" and handled ... this is why some women provoke men .. they like getting them riled and seeing their masculine power unleashed.

Ask a pimp and he will say he knows this secret truth that women deny. It's pitiful,though, because the pimp abuses the truth. Analyze:

I find power and strength sexy. Now, there are two ways a guy can display those atttributes. He can hit me (which is horrible and violent and evil..) or he can give me a good hard fuck (which is loving and beautiful and passionate).
Look around you and you will see woman who have perverted and misunderstood their secret craving for a strong male hero in their lives ... they'll go afte these muscle head thugs who aren't afraid to die in the street and carry guns. Why is that attractive? Cause those men are hard as hell and they represent power and security ... but they are little boys ... so immature and immoral. They can never be my hero. It a man puts it on a woman hard, he'll immediately notice the respect-awe factor. She wants that.

I want to know I'm with a strong man. I like someone who commands the bed and puts me under his power. At the same time he's intoxicated by me and is emotionally under my power and hungers for me. He hungers for me as a nurturer and I hunger for him as a protector.

Why anyone would make this seem bad is beyond me. It's human nature. Now, we don't have to follow nature. Man can exercise free will. But you know what I like this part of my nature. And I like the pleasure-pain realm of sex that was created for such bonding.


Also, let me say for years I would read Ayn Rand (My favorite author-philosopher ...you've heard me mention her before). I could never understand whey the women in her novels like Dominque or Dagney could run companies and be independent women yet yield themselves to hero-worshipped their lovers (howard roark, John Galt)... I thought she was betraying the feministic movement.

But after shedding my hard core feminist protests and experience the awe of a strong man in my life ... I understood how a strong woman could submit herself to an incredible man. It's not degrading at all. And you don't lose your personal power.
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I'm not doing anything to build up a man's ego.

I like this! This is want brings me pleasure and gets me hot in bed!

It satisfies a deep need I have to feel safe and in the presence of a strong power. When I feel his strength .. it makes me feel like there's nothing in the world that can get by him and hurt me. I love that.

There's no faking going on. The rapture I express in bed is sincere. I'm not going to pretend a weak man is strong. But if I'm with a strong man, every fibre and breath in me will celebrate that. Sure, I'll even challenge him but if I can pin him down and fuck him ... then it's over. He needs to go.


Now, please address the pimp theory .. while I go finish the meat loaf and mashed potatoes I'm cooking.
[Edited 11/1/05 17:26pm]

at this topic!!

I used to be a dancer, so I don't have a problem moving, synchronized with my hubby when I'm on the bottom. I wouldn't call it thrusting, per se, but it's more just moving with his body. I also like being on top, too, for a variation, plus I find that I have more "control"...I also find it more intense, if ya know what I mean. I like "doggie" style coz it's fun. Ah hell, I just love to make love. My husband and I have been together a total of 10 years, 7 of those being married, so we have learned from each other. I don't know if I was always so "adventurous," well maybe a little bit.

I dunno... I don't find being "open" to different sexual experiences with my husband difficult... Oh, and the strangest place WE have ever "made it," was out in the garage, on top of his antique Baracuda!! We just were out in the garage doing laundry, and the urge took over!! However, we have made love on camping trips and stuff, too.!!!

It's just sex!! I say relax and enjoy!!

Hmmm, this thread is giving me some ideas for when he gets home from work!!
[Edited 11/1/05 17:26pm]

what are we talking about here? I don't follow.

Have you ever thrown you guy down really hard and forbid him to speak while you did your thing?
I suggest you try it atleast once.

Syn ,just has some Issues. I Swear SYn is a MAN . I don't Know about any Rachel or Jacob . You want to be DOMINATED by A MAN and OVERTAKEN is what it is. I Guess you like all that. To Each'S own. You want the Man to Tell you What to Do and also Direct the Bedroom Adventures. I would be Bored.

littlemissG said:

Yes I have .. it's a fun thrill ... but it's pretense .. because I know at any moment he can overthrow me and overpower me. And I live for that moment.

Zelaira said:

No, I don't have any issues. I have a philosophy. Women who've lost their delicacy and femininity have issues. Don't make this personal.


And I never said I wanted anyone to tell me what to do. I wish you people could read and comprehend better.

And if this isn't your thing ..don't do it. I'm not condemning women who like to do the thrusting ...I'm just saying that not what I prefer. I like to respond in bed, not lead. It's never boring if you have a man who's a lion.

How difficult is it for you to hear a different perspective and not condemn it and make personal attacks. We're mature people here.

littlemissG said:

Actually, I have sort of done that... I haven't thrown him down,but I've been really assertive.. I then I didn't forbid him to speak, but just didn't allow him to speak ... MMmmm I might try to "throw him" down tonight!!

Don't get me wrong though, it ain't always PERFECT coz sometimes we are so tired and stressed-out from our jobs and other commitments. Sometimes it take some effort to MAKE TIME for each other. But for the most part when we love we really LOVE!! I'm not complaining, and I don't think he is either.

I guess, I just don't think about it all that much.. or analyse. But I've been with the same guy for a while now, so maybe we have just "evolved" past that stage or something. We just "enjoy" each other... But NOTHING is perfect all the time. In this case, PRACTICE makes PERFECT!! It's the practicing and/or experimenting that is the most important and fun part!!

retina said:

they don't move much even when they are alive

SynthiaRose said:

I say do what makes you feel comfortable. I just think that sex is like anything else: people just like what they like. I don't think that there is any wrong or right way. I also don't think that there is some sort of acceptable standard. It just depends on the personalities involved. I'm pretty open to different things WITH MY HUSBAND, but that's just me. That doesn't mean that it's the BEST way to be for everybody. It just works for us coz he is the same way.

