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PrintabletheAudience said: TMPletz said: How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single???  Because you weren't a working musician?  Dammit! 
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TMPletz said: theAudience said: Because you weren't a working musician? Dammit!
GRAB!!! | |
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dreamfactory313 said: There is a young lady that is crazy about me. She leaves messages for me at my job and talks my ears off trying to get me to ask her out but I am not attracted to her. When someone is interested in you, how do u let them know that u arent interested without hurting their feelings??
the most important thing is that you DO let her know...if you lead her on or don't tell her that's when it can get messy for both of you emotionally  | |
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lillith said: just be honest.
tell her that maybe you are misreading her intentions but that you are not interested in persuing anything romantic at this time. i know i would prefer honesty in her shoes...  I agree w/ being honest but DO NOT say anything like "right now" or "at this time" - the bitch will hold out hope & always think there might be a chance... until she's over you, which she may never be if she thinks she has a shot in the future. I say this b/c I had a friend w/ an insane crush & eventhough I told him I was positive I'd NEVER feel the same about him, he held out hope & had his "we should be together" meltdowns over a span of several YEARS  It fucked w/ our friendship (if we/he ever really had one  ), we ain't friends no mo
Be honest. Tell her she's a cool person & you like her as a friend but that's ALL you 2 will ever be, you're just not interested like that. Which reminds me - why are guys so afraid to have conversations like this? Women have to say this kinda shit all the time. Are men afraid a chick is gonna cry or something? It's so ODD to me. I know it's hard but just suck it up & tell her. The sooner you get it over w/, the better for both of you    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Honesty. As soon as possible. There's enough people suffering in this world !!! | |
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virginie74 said: Honesty. As soon as possible. There's enough people suffering in this world !!!
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Just use the classic lines that women have used for eons...
"I just like you as a friend" or "I don't want to ruin our friendship." They have these lines memorized. I have had bad luck with this as well in the past. Where the girl is interested in me but she's not my type or just not that attractive. But the girl you want to be interested in you, is not. Damn. | |
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charlottegelin said: TMPletz said: Dammit!
GRAB!!! | |
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dreamfactory313 said: There is a young lady that is crazy about me. She leaves messages for me at my job and talks my ears off trying to get me to ask her out but I am not attracted to her. When someone is interested in you, how do u let them know that u arent interested without hurting their feelings??
If there has been no explicit pass, I am polite but distant. If I am asked out and I'm not seeing someone steadily, I say that I'm busy. This is the universal code for "not interested" (if someone is interested and genuinely busy they will suggest an alternate date). If they ask again, I will politely say that I'm just not interested in getting involved in a relationship right now. | |
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She's ugly huh? | |
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CarrieLee said: She's ugly huh?
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CarrieLee said: She's ugly huh?
Lets just say that she isnt my type. | |
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dreamfactory313 said: CarrieLee said: She's ugly huh?
Lets just say that she isnt my type. Ahh...so, she's chubby...  | |
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applekisses said: dreamfactory313 said: Lets just say that she isnt my type. Ahh...so, she's chubby... | |
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dreamfactory313 said: applekisses said: Ahh...so, she's chubby... 
BINGO! What do I win? | |
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dreamfactory313 said: CarrieLee said: She's ugly huh?
Lets just say that she isnt my type. Gotcha. I know it sounds awful, but it is what it is. If you can't be attracted to them then you got nothing! | |
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Exactly. I point that out all the time. And get called shallow. | |
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Spats said: Exactly. I point that out all the time. And get called shallow.
You're not being shallow, just honest. We like what we like - why settle for less? | |
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CarrieLee said: dreamfactory313 said: Lets just say that she isnt my type. Gotcha. I know it sounds awful, but it is what it is. If you can't be attracted to them then you got nothing! exactly... and it's better to be honest about it than lead them on in any way shape or form | |
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