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Reply #150 posted 10/28/05 12:40pm

Heiress

lilgish said:

Soulofmysoul said:



So you want to see Heiress spit out her own teeth? Nice!


punch let him just try


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Reply #151 posted 10/28/05 12:41pm

gemini13

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If we knew what your ORIGINAL screen name was (the one you most likely were banned with), it would shed an abundance of light on your personality. What's with the attitude? Why are you so defensive? There's way more insight into your personality that you're giving that you're not noticing.


First of all I have never been banned which I mentioned when TheRealFiness thought I was FACE and secondly who says that account is still active? Who says I posted in the past? If I deactivated my account you won't find anything unless you would like to manually search all posts made since Feb 2002 and again, there would be nothing to find if I never posted in the first place.


Why would you deactivate an account and start over with a new one?
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Reply #152 posted 10/28/05 12:42pm

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Reply #153 posted 10/28/05 12:43pm

RepoMan

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gemini13 said:

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Do people like you actually roam the earth unattended spitting at people and thinking they can get away with it?

You're right though. I'm overcompensating. I should just spit back.


When I did I say that I spit on people? Learn to control yourself. Don't be so childish and dramatic. rolleyes Do you not even have enough self-worth to just walk away? Or do you feel better stooping to a lower level just to satisfy your ego?


Who's being dramatic? You're taking a hypothetical situation and act like it's something I've already done. No one has ever even attempted to spit at me.

All this "turn the other cheek" stuff might work for you, but it doesn't work for me. Don't worry about it, apparently you're an angel, so it's not like you would ever spit at me. If you don't spit at me there is no problem and you won't get punched. Simple as that.
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Reply #154 posted 10/28/05 12:43pm

Stymie

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like most people have said...hitting is wrong...so don't do it.

but if you do...you should EXPECT it back.

Ladies...do not hit a man unless you're ready to fight him. don't be stupid.

we want to be "equal" but..when push comes to shove we don't.
Bam! There it is! clapping

Women should keep their damn hands to themselves. Most do that stupid shit because they know they can get away with it or, if the police are called, the guy is the one most likely to get carted off to jail.

If someone makes you angry to the point of violence, you need to get the fuck away from them. It ain'r rocket science.
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Reply #155 posted 10/28/05 12:47pm

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First of all I have never been banned which I mentioned when TheRealFiness thought I was FACE and secondly who says that account is still active? Who says I posted in the past? If I deactivated my account you won't find anything unless you would like to manually search all posts made since Feb 2002 and again, there would be nothing to find if I never posted in the first place.


Why would you deactivate an account and start over with a new one?


Why would one post here in the first place, most people don't. Why would you be so interested in which account I had in the past? Why do you believe anything that I say? Why would you not?
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Reply #156 posted 10/28/05 1:09pm

brownsugar

the whole thing is just wrong all the way around confused
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Reply #157 posted 10/28/05 1:26pm

Nikki23

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RepoMan said:



Sure as hell won't be someone like you, girlie man.


"Girlie man" eh? lol

Now I'm starting to think you are Joey after all. Only a steroid jockey like him would use one of Arnold Schwarzenegger's ridiculous pet words.

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You mean Ahnold !

oh if only they could see what a 'real' man you are retina wink
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Reply #158 posted 10/28/05 1:36pm

June7

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RepoMan said:

gemini13 said:



When I did I say that I spit on people? Learn to control yourself. Don't be so childish and dramatic. rolleyes Do you not even have enough self-worth to just walk away? Or do you feel better stooping to a lower level just to satisfy your ego?


Who's being dramatic? You're taking a hypothetical situation and act like it's something I've already done. No one has ever even attempted to spit at me.

All this "turn the other cheek" stuff might work for you, but it doesn't work for me. Don't worry about it, apparently you're an angel, so it's not like you would ever spit at me. If you don't spit at me there is no problem and you won't get punched. Simple as that.

Okay - Both of you go to your corners and chill.... don't make me get out my lock and key! no no no! - June7
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Reply #159 posted 10/28/05 1:44pm

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slapping, spitting, ball kicking is all wrong. retaliating with excessive force is not justification.


seriously..... neutral
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Reply #160 posted 10/28/05 1:48pm

Soulofmysoul

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lilgish said:

slapping, spitting, ball kicking is all wrong. retaliating with excessive force is not justification.


seriously..... neutral



In this day and age, saliva is a weapon and the amount of force allowed to counter is has yet to be legally defined.
But....

Felony conviction for spitting upheld on technical grounds.

