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Anderson Cooper is a HOTT grey-haired man. http://www.cnn.com/2005/U...index.html
Going gray By Anderson Cooper Some call it salt-and-pepper; others call it newfound gravitas. But face it -- your hair is going prematurely gray. The good news: Losing color doesn't make you an old man. Just don't wear it like Phil Donahue. Going gray is like ejaculation. You know it can happen prematurely, but when it actually does, it's a total shock. I had brown hair until I was 20. Then the gray began to sprout. Today, 15 years later, it's spread like some mutant melanin virus and now completely envelops my head. I still refuse to admit I'm gray. Salt-and-pepper is about all I'll cop to. Of course, I'm just about out of pepper. We all cling to delusions. This is mine. Leave it alone. Did you know that according to legend, the guy who became Buddha decided to seek enlightenment the day he got a touch of gray? "Gray hairs," the would-be Buddha said, "are like angels sent by the god of death." Translation: Gray is nature's way of whispering "You're dying." I may not like the way my gra... I mean, salt-and-pepper hair looks, but I can't honestly say it's done me any harm. In the TV news business, gray equals gravitas. In fact, in just about any line of work being prematurely gray is an advantage. On a guy, gray hair says, "I'm mature, stable. I can be relied on." Think George W. Bush. Even the Bible promotes the myth. "Gray hair is a crown of glory," one proverb states. "It is gained in a righteous life." Premature gray means you reap the benefits of living the righteous life without having to actually live the righteous life. You get to cut in line. So consider yourself lucky. On the other hand, women don't get a free pass. When was the last time you saw a sexy gray-haired woman in a movie? Rogue and Storm don't count; they're cartoon characters. "It's not fair," says Diane Harris, a media image consultant, "but men see gray on a woman and they think she's old." My friend Cathy went gray in her early thirties. She was attractive and successful, but guys backed away. "Men instantly assumed Birkenstock-wearing, protest-rally-organizing cat lover," Cathy says. "You could see it in their eyes." Needless to say, Cathy's no longer gray. For men, of course, it's a different story. I don't get it, but gray on guys drives a lot of folks wild. Think Bill Clinton. Huge head of gray, not to mention a monster-truck tire around his waist, and he had an intern pizza-delivery service. There are millions of follicle fetishists out there, and at the first hint of tint they find you and ogle your albino tresses like a hot pair of buns. The other thing that happens when you start getting gray: You begin checking out every other gray-haired guy. It's a Darwinian survival response -- the need to check out the competition. This can deteriorate into something of an obsession. For a while, every time I saw Phil Donahue, I had to reassure myself: It's okay. I'm not as gray as he is. Note to Phil: Big white hair was fine for the Snow Miser, but again, cartoons don't count. The most important thing about going gray: Keep it short. Grow it long and all of a sudden you look like a roadie for Peter, Paul & Mary. Not the image you want to go for. You can, of course, dye. Plenty of guys do, but if you ask me, you might as well advertise your desperation. Why not just wear a button that says "I sit in a salon once a month with silver foil in my hair"? You can also try dying your hair at home, but isn't there something sad about habitually locking yourself in the bathroom and doling out dye into your trembling hands like some aging junkie? My advice? Give in to gray. Make the most of it while you're still young. Remember, there will come a time in the not too distant future when you're no longer prematurely gray. People will stop using the word distinguished. By then, you'll have a wattle, baggy eyes and sagging skin, and pretty young things won't even notice your hair. Only other guys will. Bald guys. | |
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No, but my husband is! Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: ![]() | |
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I'm still getting used to the fact that he's gay.
I once read something where they said he looked like a Samoyed. Whaddya think?:
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only human. and HOTT. | |
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My best friend, a tat obsessed with aging, starts getting grey hairs at age 36. Not strange. But he plucks them. Talks about dyeing his hair. I tell him that's very gay.
Funny thing is; he gets grey very distinguished; it's just his temples. Think that guy from The Nanny. It's a very sexy look on my best friend. Aging men should grow up. Really. | |
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i have grey temples - sometimes i dye, sometimes i don't. i've been dying my hair different colors since high school, though. it's just that now, i get accused of trying to hide my grey. it takes some getting used to. when i'm in grey mode, i gotta keep it short or else it looks weird. | |
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I find salt and pepper hair on men to be very, very attractive. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections... unknown | |
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Ace said: I'm still getting used to the fact that he's gay.
