well do ya? some people don't feel comfortable with the hand holding situation in public, so i wonder is this a good or bad thing? Me personally, I don't mind it, but can become annoying at times because i'm not a public touchy feely person in general....what about you guys?

i lurve it

it's just so.....

i love it.

If I had someone to hold hands with....then yes...I would hold his hand a lot when we went out... and yes it is

My last boyfriend pulled his hand away from me when I reached out subconsciously, so I finished him.

BinaryJustin said:

dang
some guys always concerned with the "macho" state of mind...
[Edited 10/23/05 9:55am]

SammiJ said:

yes..I've known a few of those...thinking he looks like hes on a lease coz he's showing feelings by holding hands...

those are the ones that haven't grown up yet

Lizzy7701 said:

so true...

BinaryJustin said:

AnckSuNamun said:

"TOASTY!!!"

AnckSuNamun said:

I'm not really into PDA either....I don't mind others holding hands and showing their affection for each other. I have a limit though as to how much I can take. I just wasn't raised with affection, I guess *cue the violins*

SammiJ said:

and I'm older then my man...so I need to find someone older then me

AnckSuNamun said:

SammiJ said:

I miss that game After the second one, they just started to go downhill.

AnckSuNamun said:

i wasn't either...well not much of it anyways...
that's what made me crave it even more
but i guess everyone has different outcomes like that

SammiJ said:

I grew up without it and wishing for it..watching my bestfriend's family being close..made me want it for my family when I started one...

I've always hold my partner's hand in public. It's a subconcious thing. I know some guys object to it suggesting there's some stigma attached to it being a soft thing to do. To me it suggests you're proud of being seen with your partner and are affectionate towards them.

Lizzy7701 said:

exactly

JDINTERACTIVE said:

I think holding hands or an arm around each other is sweet. It usually makes me smile when I see a couple like that. (gay or straight). But I really get grossed out when people are all over each other,licking each other's tonsils and worse. I mean get a room!

SammiJ said:

co-

where are you again..and are you single jk

i wonder why some guys object to it..

missfee said:

we need to orgpop the men on the org direct them to this thread

missfee said:

Again, I think some guys see it as being 'soft' or shows signs that they are insecure. Some guys even don't like admitting showing any effection to their partner at all.

After the intensely negative reaction I got in my own hand-holding thread a month ago, I have become completely reformed. I not only link hand with my wife when we got out, I now tie a string around our legs so we can do a three legged race as we walk together.

GottaLetitgo said:

Oh lord..your silly

GottaLetitgo said:

I feel quite sorry for those that can't "PDA" with the ones you love.
If you're that that uptight with your partners, do you really love them?


tA

Tribal Disorder

http://www.soundclick.com...dID=182431

Sure why NOT? That's cool.

I'm very cool with PDA's