gets the paychecks every payday, gives the hubby $100 puts the needed money in the bank, but then spends the extra, well over the amount that the hubby gets.

If that's what they have worked out, great for them.

Head, til your burnin up, Head...

well do the husband got a job?

CarrieMpls said:

he has no idea the amount of her check and i dont think he has a clue about what she does.

heyduckie said:

As long as they are both contributing and both enjoying what they want then no worries

SammiJ said:

yes, he signs his check and she gives him an allowance

mdiver said:

im not sure he knows that she spends 5times what he does....

heyduckie said:

Its not about amount its about being fulfilled, if they are both happy and getting what they want its fine

heyduckie said:

Is he getting lots of blow jobs?

mdiver said:

nope

heyduckie said:

Tell him to get out then

mdiver said:

if i had that set up id be more than willing to give a couple here and there

heyduckie said:

Let me get this straight...

He hands over HIS paycheck and gets a $100.00 allowance from it, the rest is hers to blow once the bills have been paid?

If that's the case and he has no freakin clue as to how much of it goes to line her pockets than I say he's lucky to have her!!!
A man that stupid:
A) probably doesn't make a great salary anyways
B) would be conned out of it by replying to a spam email to help someone get his family fortune out of Nigeria
C) would have his ride repo'd for forgetting to make his payments

Yes - He's a lucky man indeed to have a good woman like that managing his money.
I think she deserves a raise!!

If he's on an allowance and she is not, hell no.

heyduckie said:

He gets $100??? I wish I got that much.

Oh, then there's the issue that we don't have anything extra after the bills. In fact, we're digging ourselves into a hole. I need to win the fucking lottery.

This is the way that family finance is handled in Japan.

Wait, let me get this straight. They both have jobs. The husband gives his paycheck to the wife. She gives him $100 out of it and she keeps the rest to spend on shit. And he doesn't know. yes?

and how does he NOT know how much she makes or what she does? (or are we talking job-wise and not what she does with the extra cash? )

sounds like there are other problems in the marriage besides this potential one.

I would drag her, tied by the feet, across town behind my truck. Yeeeehaaaaaw!!

I'm just glad that my wife doesn't know how much I spend at the races. I do all our finaces.

bkw said:

bkw said:

does she know about your million dollar debt?

Sounds unfair to me.

My wife and I don't have allowances, but then we don't have money either.

Fauxie said:

makes it simple!

she should buy a jar to keep his balls in.

notoriousj said:

charlottegelin said:

she signed the papers.

(p.s If I sold my assetts to pay off the debt we'd be miles in fron though).