I once read something where they said he looked like a Samoyed. Whaddya think?: That might've been me. I've always thought he looks like a husky. | |
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HamsterHuey said: My best friend, a tat obsessed with aging, starts getting grey hairs at age 36. Not strange. But he plucks them. Talks about dyeing his hair. I tell him that's very gay.
Funny thing is; he gets grey very distinguished; it's just his temples. Think that guy from The Nanny. It's a very sexy look on my best friend. Aging men should grow up. Really. Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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GangstaFam said: Ace said: I'm still getting used to the fact that he's gay.
I once read something where they said he looked like a Samoyed. Whaddya think?: That might've been me. I've always thought he looks like a husky. No, I actually read this in a newspaper or magazine article somewhere. | |
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does this make me a beastialitist?!? he's a human, right? human! | |
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i want him to be my Daddy You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis | |
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Anderson Cooper is hot. I happen to love grey hair on men. | |
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Anxiety said: does this make me a beastialitist?!?
he's a human, right? human! WOOF! | |
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oh yeah!!!! Who's with me on this? | |
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Hes very gay. | |
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Imago777 said:
oh yeah!!!! Who's with me on this? | |
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I like him and he's very handsome. | |
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ehuffnsd said: i want him to be my Daddy
no No NO NO! How's about: ![]() Socks still got butt like a leather seat... | |
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If someone has a face that I love, the color of their hair or even whether there is hair or not is a complete non-issue to me. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Anxy, National Coming Out Day was yesterday. | |
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ReturnOfDOOK said: Anxy, National Coming Out Day was yesterday.
i done came out, went back in, had a look around, came out again, then nailed the door shut, painted over it and hung a painting of paul lynde blowing rip taylor where the door used to be. | |
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It wasn't until you pointed him out that I noticed his hotness. Sure, Anderson Cooper is cute and young, but get a grip, CNN Tim Goodman Wednesday, October 12, 2005 The Anderson Cooper cult of personality must end. That may be difficult, given that he's the Poster Boy Anchor and Future of Broadcast Journalism, so perhaps merely containing him would be a start. This much is certain: CNN, looking to exploit the post-Katrina face of caring, personal, passionate, youthful, hip, modern and really good looking journalism, has now further marginalized Aaron Brown and nearly ruined Brown's show, "News-Night," by throwing Cooper into the mix. This isn't really Cooper's fault. Even before he turned Katrina coverage into his own personal mission, he was quickly becoming the It anchor. Speaking truth to power and, at times, crying in the face of heartbreaking human suffering only endeared him to viewers and sped his arrival. But foisting him upon Brown and "NewsNight" is yet another in a long line of terrible CNN decisions. Worse, it appears that Cooper hasn't exactly tamped down the rising tide of Anderson mania at CNN and, in the moments he's paired with Brown, it all seems a bit me-centric. It's also cringe worthy, an upper-management tactic that has lessened "NewsNight" even more from the first ill-advised rejiggering of content, when it took Brown's folksy-if-eccentric take on the news of the day and turned it into a kind of hybrid magazine show. Now it's something else entirely, and it's clear that something is a work in progress. Result so far: It's not working. When Cooper began guesting recently on "NewsNight," it made sense. Katrina was still the major story of the day, and Cooper, as noted above, was CNN's emblematic, relatable, demo-friendly representative. He had also done fine work there. It should be noted that just as one should not cling to the supposed glory of the old school, it's justifiable and necessary to embrace the new. Cooper is a new kind of New Journalism. Some of the hype is making him out to be Walter Cronkite 2.0. And Cooper wears modernity very well. It's just that now he's on a show where he doesn't belong and, fresh from the flood waters of his own good ink, is perhaps being a bit more Anderson than need be. Last Friday was really the nadir in this experiment. Cooper -- who, by the way, has his own nightly show on CNN called "Anderson Cooper 360" -- has apparently taken up permanent residence on "News-Night." He appears to be the co-anchor. And in what was hopefully an experiment since tossed in the bin (Monday's "NewsNight" was less gimmicky, though not by much), CNN added all kinds of cute and unnecessary elements to the "News-Night" program, significantly reducing the accuracy of the show's title. There was lots of standing. News producers believe standing