I don't think that your preferences are "wrong" or that you aren't a good lover or something. It's all about the way you and your partner feel, right?? That's what is most important. I just thought that we were sharing stories. People are just different. That's what makes us all interesting.

That's True. Just that I Don't know one Guy who wants to do THE CONQUERINg. They want ACTIVE Participation. The WORDS CONTINENTAL Come to MIND On This for Some Reason....LOl. Also, Prince in UTCM....Tricky Hits him with some Stone...Christopher....I Ain't Into ALL That Vibe....I'll Do All The WORK. I Suppose if it's going to be All that The Prince would do Well to Blindfold Said Participant and then Tease and Conquer. Kama Sutra .... But, Nowadays alot of FEROCIOUS SEX where ya Sheets Have Cum Stains and Ya Sore B Goin On...

Synthiarose's post is a perfect example of one of biggest of my complaints with women. Needy and insecure. And that post alone sent the women's movement back 100 years.lol Although there is a bit of truth there. A lot of Women say they want equality but i think they only want equality when it comes to pay.

"He hungers for me as a nurturer and i hunger for him as a protecter" ??? WTF???? That line alone made me want to PUKE!!!!

I can't believe the women here who ride my ass are not having a field day with this crap. Unless they secretly agree which would be another reason for me to puke and would make them hypocrites.

The last line about making MEATLOAF was so WRONG. It just seems like a Man saying this stuff. Are there Really women Out There that think like this? Let the Man do the work and all this stuff? Why Not take a TRANQUILIZER and SLEEP while he does his BIZNESS? Actually,sometimes LOVELY.... However,I just don't Know any passive Women Either. Most are Agressive in Bed and in Life. a Woman should be a Woman . Even a Lesbian doesn't Have to be a Man. It's Cool to have Agressive Women yet Straight or Passive Men Straight all stuff..Stereotypes are SHIT! Nobody Should be all UPTIGHT Trying to ASS KISS and be WHO They AREn't. Ya Don't have to be a SQUARE if You are a WILD CARD! Ya Controlling YOURSELF FOR WHAT? Just have Fun and B Young. Any Age can B Young If Ya THINK Young COOL Thoughts. You can B Young and a DICK! Sometimes Older people Are More Fun. I feel Bad For Sick and Elderly. Unless ya a Priest Or MINISTER You Can INDULGE.

Spats- Women would be very lucky to be as confident, strong, and intelligent as I am. You obviously wish to force me into some image you've created in your mind. Because if you've read all my posts, you wouldn't find anyone who's weak, insecure or a threat to the women's movement.

You can't judge a woman's full feminist philosophy based on how she treats her man. Love is an exception.

Needy? Umm, You choose people in a relationship that fulfils your needs. You expose your vulnerabilities in a relationship.

It's easy to simply bash, rather than analyze and offer your own philosophy. And most of these replies have been personal insults and such stupid shit that I'm tired trying to enlighten.

And Zelaira. I cooked meatloaf tonight. And mashed potatoes. and broccoli with carrots and zucchini. What the fuck are you talking about? You're an idiot. I'm sorry. YOu've made so many personal attacks in this thread that I can't hold back any longer. I've tried to be civil and diplomatic. But you're a fucking idiot.

Goodnight.

missfee said:

Holy fuck, it gets better

SynthiaRose said:

Syn...We have Different Styles . I don't know any Guys who would hang with ya. Nothing Personal..To each is own... Meatloaf Sucks and Reminds me of Hospital Food Sorry. Yuck. My Opinion and just the guys I know.

i can't believe this thread has gone on for so long.

who the fuck cares what synthiarose does in bed? none of you are ever gonna fuck her so why do you care? levae her ayn rand reading ass alone!

jerseykrs said:

See? none of the women that get on me have a problem with the nonsense Synthia Rose posted. Typical. I feel like she swallowed a freaking romance novel and threw it back on me.

"Oh, i want my man to grab me and take me, dominate me. I want to be in his arms and feel safe and secure from the rest of the world while our bodies come together while the cruel suffering in the world goes all arund us. Yet, i am safe from all of that because i am safe his all powerful arms and his surpeme masculinity. Out bodily sweat comes together and becomes one. He is my man and i am his women. I am his mommy and he is my daddy. He is the man that will protect me to the day i die and i will nurture him and his soul to the day he dies. We are one."

PUKE!!!!!

SynthiaRose said:

He doesn't seem to see that he has needs, which consequently makes him needy.






DUHHHHH

gemini13 said:

"Eric, what is your disability?"

INSATIABLE said:

hahahahahaha


"He's retarded"

I liked Jimmy and his steroid use, the Platoon music was the funniest shit.

You can't compare me to needy women. I do not need constant attention. I do not need someone's arms around me to feel safe. I do need a woman to show me affection in public to prove out lust or love. There is no comparison.

Spats said:

Your needs are even MORE unrealistic than the needs of the women you speak of.

Hellooooo?

Your excuses for your behavior are getting boring.

There is nothing unrealistic about anything i want. But with the women out there it is harder to find.

Spats said:

you don't need anyone but your hands
and hey,u got TWO of them! now THAT'S variety!



perhaps you'll do better with them than with any woman.