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Turn-ons/turn-offs What are your turn-ons and turn-offs in the opposite sex (or same sex, for our gay orgers)? | |
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here we go: turnoffs
super neat guys naggers crybabys sloppy drunk too eager guys that shape there eyebrows and guys that bite their fingernails down 
turnons patience really rough guys or blue collar workers makes me laugh accepts some of my grossness like if my stomach hurts i should be able to fart if i want to. extremely sexy respects me a nice ass a person who likes to talk about things with substance smelling good soft lips | |
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Turn-ons:
Mature Good sense of humor Can laugh about himself Even-tempered Sane Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants) Isn't dramatic and hysterical Bravery Tenderness Turn-offs: Macho bullshit (I'm a man, that's why!) 
Cowardice Drunken belligerence Immaturity Control freaks Cheaters Liars Losers Momma's boys Anal Retentives Psychotics Woman haters Irrational Dependents Gee, I could go on and on, but I wouldn't want to bore you. | |
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I'm bi but my turn-ons and offs are the same for both sexes
Turn on Intelligence, first and foremost Nice hands Scent A wicked sense of humor People into Prince People who love kids Musicians Turn off Arrogance dirt under fingernails | |
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Stymie said: I'm bi but my turn-ons and offs are the same for both sexes
Turn on Intelligence, first and foremost - check Nice hands - check Scent - check (Eternity today) A wicked sense of humor - check People into Prince - check People who love kids - check Musicians - triple check Turn off Arrogance dirt under fingernails I had better watch out the next time you're in the D  | |
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Turn-ons
Humour Courage Nice Eyes - especially long lashes like Mr Snuffleupaguss Natural smell Self-assurance Independence Turn-offs Stupidity Recklessness Hairy nostrils - it's the worst Over-powering scents, especially soapy-smelling aftershaves Disrespect of elders, animals and children Hair-gel Trimmed facial hair Fashion victims Dirty nails Mistrust Money or career-obsessed | |
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 I don't know if I have the energy to sort them out... | |
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gemini13 said: Turn-ons:
Mature Good sense of humor Can laugh about himself Even-tempered Sane Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants) Isn't dramatic and hysterical Bravery Tenderness Turn-offs: Macho bullshit (I'm a man, that's why!)
Cowardice Drunken belligerence Immaturity Control freaks Cheaters Liars Losers Momma's boys Anal Retentives Psychotics Woman haters Irrational Dependents Gee, I could go on and on, but I wouldn't want to bore you. Hey babe, apart from the immaturity.....I'm your man!  | |
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brownsugar said: here we go: turnoffs
super neat guys naggers crybabys sloppy drunk too eager guys that shape there eyebrows and guys that bite their fingernails down
turnons patience really rough guys or blue collar workers makes me laugh accepts some of my grossness like if my stomach hurts i should be able to fart if i want to. extremely sexy respects me a nice ass a person who likes to talk about things with substance smelling good soft lips oh good grief let me add some more: turnoffs disrespect for women vain-get outta the fuckin' mirror! posers-of any kind okay i'm done. [Edited 10/7/05 10:31am] | |
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brownsugar said: brownsugar said: here we go: turnoffs
super neat guys naggers crybabys sloppy drunk too eager guys that shape there eyebrows and guys that bite their fingernails down
turnons patience really rough guys or blue collar workers makes me laugh accepts some of my grossness like if my stomach hurts i should be able to fart if i want to. extremely sexy respects me a nice ass a person who likes to talk about things with substance smelling good soft lips oh good grief let me add some more: turnoffs vain-get outta the fuckin' mirror! I think we got the message after your first post.
Is it okay if I take a shower once a day?  [Edited 10/7/05 10:32am] | |
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Turn ons -
Integrity A good person A funny person (a good laugher is a bonus) Sarcastic A person who cares about others more than themselves. A Great Body with the above mentioned Turn Offs - Selfish Pretentious (selfish's second cousin) Material possesions obsessed (clothes, cars, jewelry) Plastic (in looks or otherwise) High Maintenance Women (too busy to deal with that shit) Bossy (do not ever tell me what to do) Lack of integrity (walk the talk or go fuck yourself) | |
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Slave2daGroove said: Stymie said: I'm bi but my turn-ons and offs are the same for both sexes
Turn on Intelligence, first and foremost - check Nice hands - check Scent - check (Eternity today) A wicked sense of humor - check People into Prince - check People who love kids - check Musicians - triple check Turn off Arrogance dirt under fingernails I had better watch out the next time you're in the D | |
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gemini13 said: Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)
Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute? . | |
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retina said: gemini13 said: Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)
Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute? . sorry dude, fancy McDonald's in Sweden won't do the trick.....