is fresh and new. It trends young. There was lots of forced mingling between Brown and Cooper, which may have been meant to show chemistry, but instead showed Cooper's suits are more fitted and a tad more stylish than Brown's. (Brown, it should be noted, has at least on camera played this about as professionally as anyone could expect. He has yet to have that look that asks -- with a cynically raised eye that regular viewers know Brown to possess -- "Who is this interloper, and why is he on my show?") Friday's show had a pointless and inappropriate poll about what was the most popular story on CNN.com -- sell the brand! -- and a story about Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes. A story on meth labs followed that concluded with Cooper saying, "I have a number of friends, actually, who've started using it and their lives have been ruined." How very boho of you, Anderson. At that point in the broadcast, even people half asleep must have noticed Cooper's most annoying trait: his relentless use of the first person. Never mind whether it's wise to admit that your friends are meth heads. But must there be so much me in your media? This point was driven home, painfully, when Cooper introduced a segment (since banished to hell, one hopes), called "Awkward T.V. Moments," complete with a silly television graphic. The news (loud cough) was that sometimes things go sideways when you're on the air. Gratuitous shots of Cooper doing his job proved this. Those images of him -- sell the cult, sell the cult! -- were preceded by this sentence: "You may have seen me out in Times Square last night." Wait, what happened to the people in New Orleans? Anyway, "Awkward T.V. Moments" -- now there's an apt title -- concluded with Cooper showing how, um, he turned his back to the camera to fiddle with his ever- present laptop computer. "I decided at the last second that I just had to have my laptop. Smooth move, Columbo." Yeah, well, aside from the fact that this proves no editors are actually employed on "NewsNight," it was a perfect moment to check out Cooper's backside. Nice, that. Maybe the ratings spiked. If that's a cheap shot, this one isn't: Cooper apparently learned nothing from his incessant need to toy with the laptop. Because he does it all the time now. Opening it, shutting it, typing on it. Is he instant messaging Death Cab for Cutie? Reading Achenblog? If you haven't been hit with the Steinbeck-size hammer on this one yet, folks, here's the hidden metaphor: Anderson Cooper is wired. He's tech savvy. Which means he's young (premature gray notwithstanding -- and, by the way, that only makes him look authoritative in his handsomeness) and connected, a Wi-Fi news guy. Conversely, the message on the new "NewsNight" says that Brown is, if not old, then old school. He doesn't have a laptop. He has a coffee cup. He can be seen sipping from it as they go to a break, while Cooper, often standing, is surfing the Web. Whether he knows it or not, Brown has been routinely self-deprecating about his own age. And why shouldn't he be? This pairing is uncomfortable. Brown is allied closer to the Icon Anchor era of Dan Rather, Tom Brokaw and the late Peter Jennings. As they have left our living rooms, Brown -- mysteriously underused by CNN -- has been the next closest link. Cooper has links to Channel One, news geared for junior high and high school classrooms; reality show "The Mole"; then a string of far-flung news jobs at ABC that have strengthened his career. This is no knock on Cooper. He has worked hard and successfully at becoming a seasoned reporter and anchor. But hey, does Brown have any links to "Rock the Vote"? This is just to say these two are from different planets, journalistically, and you can argue all night about who has more gravitas. The fact is, Cooper already has his show. He should stay on it. Because when Cooper says, as he did Monday on "News Night," that he's got "a quick download for you," it's painfully clear that CNN thinks saying "update" is sooooo Edward R. Murrow. Here's hoping CNN downloads some sense and does a 180 on the idea of sharing "NewsNight." Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Gloria Vanderbilts son, looks like Bill Marr | |
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Oh and ever since you pointed him out...I have a new fondness for cute gray haired guys. There is this one here we just hired as a Marketing Manager...so hawt! Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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Anxiety said: ReturnOfDOOK said: Anxy, National Coming Out Day was yesterday.
i done came out, went back in, had a look around, came out again, then nailed the door shut, painted over it and hung a painting of paul rementer blowing rip taylor where the door used to be. | |
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ReturnOfDOOK said: Anxiety said: i done came out, went back in, had a look around, came out again, then nailed the door shut, painted over it and hung a painting of paul rementer blowing rip taylor where the door used to be. | |
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GangstaFam said: Ace said: I'm still getting used to the fact that he's gay.
I once read something where they said he looked like a Samoyed. Whaddya think?: That might've been me. I've always thought he looks like a husky. Has this guy come out yet? Christian Zombie Vampires | |
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