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AIDS: The Ohio Supreme Court upheld the felony conviction of an HIV-positive man who spat in the face of a police officer. The prosecution contended that in 1993, Jimmy Bird used saliva as a weapon against a police officer who had Bird in custody on a charge of disorderly conduct. Bird pleaded no contest to one count of felonious assault and was sentenced to a term of 3 to 15 years in prison. On appeal, Bird sought to have his conviction overturned based on the lack of medical evidence that HIV can be transmitted by saliva. A State appeals court ruled against Bird in 1996, and the Supreme Court upheld the ruling.
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Reply #161 posted 10/28/05 1:51pm

brownsugar

Soulofmysoul said:

lilgish said:

slapping, spitting, ball kicking is all wrong. retaliating with excessive force is not justification.


seriously..... neutral



In this day and age, saliva is a weapon and the amount of force allowed to counter is has yet to be legally defined.
But....

Felony conviction for spitting upheld on technical grounds.

[No authors listed]

AIDS: The Ohio Supreme Court upheld the felony conviction of an HIV-positive man who spat in the face of a police officer. The prosecution contended that in 1993, Jimmy Bird used saliva as a weapon against a police officer who had Bird in custody on a charge of disorderly conduct. Bird pleaded no contest to one count of felonious assault and was sentenced to a term of 3 to 15 years in prison. On appeal, Bird sought to have his conviction overturned based on the lack of medical evidence that HIV can be transmitted by saliva. A State appeals court ruled against Bird in 1996, and the Supreme Court upheld the ruling.

i bet thats a spit he won't forget
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Reply #162 posted 10/28/05 1:59pm

evenstar3

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Soulofmysoul said:


In this day and age, saliva is a weapon and the amount of force allowed to counter is has yet to be legally defined.
But....

Felony conviction for spitting upheld on technical grounds.

[No authors listed]

AIDS: The Ohio Supreme Court upheld the felony conviction of an HIV-positive man who spat in the face of a police officer. The prosecution contended that in 1993, Jimmy Bird used saliva as a weapon against a police officer who had Bird in custody on a charge of disorderly conduct. Bird pleaded no contest to one count of felonious assault and was sentenced to a term of 3 to 15 years in prison. On appeal, Bird sought to have his conviction overturned based on the lack of medical evidence that HIV can be transmitted by saliva. A State appeals court ruled against Bird in 1996, and the Supreme Court upheld the ruling.


I'm pretty sure that when the guy spat in the police officer's face, he wasn't doing it with the intent to transmit his HIV.
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Reply #163 posted 10/28/05 4:15pm

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evenstar3 said:

Soulofmysoul said:


In this day and age, saliva is a weapon and the amount of force allowed to counter is has yet to be legally defined.
But....

Felony conviction for spitting upheld on technical grounds.

[No authors listed]

AIDS: The Ohio Supreme Court upheld the felony conviction of an HIV-positive man who spat in the face of a police officer. The prosecution contended that in 1993, Jimmy Bird used saliva as a weapon against a police officer who had Bird in custody on a charge of disorderly conduct. Bird pleaded no contest to one count of felonious assault and was sentenced to a term of 3 to 15 years in prison. On appeal, Bird sought to have his conviction overturned based on the lack of medical evidence that HIV can be transmitted by saliva. A State appeals court ruled against Bird in 1996, and the Supreme Court upheld the ruling.


I'm pretty sure that when the guy spat in the police officer's face, he wasn't doing it with the intent to transmit his HIV.


And that matters because???
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Reply #164 posted 10/28/05 4:41pm

evenstar3

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Soulofmysoul said:

evenstar3 said:



I'm pretty sure that when the guy spat in the police officer's face, he wasn't doing it with the intent to transmit his HIV.


And that matters because???


It was just another frivolous lawsuit with good lawyers. shrug
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Reply #165 posted 10/28/05 4:44pm

Soulofmysoul

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evenstar3 said:

Soulofmysoul said:



And that matters because???


It was just another frivolous lawsuit with good lawyers. shrug



Frivolous? How can a felony conviction be frivolous? Civil lawsuits can be frivolous. This, however, was a criminal case.
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Reply #166 posted 10/28/05 4:58pm

evenstar3

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Soulofmysoul said:

evenstar3 said:



It was just another frivolous lawsuit with good lawyers. shrug



Frivolous? How can a felony conviction be frivolous? Civil lawsuits can be frivolous. This, however, was a criminal case.


Oh, come on. The police officer just got pissed off that the guy spit at him, got a lawyer, investigated the guy, and decided to sue once they found out he was HIV+.
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Reply #167 posted 10/28/05 5:04pm

Soulofmysoul

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evenstar3 said:

Soulofmysoul said:




Frivolous? How can a felony conviction be frivolous? Civil lawsuits can be frivolous. This, however, was a criminal case.


