Ask him out. Don't be like the majority of other women in the world and have no guts or who read to many romance novels and want the man to chase them. Rise above that. Ask him out. Guys love that!!!!! I am amazed women cannot get this through their heads. Most of the guys in the world will not turn a woman down for a date. Unless the guy is gay or if she is nasty looking. But other than that it's as close to a sure thing that there is.

JasmineFire said:

Show him your boobs he will get the hint

It's a way bigger risk for a guy to ask a girl out. The odds are against him unless he knows ahead of time that she is interested. The odds are the other way around when it's the girl asking.

Some people can't just ask someone else when they R too much in love.

The girl says : he must call me, the boy thinks the same and the world goes on. It's easy to ask when the issue is simple and fast.

Or if I'd like the guys to become one of my friends (it happens often).

If you feel it's a real frienship or relationship that can start, you'll feel more comfortable by simply asking ? Whatya think ?

Spats said:

Ugh, you never cease to amaze me with your moronic responses!

Ask him out, be nonchalant about it. Just say something like "Hey we should grab a bite after work some night!" Or you can do what my mom did, she made a bet with a guy she knew she would lose. She said the loser takes the winner to dinner...they've been together for 7 years now

AND I also made the first move with my current boyfriend. If it wasn't for me arranging to meet up it would have never happened. He told me I made him nervous! And now we're soon to be celebrating our one year anniversary!

Just do it! You have nothing to lose!

CarrieLee said:

2the9s said:

Shut it fucktard!

I'm a tough broad, you'll see!!


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CarrieLee said:

that's true. i do have nothing to lose...
we spoke again today but there was this other girl who was butting on on our conversation. i hate that. grr.

Sorry to be a real party pooper, but in my experience, guys will agree to go out with you, because they don't want to hurt your feelings by saying no thanks, even if they aren't that interested.

It's not moronic. It's true. Guys asking girls out is usually a big risk. And a much bigger risk than the girl asking a guy out. I don't think women know how to show a guy properly that they are interested. Being nice is not enough. Because that could eaily mean she only see's him as a friend. Women have to be more upfront about it.Then the risk would be lowered for men.

Jess, does this guy look like me too?

charlottegelin said:

If I hadn't pursued my boyfriend and asked him out on MULTIPLE dates... then we would have never gotten together! I am always the aggressor in my relationships.

Jasmine, go for it. What do you have to lose? Just do it nonchalantly. Don't scare the crap out of him

Spats said:

who are you?!

Natsume said:

Christopher said:

ohmygod I totally hate you!

Natsume said:

dont they have sex after that knife business? she was making pasta i think.

Christopher said:

I like your signature. Heathers is my favorite movie after Kazaam, Sidekicks, the Three Ninjas series, Mortal Kombat, and Twinsitters starring the Barbarian Brothers.

HobbesLeCute said:

what your fav heathers quote?

the barbarian brothers! oh shit werent they in super mario bros to?

Christopher said:

I like it when she says "I gotta motor if I want to make it to that funeral on time." If someone asks me where I'm going when I leave the house, that's usually what I say.

I don't think the Barbarian Bros. were in the Super Mario movie, although that certainly would've made a good film great.

HobbesLeCute said:

thats a good one. i like "fuck me gently with a chainsaw". i read that heather the main heather dead in 2001





oh a lighter note the barbarian brothers vs. bill and ted would be a great film

Christopher said:

I also like "Did you eat a brain tumor for breakfast?" It's a disgusting mental image.

I didn't know that actress died, I thought she was in one of the bonus features on the DVD, but I could've been wrong (Or they were filmed before she died). That's too bad, though.

My dream movie: Barbarian Bros. VS. Mr. Nanny.

HobbesLeCute said:

i think that was old stuff she was on? i dunno

id like to see mr.nanny vs. fred savage vs.

bkw said: