oh lord, the list is endless.

workin' on it...

retina said:

thats fine, i don't want you smelly. just don't crazy over a spec of dirt

2the9s said:

you know you love it when i call you big papa.

applekisses said:

That's a turn on for me!

on

personal style
taste in music/movies
voice (I don't know how to explain it, but a certain voice or way of speaking will do it for me every time. I can be quite aurally focused.)
natural scent (yum)
makes me laugh
makes me blush (in a good way)
wit
intelligence
dark hair and eyes
looks good in a fitted (not tight) t shirt

off

sports obsessed
too muscle-y
lack of hygeine
obnoxious behavior
close-mindedness
being overly religious

CarrieMpls said:

I have a high whiney voice!

althom said:

Turns me on:
confidence
physical fitness
depth of knowledge
good sense of humor
long eyelashes
brown skinned folks
well manicured feet and hands
impeccable fashion sense
discipline
sharp wit

Turn offs
smokers
drug abusers
sloppiness
rudeness, inability to respect others
tardiness
any abuse of their own bodies or souls
overdressing (wearing too much jewelry or too many named brands)
dirt under fingernails
ran over shoes/ dirty shoes
religious nutcases
Republicans
boring ass folks
[Edited 10/7/05 15:59pm]

On:
Beauty

Off:
Ugliness

althom said:

Lazy is the new hotness...

althom said:

ON....

1. first on my list - a good smelling man
2. i like a man with a great sense of humor
3. good teeth - its a must !
4. hair, i like hair .... LOTS of it
5. a deep sexy voice
6. did i mention a great smelling man ?????
7. good, strong hands
8. nice, big shoulders
9. good looking eyes
10. a good dancer
11. someone who is passionate
12. a man thats good with kids
13. a man that can sing
14. charm
15. sex appeal - FOR SURE !




OFF....

1. funky smelling
2. fucked up teeth
3. stuck up men
4. 'mean' people
5. drunks who get loud and rude

no chewing food with mouth open

Turn on's...

Beautiful women
Feminine Women
Women who make the first move.
Women who are in shape. I like women with hour glass figures. Not women who are shaped like a pear.
Good sized breasts. Not huge and not small. Just right.
Women with full lips.
Women who wear their hair in a ponytail.
Women with long hair
Blondes

Turn offs...

Plain Jane Women and nasty looking women
Women with big noses
Women with thin lips
Women who wear glasses. Get contacts.
Flat chested women.
Women with short hair.
Women with bad table manners
Women who talk to much
Women who play games (90%?)
Women who wear to much jewelry
Women with a lot of baggage.
Women who have been around the block and who have gone Downtown.

bluesbaby said:

oh my god i forgot that one


#1 SMACKING FOOD !!!!! you know, that horrible noise that some people make when they eat ????? i have literally got up and walked out on a date because he was making me sick to my stomach

Turn Ons:

* Strength (Physical, Mental,Spiritual, Intellectual)

* Articulation/Intelligence

* Raw Masculinity (like Tarzan or The Rock ) and very protective of me.

* Independent Thinker/Non-conformist

* Very unique and Individualistic

* Respectful

* Intense about Life


Turn Offs:

* Too wimpy or wishy-washy

* Closed off emotionally

* Men who use vernacular/ teen jargon
...like "get my (insert verb-turned-noun here) on" as in get my sleep on, get my drink on, get my dance on." I never will forget when I was in the mall with a guy I adored about five years ago and we passed a lingerie shop and he saw a bustier he wanted me to get. He said "You'd look like the bomb in that." Excuse me? The bomb. How old are you? I like sophisticated men. He could have just say you'd look amazing or hot. Adults should not use vernacular. On the Internet it's fine, but in real life-- HATE IT

* Doesn't know how to be strong and commanding ... and thus can't fit into my POWER couple ideal.

* Dumb.
(I swear one man referred to women as having sperm. I stared at him for a long time silently... in the way that Nick stared at Jessica when she said "i know it's tuna but it says chicken ...chicken of the sea."

I literally could not believe my ears. I mean I knew he wasn't brilliant, but he was strong and sexy and worshipful of me. But sperm? Dude, women don't have sperm. You're fired. and tired...


* Men I have tell how to please me in bed.
If I have to say deeper or harder then that's our last night together. Do some field research before you get to me. I don't want to teach a little boy. The worst is a big masculine man who is a p---y in bed. I hate that shit. It's false advertising. If I want you to be all gentle and concerned about hurting me, I'd date a woman.

retina said:

Not if he's too lazy to follow through. Money makes the world go round.

Women love men who are financially well off or have power. Women claim they want equality but they really want and get turned on by men who are more powerful than them. It's no less shallow than guys who want great looks in a woman.

gemini13 said:

Your world maybe...

I know lots of people who are very ambitious and know exactly what they want, but still don't earn any significant amounts of money. I know those types of men aren't as much appreciated by most women as those who just happen to earn/have money for whatever reason though. To each their own.

Spats said:

You really are an idiot

retina said:

I never said that you have to make a lot of money, but there are a lot of men in today's world that aren't even concerned about making ANY money. They'd rather live at home with their parents and basically be slackers. YUCK!! I'm sad that a lot of men today aren't interested in being strong or responsible anymore.

gemini13 said:

So strong + responsible = ambition to earn money? I just don't agree with that. Just because you don't prioritize money in life doesn't mean you want to live with your parents and be a slacker. You're getting these things totally mixed up.

retina said:

No, but for christ's sake, at least have a job. And by they way, you don't have to agree with me, but I live in an area where you have to be earning a fair amount of money to survive. I've seen so many men lately who just don't care about their future. Do you own your own home? Do you rent? Do you buy food for yourself? Do you drive a car with insurance? Do you have health benefits? Do you have a retirement account? All of these things have one thing in common.

Another turnoff is women who call me an idiot. (Without backup as to why as well) You must have some of those qualities that I listed in the turnoff section or else you would not have said that.

Another turnoff is women who believe in gender roles. "men are supposed to do this and women do this". What happened to the equality that women wanted??

Spats said:

I read your posts ,you post crap.I think you hate women.

gemini13 said:

People that don't care about their future is one thing. I don't care much for them either. And I agree that you should try your hardest to provide for yourself (and others if needed). But I don't think the ambition to earn money beyond what covers your basic expenses is something that should be praised as much as it does get praised in this society. A lot of people basically have a "the more money you have, the more successful you are" attitude and that's not only shallow, it's ridiculous. Each of us chooses what to prioritize in life, and to prioritize for example art over money is as valid and honorable as anything else.

retina said:

I never said you had to be wealthy...but I've seen SO many men nowadays that just don't have a work ethic. My boyfriend is sitting next to me saying that I sound negative and bitter.

So anyways.....

HAHAHAHAHA I don't have anything else to say.

I am turned off when people judge me and my love for small boys. That's ignoraaant.
I am turned on by small boys.

mrjefferson said:

You're being ignorant!

GangstaFam said:

What's wrong with sharin your bed?