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Thread started 10/07/05 9:43am

Ace

Turn-ons/turn-offs

What are your turn-ons and turn-offs in the opposite sex (or same sex, for our gay orgers)?
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Reply #1 posted 10/07/05 10:03am

brownsugar

here we go: turnoffs
super neat guys
naggers
crybabys
sloppy drunk
too eager
guys that shape there eyebrows
and guys that bite their fingernails down barf

turnons
patience
really rough guys or blue collar workers
makes me laugh
accepts some of my grossness like if my stomach hurts i should be able to fart if i want to.
extremely sexy
respects me
a nice ass
a person who likes to talk about things with substance
smelling good
soft lips
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Reply #2 posted 10/07/05 10:15am

gemini13

Turn-ons:

Mature
Good sense of humor
Can laugh about himself
Even-tempered
Sane
Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)
Isn't dramatic and hysterical
Bravery
Tenderness


Turn-offs:

Macho bullshit (I'm a man, that's why!) confused
Cowardice
Drunken belligerence
Immaturity
Control freaks
Cheaters
Liars
Losers
Momma's boys
Anal Retentives
Psychotics
Woman haters
Irrational
Dependents


Gee, I could go on and on, but I wouldn't want to bore you.
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Reply #3 posted 10/07/05 10:18am

Stymie

I'm bi but my turn-ons and offs are the same for both sexes


Turn on

Intelligence, first and foremost
Nice hands
Scent
A wicked sense of humor
People into Prince
People who love kids
Musicians

Turn off

Arrogance
dirt under fingernails
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Reply #4 posted 10/07/05 10:24am

Slave2daGroove

Stymie said:

I'm bi but my turn-ons and offs are the same for both sexes


Turn on

Intelligence, first and foremost - check
Nice hands - check
Scent - check (Eternity today)
A wicked sense of humor - check
People into Prince - check
People who love kids - check
Musicians - triple check

Turn off

Arrogance
dirt under fingernails


I had better watch out the next time you're in the D lol
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Reply #5 posted 10/07/05 10:26am

BinaryJustin

Turn-ons

Humour
Courage
Nice Eyes - especially long lashes like Mr Snuffleupaguss
Natural smell
Self-assurance
Independence

Turn-offs

Stupidity
Recklessness
Hairy nostrils - it's the worst
Over-powering scents, especially soapy-smelling aftershaves
Disrespect of elders, animals and children
Hair-gel
Trimmed facial hair
Fashion victims
Dirty nails
Mistrust
Money or career-obsessed
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Reply #6 posted 10/07/05 10:27am

applekisses

hmmm I don't know if I have the energy to sort them out...
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Reply #7 posted 10/07/05 10:28am

abierman

gemini13 said:

Turn-ons:

Mature
Good sense of humor
Can laugh about himself
Even-tempered
Sane
Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)
Isn't dramatic and hysterical
Bravery
Tenderness


Turn-offs:

Macho bullshit (I'm a man, that's why!) confused
Cowardice
Drunken belligerence
Immaturity
Control freaks
Cheaters
Liars
Losers
Momma's boys
Anal Retentives
Psychotics
Woman haters
Irrational
Dependents


Gee, I could go on and on, but I wouldn't want to bore you.



Hey babe, apart from the immaturity.....I'm your man! call
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Reply #8 posted 10/07/05 10:28am

brownsugar

brownsugar said:

here we go: turnoffs
super neat guys
naggers
crybabys
sloppy drunk
too eager
guys that shape there eyebrows
and guys that bite their fingernails down barf

turnons
patience
really rough guys or blue collar workers
makes me laugh
accepts some of my grossness like if my stomach hurts i should be able to fart if i want to.
extremely sexy
respects me
a nice ass
a person who likes to talk about things with substance
smelling good
soft lips

oh good grief let me add some more:
turnoffs
disrespect for women
vain-get outta the fuckin' mirror!
posers-of any kind
okay i'm done.
[Edited 10/7/05 10:31am]
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Reply #9 posted 10/07/05 10:31am

retina

brownsugar said:

brownsugar said:

here we go: turnoffs
super neat guys
naggers
crybabys
sloppy drunk
too eager
guys that shape there eyebrows
and guys that bite their fingernails down barf

turnons
patience
really rough guys or blue collar workers
makes me laugh
accepts some of my grossness like if my stomach hurts i should be able to fart if i want to.
extremely sexy
respects me
a nice ass
a person who likes to talk about things with substance
smelling good
soft lips

oh good grief let me add some more:
turnoffs
vain-get outta the fuckin' mirror!