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Turn-ons:
Intelligence/Depth/Independent thought Style Self Confidence/Comfortability with self Wit Versatility/wide range of interests Artistic expression Natural beauty(or some semblence of) Eyes Smile Legs Scent Music appreciators Live and let live attitude Turn-offs: Thinking in absolutes Lack of Creativity The inability to think outside the box No Style Shallow See art as disposable Go thru life never truly understanding anything Bad taste in shoes, and film
Excess Hair
A person that will not grow with me Mistaking morality for being judgemental [Edited 10/7/05 10:37am] | |
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DorothyParkerWasCool said: Turn-ons:
I love your list DPWC. Intelligence/Depth/Independent thought Style Self Confidence/Comfortability with self Wit Versatility/wide range of interests Artistic expression Natural beauty(or some semblence of) Eyes Smile Legs Scent Music appreciators Live and let live attitude Turn-offs: Thinking in absolutes Lack of Creativity The inability to think outside the box No Style Shallow See art as disposable Go thru life never truly understanding anything Bad taste in shoes, and film
Excess Hair
A person that will not grow with me Mistaking morality for being judgemental [Edited 10/7/05 10:37am]  | |
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Stymie said: I love your list DPWC.
Thanx, yours is on point as well. Reading thru these lists gives one hope and lord know sometimes I need it.. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: Turn ons -
Integrity A good person A funny person (a good laugher is a bonus) Sarcastic A person who cares about others more than themselves. A Great Body with the above mentioned Turn Offs - Selfish Pretentious (selfish's second cousin) Material possesions obsessed (clothes, cars, jewelry) Plastic (in looks or otherwise) High Maintenance Women (too busy to deal with that shit) Bossy (do not ever tell me what to do) Lack of integrity (walk the talk or go fuck yourself) 
I' ve got a great set of tits, does that count? | |
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retina said: gemini13 said: Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)
Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute? . Not if he wants pussy.  | |
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DorothyParkerWasCool said: Stymie said: I love your list DPWC.
Thanx, yours is on point as well. Reading thru these lists gives one hope and lord know sometimes I need it..  | |
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Ok...here we go...
Turn ons: Intelligence Quirky sense of humor Great taste in art/movies/music Self-assurance Integrity (say what you mean; mean what you say) Sensitivity Cares about others as much as himself Generous Responsible Willing to help others Creativity Good smelling Great style Tattoos Nice smile Respectful Non-judgemental Loves kids and animals Willing to take the lead Turn offs: Lack of integrity Selfishness Insensitivity Shallowness Hypocrisy Closed-mindedness Uncleanliness Self-righteousness Undirected anger Irresponsibility No direction | |
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TURN-ONS
eyes and the ability to use them nice forearms clothes that fit his personality just a lil' bit of stubble sense of humor healthy sense of irony/skepticism good conversationalist open mindedness (KEY) good record collection (or at least a love of music) and okay, i won't lie - THE ASS.
TURN-OFFS too much cologne stank breath xenophobic attitude tendency to call lots of things "weird" in a judgmental way (HATE that) label whores guys who believe conversation only has one side: theirs cell phone-a-holics ***INSECURITY*** guys who don't groom themselves - i'm not talking manscaping here - just the basics...swab those ears, clip that nose hair, CUT THOSE NAILS, trim those sideburns a bit, maybe get that hair trimmed and neatened up a bit. basic maintenance. | |
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Okay, when I hear the words "turn-ons" and "turn-offs" it makes me think from a sexual perspective, so this is not necessarily what I'm looking for in a woman regarding a long-term relationship. It's just what "gets me going":
Turn-ons Feminine looks Feminine mannerisms Feminine clothes Intelligence Self-confidence Spontaneity Passion Maturity Openness to trying new things in bed Soft skin Nice scent Turn-offs Radical feminism Stupidity Laziness Loud-mouths Body hair Butch style Exaggerated pickiness Passiveness Too much make-up Masculine features | |
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abierman said: retina said:
Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute? . sorry dude, fancy McDonald's in Sweden won't do the trick.....
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[Edited 10/7/05 10:36am] Oh, of course not. What do you take me for? I bring all my dates to Burger King. | |
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retina said: abierman said: sorry dude, fancy McDonald's in Sweden won't do the trick.....
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[Edited 10/7/05 10:36am] Oh, of course not. What do you take me for? I bring all my dates to Burger King. try McDonald's.....it might work! and don't be too  (damn those McFlurries!!!!) | |
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Turn-ons:
Female Breathing Nice legs Drinks Coke Turn-offs: Male Dead No legs Drinks Pepsi | |
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Byron said: Turn-ons:
Female Breathing Nice legs Drinks Coke Turn-offs: Male Dead No legs Drinks Pepsi  Oh lawd, told you once, not telling you again! | |
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turn ons:
me turn offs: 2the9s Space for sale... | |
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sosgemini said: turn ons:
me turn offs: 2the9s that ain't what he told me.... 
my list: ons: intelligence sense of humor geekiness (in the areas of art & music are an absolute plus) a sense of individuality offs: low self-esteem snottiness bad hygiene ignorance i know i've got more for both lists but i gotta think about it...kinna hard, since i've never dated to begin with. | |
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sosgemini said: turn ons:
me turn offs: 2the9s Oh please, motherfucker! Please!! | |
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