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How do u tell someone that really likes u that u are not interested? There is a young lady that is crazy about me. She leaves messages for me at my job and talks my ears off trying to get me to ask her out but I am not attracted to her. When someone is interested in you, how do u let them know that u arent interested without hurting their feelings?? | |
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I say "Imago, I'm straight.  "
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dreamfactory313 said: There is a young lady that is crazy about me. She leaves messages for me at my job and talks my ears off trying to get me to ask her out but I am not attracted to her. When someone is interested in you, how do u let them know that u arent interested without hurting their feelings??
act like a complete asshole, she'll soon get sick of it and wonder what she saw in you in the first place, though that might not happen until after the wedding and a few kids later  
Seriously, be brave, be a gentleman. trust me, she will thank you for it if you let her know now instead of stringing her along for a few more months. you can't avoid hurting her feelings, but this way, her dignity will remain intact. | |
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charlottegelin said: dreamfactory313 said: There is a young lady that is crazy about me. She leaves messages for me at my job and talks my ears off trying to get me to ask her out but I am not attracted to her. When someone is interested in you, how do u let them know that u arent interested without hurting their feelings??
act like a complete asshole, she'll soon get sick of it and wonder what she saw in you in the first place, though that might not happen until after the wedding and a few kids later
Seriously, be brave, be a gentleman. trust me, she will thank you for it if you let her know now instead of stringing her along for a few more months. you can't avoid hurting her feelings, but this way, her dignity will remain intact. This is great advice. Are u a therapist or something?  | |
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dreamfactory313 said: charlottegelin said: act like a complete asshole, she'll soon get sick of it and wonder what she saw in you in the first place, though that might not happen until after the wedding and a few kids later
Seriously, be brave, be a gentleman. trust me, she will thank you for it if you let her know now instead of stringing her along for a few more months. you can't avoid hurting her feelings, but this way, her dignity will remain intact. This is great advice. Are u a therapist or something? No, but I know how it feels to be THAT girl  | |
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charlottegelin said: dreamfactory313 said: This is great advice. Are u a therapist or something? No, but I know how it feels to be THAT girl 
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charlottegelin said: dreamfactory313 said: This is great advice. Are u a therapist or something? No, but I know how it feels to be THAT girl Ahhhh. 
She's nice and all but there is no chemsitry. Im always a gentleman but this sorta stuff is never easy. | |
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2the9s said: charlottegelin said: No, but I know how it feels to be THAT girl
who is that? 
ninesy why won't you go out with me?  I DO look good on a tractor, I promise!  | |
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charlottegelin said: who is that?
ninesy why won't you go out with me? I DO look good on a tractor, I promise! Stop leaving messages at my office!!  | |
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tell her this is a pic of u naked
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2the9s said: charlottegelin said: who is that?
ninesy why won't you go out with me? I DO look good on a tractor, I promise! Stop leaving messages at my office!! I will start leaving messages at your home then 
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charlottegelin said: 2the9s said: Stop leaving messages at my office!! I will start leaving messages at your home then
Uh oh. Looks like Im not the only one that has a stalker.  | |
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charlottegelin said: 2the9s said: Stop leaving messages at my office!! I will start leaving messages at your home then
When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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origmnd said: tell her this is a pic of u naked
U kidding? I know girls who would be turned on by a dick the size of a petrol pump no matter who owns it | |
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The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat. | |
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dreamfactory313 said: The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat.
cool. i tend to fancy someone who is already taken. And i ain't low enough to try and steal her no matter what prick she may be dating. | |
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dreamfactory313 said: The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat.
(that was YOU!?!) | |
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charlottegelin said: dreamfactory313 said: The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat.
(that was YOU!?!) Yeah!
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dreamfactory313 said: The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat.
How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single???  | |
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TMPletz said: dreamfactory313 said: The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat.
How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single??? why, is it happening a lot now that you're married? | |
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charlottegelin said: TMPletz said: How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single??? why, is it happening a lot now that you're married? Not really...no.  | |
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TMPletz said: dreamfactory313 said: The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat.
How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single??? see, this is one of the perks of being gay. sure, we can't have a legal marriage, but when we go out to the club, the groinage is fair game for the grabbage.  | |
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Anxiety said: TMPletz said: How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single??? see, this is one of the perks of being gay. sure, we can't have a legal marriage, but when we go out to the club, the groinage is fair game for the grabbage. Yezzirrr! | |
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just be honest.
tell her that maybe you are misreading her intentions but that you are not interested in persuing anything romantic at this time. i know i would prefer honesty in her shoes...  you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel 
Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants. | |
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Anxiety said: TMPletz said: How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single??? see, this is one of the perks of being gay. sure, we can't have a legal marriage, but when we go out to the club, the groinage is fair game for the grabbage. it is? Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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just tell her 2 fuck off!!! | |
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YEA! I'd like to know. I have told guys we are just not right ,I am Gay ..Whatever and they still call. See, if they are all Compatiable and all but I don;t use and if they aren't right I'd rather say goodbye. Plus,I see nothing wrong with Affairs. I Love men. I just don't ever want to get Married. SCARY THOUGHT!! | |
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TMPletz said: dreamfactory313 said: The ladies these days are so aggressive. Ive had a girl grab my crotch and feel me up and I felt like a piece of meat.
How come this kind of stuff never happened to ME when I was single??? Because you weren't a working musician? 
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superspaceboy said: Anxiety said: see, this is one of the perks of being gay. sure, we can't have a legal marriage, but when we go out to the club, the groinage is fair game for the grabbage. it is? isn't it? | |
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