I think we got the message after your first post. lol

Is it okay if I take a shower once a day? confused razz
[Edited 10/7/05 10:32am]
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Reply #10 posted 10/07/05 10:32am

Slave2daGroove

Turn ons -

Integrity
A good person
A funny person (a good laugher is a bonus)
Sarcastic
A person who cares about others more than themselves.
A Great Body with the above mentioned

Turn Offs -

Selfish
Pretentious (selfish's second cousin)
Material possesions obsessed (clothes, cars, jewelry)
Plastic (in looks or otherwise)
High Maintenance Women (too busy to deal with that shit)
Bossy (do not ever tell me what to do)
Lack of integrity (walk the talk or go fuck yourself)
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Reply #11 posted 10/07/05 10:34am

Stymie

Slave2daGroove said:

Stymie said:

I'm bi but my turn-ons and offs are the same for both sexes


Turn on

Intelligence, first and foremost - check
Nice hands - check
Scent - check (Eternity today)
A wicked sense of humor - check
People into Prince - check
People who love kids - check
Musicians - triple check

Turn off

Arrogance
dirt under fingernails


I had better watch out the next time you're in the D lol
Plus we kindered spirits, too. I mught put a hurtin' on ya next time. lol
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Reply #12 posted 10/07/05 10:35am

retina

gemini13 said:

Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)


hmm

Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute?

.
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Reply #13 posted 10/07/05 10:36am

abierman

retina said:

gemini13 said:

Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)


hmm

Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute?

.



sorry dude, fancy McDonald's in Sweden won't do the trick..... lol




lol -edit
[Edited 10/7/05 10:36am]
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Reply #14 posted 10/07/05 10:36am

DorothyParkerW
asCool

Turn-ons:

Intelligence/Depth/Independent thought
Style
Self Confidence/Comfortability with self
Wit
Versatility/wide range of interests
Artistic expression
Natural beauty(or some semblence of)
Eyes
Smile
Legs
Scent
Music appreciators
Live and let live attitude

Turn-offs:

Thinking in absolutes
Lack of Creativity
The inability to think outside the box
No Style
Shallow
See art as disposable
Go thru life never truly understanding anything
Bad taste in shoes, and film lol
Excess Hair lol
A person that will not grow with me
Mistaking morality for being judgemental

[Edited 10/7/05 10:37am]
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Reply #15 posted 10/07/05 10:38am

Stymie

DorothyParkerWasCool said:

Turn-ons:

Intelligence/Depth/Independent thought
Style
Self Confidence/Comfortability with self
Wit
Versatility/wide range of interests
Artistic expression
Natural beauty(or some semblence of)
Eyes
Smile
Legs
Scent
Music appreciators
Live and let live attitude

Turn-offs:

Thinking in absolutes
Lack of Creativity
The inability to think outside the box
No Style
Shallow
See art as disposable
Go thru life never truly understanding anything
Bad taste in shoes, and film lol
Excess Hair lol
A person that will not grow with me
Mistaking morality for being judgemental

[Edited 10/7/05 10:37am]
I love your list DPWC. nod
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Reply #16 posted 10/07/05 10:40am

DorothyParkerW
asCool

Stymie said:

I love your list DPWC. nod


Thanx, yours is on point as well. Reading thru these lists gives one hope and lord know sometimes I need it.. lol
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Reply #17 posted 10/07/05 10:42am

Stymie

Slave2daGroove said:

Turn ons -

Integrity
A good person
A funny person (a good laugher is a bonus)
Sarcastic
A person who cares about others more than themselves.
A Great Body with the above mentioned

Turn Offs -

Selfish
Pretentious (selfish's second cousin)
Material possesions obsessed (clothes, cars, jewelry)
Plastic (in looks or otherwise)
High Maintenance Women (too busy to deal with that shit)
Bossy (do not ever tell me what to do)
Lack of integrity (walk the talk or go fuck yourself)
bawl

I' ve got a great set of tits, does that count? lol
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Reply #18 posted 10/07/05 10:43am

Ace

retina said:

gemini13 said:

Financially astute (no i'm not a gold digger, but a guy who knows what he wants)


hmm

Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute?

.

