this is the continuing adventure that is my love life http://www.prince.org/msg/100/162940

well she text me last night then she phoned me this morning, (i was very groggy, on sleeping tablets just now), and she said that she was sorry for calling me a bunnyboiler and it is just not the right time to have a relationship just now(which i agreed with) and that we should keep on touch on a casual basis until both of us are sorted out.....i feel happy again

I am so happy for you!
Just be friendly and respectful to one another. If the love is there, it won't go away. So put your trust in the bond you share, and let time heal the wounds. You'll be just fine.

thanks....

Wow, what an emotional roller-coaster. I'm going back to my first advice-you better give it lots of time. If it's really love then you've got the time to make this right.I'm really happy for you.

But do you have her adress to sell her flowers ?

I'm telling you, don't pursue her. Keep your damn dignity. Never lose dignity over a woman. Don't play the game.

get off the sleeping tablets honey,they won't help you at all, a shot of tequila does the trick just as good.
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blackbob said:

Waoooow !!! Are you okay ?

virginie74 said:

not really but she has been about as cruel as you can get to someone when you open you heart and feelings to someone who tells you that they love you then call you a bunnyboiler and youve to 'move on' the next week!!!..it isnt as if i cheated on her!!...but thats life
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Maybe she can't figure out your pain. I feel sorry for you.

she'll be calling you for dick, don't worry, it's not too much longer now....

missfee said:

sorry what do you mean?

blackbob said:

Der bootycall.

blackbob said:

well maybe i was a tad too blunt. When a girl says that "we should keep it casual" usually means you are not what she wants. Keeping you on the side for her personal enjoyment is probably what she will be doing...you know calling you when she's bored, or if another guy has done her wrong. And in extreme cases to satisfy her sexual tension (if any exists). It will all be on her time not yours...she has the ball in her court right now.

Unless you are planning on being her boy toy, i'd say run to the nearest exit, do not stop, do not pass go.
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Bob mate, by the sounds of her she has more baggage than is worth taking on. You're well shot of her.

no one of you KNOW this girl, and this boy either ! You'd better read in cards !

sermwanderer said:

i know that now but love is blind....its over for good now, time to move on

blackbob said:

true, it is indeed. we all live and learn though

virginie74 said:

well he's the one asking for advice sister, maybe it is you who should read the thread first.

missfee said:

I concur with Missfee.

If it would be me, i would run to him. But it's not me, so i'm waiting for my real love to come and pick me up.

A love like that must not wait.

But once again, it's only what I feel...

littlemissG said:

ahh but of course. us women know these things, kind of like when we don't understand why guys act so dumb, then we ask other guys what it means...then usually women figure it out anywayz because we are the smarter sex