Oh, come on. The police officer just got pissed off that the guy spit at him, got a lawyer, investigated the guy, and decided to sue once they found out he was HIV+.


Decided to sue? You aren't suing someone when it's a criminal case. You're thinking civil. In criminal cases the STATE is the plaintiff.
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Reply #168 posted 10/28/05 5:10pm

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no it's never okay for a guy to hit a woman
didn't we learn this from these two people:









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Reply #169 posted 10/28/05 5:15pm

evenstar3

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Soulofmysoul said:

evenstar3 said:



Oh, come on. The police officer just got pissed off that the guy spit at him, got a lawyer, investigated the guy, and decided to sue once they found out he was HIV+.


Decided to sue? You aren't suing someone when it's a criminal case. You're thinking civil. In criminal cases the STATE is the plaintiff.


shrug okay, I didn't know that. regardless (and getting back to the original point), I really don't think that attacking someone's face in response to them spitting at you is equal.
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Reply #170 posted 10/28/05 5:15pm

gemini13

That's weird cuz I'm listening to "Better Be Good To Me"

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Reply #171 posted 10/28/05 5:23pm

SupaFunkyOrgan
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Does peoples opinions change if the woman in question is a lesbian?
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Reply #172 posted 10/28/05 5:25pm

evenstar3

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Does peoples opinions change if the woman in question is a lesbian?


I don't see why it would?
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Reply #173 posted 10/28/05 7:49pm

Fauxie

Soulofmysoul said:

Fauxie said:




That's right.

My wife is Thai, so I have to do that a lot. lol

But seriously, she has a terrible temper which up until a year or so ago could lead her to get violent. She used to slap me, push me, kick out, and stand on the bed screaming out so the whole street could hear. I'm a very non-confrontational person and very, very rarely get even slightly angry, which always allowed me to be in control and let things play out. However, after a while, seeing the red marks on my arms and back and having to go through the inevitable calming down and making up, and despite the make up sex, I decided it just couldn't continue, no matter how much I understood the reasons for her behaviour and sympathised with her. The whole thing was just tiring for us both. We talked about it a lot and she learned to control herself and now everything is cool. She can still do the shrill screaming thing but she never slaps or anything anymore. We give each other a little space on the rare occasion we argue and now she's much more capable of just talking things through rationally and reasonably. Feels good.


Fauxie....can't help but wonder what led to her fits of rage?
You say you "understood the reasons for her behaviour and sympathised with her."
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Yes, I understand why she had a temper problem. As Heiress said, people often have childhood issues and my wife is such a person. There's more than one reason and the combination led her to be a very volatile and emotional person, which when it comes to angry emotions made her quite a handful. I understood why, so while I wasn't happy with her behaviour, I wasn't generally angry or resentful, but rather, sympathetic to her problems. Of course, it can wear you down, but I'm in it for the long haul and every day is a step forward for her and us.
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Reply #174 posted 10/28/05 9:50pm

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evenstar3 said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Does peoples opinions change if the woman in question is a lesbian?


I don't see why it would?

It doesn't make a difference to me, but to some people it would. Sexual orientation can throw a kink in the works for those that imagine all lesbians are large and butch and all gay men are small and effeminate.



No one's answered MY question yet. (Which I suppose is semi-related. lol) What if the slapper was a small, physically unimposing man like Prince and the slap-ee was a large scary woman like Brigitte Nielsen? Would that change anyone's perspective? The main reason a man slapping a woman is seen as wrong is because women are normally smaller and weaker than men. But if the sizes and strength were reversed from what's accepted as normal.....
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Reply #175 posted 10/29/05 12:30am

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evenstar3 said:

You know why it's not okay for a guy to hit a girl?

because most guys who do are ASSHOLES. mad



Funny enough, that's exactly why its ususally ok (in my book) for girls to slap guys.
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Reply #176 posted 10/29/05 2:47am

Tom

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Im all for equal rights for women, and equal pay 100%, equal everything. But if a woman hits me I'm gonna hit her right back as well. There's no chivalry here. It's self defense plain and simple. Women can be just as vicious as men.
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Reply #177 posted 10/29/05 7:53am

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evenstar3 said:

Soulofmysoul said:



Decided to sue? You aren't suing someone when it's a criminal case. You're thinking civil. In criminal cases the STATE is the plaintiff.


shrug okay, I didn't know that. regardless (and getting back to the original point), I really don't think that attacking someone's face in response to them spitting at you is equal.


Have you ever been the victim of a "spatting?"
If not, I don't think it's fair to presume that a punch in the face isn't a justified response.
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Reply #178 posted 10/29/05 8:16am

CinisterCee

sarcasm edited
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Reply #179 posted 10/30/05 5:56pm

unlucky7

I guy is stronger, he should take it.
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