Not if he wants pussy. evillol
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Reply #19 posted 10/07/05 10:43am

Stymie

DorothyParkerWasCool said:

Stymie said:

I love your list DPWC. nod


Thanx, yours is on point as well. Reading thru these lists gives one hope and lord know sometimes I need it.. lol
You don't need hope. You are all that and a bag of chips. clapping
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Reply #20 posted 10/07/05 10:47am

applekisses

Ok...here we go...


Turn ons:

Intelligence
Quirky sense of humor
Great taste in art/movies/music
Self-assurance
Integrity (say what you mean; mean what you say)
Sensitivity
Cares about others as much as himself
Generous
Responsible
Willing to help others
Creativity
Good smelling
Great style
Tattoos
Nice smile
Respectful
Non-judgemental
Loves kids and animals
Willing to take the lead

Turn offs:

Lack of integrity
Selfishness
Insensitivity
Shallowness
Hypocrisy
Closed-mindedness
Uncleanliness
Self-righteousness
Undirected anger
Irresponsibility
No direction
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Reply #21 posted 10/07/05 10:49am

Anxiety

TURN-ONS
eyes and the ability to use them
nice forearms
clothes that fit his personality
just a lil' bit of stubble
sense of humor
healthy sense of irony/skepticism
good conversationalist
open mindedness (KEY)
good record collection (or at least a love of music)
and okay, i won't lie - THE ASS. nod

TURN-OFFS
too much cologne
stank breath
xenophobic attitude
tendency to call lots of things "weird" in a judgmental way (HATE that)
label whores
guys who believe conversation only has one side: theirs
cell phone-a-holics
***INSECURITY***
guys who don't groom themselves - i'm not talking manscaping here - just the basics...swab those ears, clip that nose hair, CUT THOSE NAILS, trim those sideburns a bit, maybe get that hair trimmed and neatened up a bit. basic maintenance.
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Reply #22 posted 10/07/05 10:50am

retina

Okay, when I hear the words "turn-ons" and "turn-offs" it makes me think from a sexual perspective, so this is not necessarily what I'm looking for in a woman regarding a long-term relationship. It's just what "gets me going":

Turn-ons

Feminine looks
Feminine mannerisms
Feminine clothes
Intelligence
Self-confidence
Spontaneity
Passion
Maturity
Openness to trying new things in bed
Soft skin
Nice scent

Turn-offs

Radical feminism
Stupidity
Laziness
Loud-mouths
Body hair
Butch style
Exaggerated pickiness
Passiveness
Too much make-up
Masculine features
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Reply #23 posted 10/07/05 10:52am

retina

abierman said:

retina said:



hmm

Can't a guy know what he wants without being financially astute?

.



sorry dude, fancy McDonald's in Sweden won't do the trick..... lol




lol -edit
[Edited 10/7/05 10:36am]


Oh, of course not. What do you take me for? I bring all my dates to Burger King. nod
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Reply #24 posted 10/07/05 11:00am

abierman

retina said:

abierman said:




sorry dude, fancy McDonald's in Sweden won't do the trick..... lol




lol -edit
[Edited 10/7/05 10:36am]


Oh, of course not. What do you take me for? I bring all my dates to Burger King. nod



try McDonald's.....it might work! lol and don't be too horny (damn those McFlurries!!!!)
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Reply #25 posted 10/07/05 11:08am

Byron

Turn-ons:
Female
Breathing
Nice legs
Drinks Coke

Turn-offs:
Male
Dead
No legs
Drinks Pepsi
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Reply #26 posted 10/07/05 11:11am

abierman

Byron said:

Turn-ons:
Female
Breathing
Nice legs
Drinks Coke

Turn-offs:
Male
Dead
No legs
Drinks Pepsi



falloff Oh lawd, told you once, not telling you again!
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Reply #27 posted 10/07/05 11:13am

sosgemini

avatar

turn ons:

me


turn offs:

2the9s
Space for sale...
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Reply #28 posted 10/07/05 11:21am

Handclapsfinga
snapz

sosgemini said:

turn ons:

me


turn offs:

2the9s

that ain't what he told me....whistling

my list:

ons:
intelligence
sense of humor
geekiness (in the areas of art & music are an absolute plus)
a sense of individuality


offs:
low self-esteem
snottiness
bad hygiene
ignorance


i know i've got more for both lists but i gotta think about it...kinna hard, since i've never dated to begin with. hmmm
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Reply #29 posted 10/07/05 12:12pm

2the9s

sosgemini said:

turn ons:

me


turn offs:

2the9s


Oh please, motherfucker! Please!!
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